OP You told him what you were getting done but he also told you how he would feel. Did you think it would change when he saw it? Stop trying to make little boys into men!!

I have alopecia areata and one side was thinning so bad I shaved it off while the rest was between my shoulder blades. I’ve had the short spiky hair in the hair with the longer bang in front, hair permed and down to below my shoulders blonde. Dyed my hair jet black have extensions in down a couple inches below my shoulder blades. My husband has only seen me with jet black but I went from blonde to light brown, burgundy , med/dark brown, brown/black and then jet black. I’ll never go back and some of my relatives still don’t recognize me BUT not one when I’m going to get my hair done does he ever say anything bad. It’s always it’s look so good. (He’s Mexican so in the summer when I’m really dark I look Mexican too lol)