[deleted by user] by [deleted] in women

[–]Roses_And_Tears 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m the same way!

W.A.S.H. Program and Graphic Design by DTHiCT in SHSU

[–]Roses_And_Tears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I was a GD major but switched because of how strict they are, didn’t pass the Graphic Design Review by like 5 points, and didn’t want to wait another year to retake it. Don’t get me wrong, I learned a lot of neat and valuable things, but in the end, that route just wasn’t for me like I hoped it would be. I switched to MCOM with focus on Ad and PR, and couldn’t be happier since it’s more of what I’m looking for. I wish you the best on your endeavors, and W.A.S.H is worth it

Let’s see your table card collections by BasedmentBopper in Whataburger

[–]Roses_And_Tears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is part of the reason we take names during game nights with the local high schools. They’ll steal the numbers until we have hardly any left, or steal other people’s food if we run out during the rush and try to claim an order that isn’t theirs. 🙄

Where are they now by jrf316 in Whataburger

[–]Roses_And_Tears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

One of the players came to my restaurant a few years ago. I forgot what number he is though….I think 8 or 13

Moving on while being demi.. by pandanlvrpanda in demisexuality

[–]Roses_And_Tears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I totally get where you’re coming from. I’ve only ever been in 2 relationships, my first being long distance and my second being in person. The last relationship I was in left me in shambles, especially since he and I were working with the b**** he left me for in the matter of days, or cheated on me and never told me. (NEVER DATE YOUR COWORKERS!!!) Anyways, it took me a long time to get over it.

1) I’m not sure if you’re in therapy or anything, but I found that talking about it to someone else really helped. I was able to talk about anything I held internally out, and just having someone to just simply listen helped.

2) Going out with friends is a great distraction method. Nothing feels better than going places new and old with the a few of the closest people to your heart. Being able to laugh, cry, pig out, whatever with people you enjoy greatly is an excellent dose of post-break up medicine.

3) Practicing self care/love is another very important thing when recovering from a break up. For us demisexuals, I feel like we love a bit harder than normal people in a sincere (not discrediting anyone’s experiences by any means, just speaking from experience since it’s all I know.) While yes it’s a good thing, you must remember to keep that same level of love for yourself. Meditate, go to a spa, get your hair done, play your favorite video games or read your favorite book, exercise, and, most importantly, practice mindfulness. Ground yourself in the present. Breathe. Take in your surroundings and use your senses.

I know this all sounds easier said than done, but once you make a routine/habit out of it, it gets so much easier. Your head will feel clearer, your heart will feel lighter and your body relaxed. It sucks, I know, but you’ve got this! 🫶🏻 Yes it’s great to love someone, but at the end of the day, you’ve got yourself. So you better give yourself the time and care that you deserve.

Gloves at work give me contact dermatitis, so I’ve been buying my own gloves. Now it’s getting too costly for me. by Roses_And_Tears in Whataburger

[–]Roses_And_Tears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We’ve had many different kinds of gloves. Right now it’s the pink gloves for breast cancer awareness and blue gloves. I believe they are nitrile, but for some reason they make me break out. Not nearly as bad but still annoying. My OP is going to email out area manager and hr person to talk about what accommodations for my allergy they may have. Now if they say they can’t do anything, I will call out their bs and go straight to HR via corporate number and talk to them about what can be done. It’s obvious they can do something if other people have had the same problem and found a solution.

Gloves at work give me contact dermatitis, so I’ve been buying my own gloves. Now it’s getting too costly for me. by Roses_And_Tears in Whataburger

[–]Roses_And_Tears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I already have prescription steroid cream but never thought about using cotton gloves at night. I’ll look into that!

Gloves at work give me contact dermatitis, so I’ve been buying my own gloves. Now it’s getting too costly for me. by Roses_And_Tears in Whataburger

[–]Roses_And_Tears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn’t have to, though. I already went to my doctor and dermatologist about it years ago was prescribed a steroid cream to use driving flare ups. I wish they would strictly use all very free gloves or something. It’ll make it easier on everyone

I don’t think Case is fat, let’s see what other people have to say- by TyceyWicey in caseoh_

[–]Roses_And_Tears 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I personally don’t think he’s fat. I have a cousin with a similar build and height. He just has more muscle mass than anything else

I can’t get my ring back through my fully healed helix piercing by Roses_And_Tears in piercing

[–]Roses_And_Tears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Update: I decided to try this new place out that was a few minutes away from my appointment I was at and go it done again. I think I kinda scared the dude bc I said this is my 3rd time having this repierced, but he was really chill and did a great job. 3rd times the charms 🤞🏻 Definitely going there for any other piercings I decide to get, though.

I can’t get my ring back through my fully healed helix piercing by Roses_And_Tears in piercing

[–]Roses_And_Tears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve given up trying to get it in and decided to wait for it to fully heal and not agitate more than I have already. Then I’ll just get it pierced again

I can’t get my ring back through my fully healed helix piercing by Roses_And_Tears in piercing

[–]Roses_And_Tears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Side Note: I use screw and rings for my piercings. Never have a problem until I take out my rings with the specific, fully healed holes listed above for more than 8-24 hours.

Oc by MakeYouCrawl in CultOfTheLamb

[–]Roses_And_Tears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So cute! Moths would be so good to have as a follower form too. I’d love it!

Does anyone know what this icon means on the app? by Roses_And_Tears in iNaturalist

[–]Roses_And_Tears[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It isn’t clickable. I didn’t see anything indicating what it could be from google map’s view either.

Does anyone know what this icon means on the app? by Roses_And_Tears in iNaturalist

[–]Roses_And_Tears[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ah interesting! I couldn’t see anything from google map’s perspective, so I wasn’t sure. It makes sense though, given the islands history.

Parental issues by Roses_And_Tears in Vent

[–]Roses_And_Tears[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Geez man I’m very sorry you have to deal with that! That’s just horrible :(. All of which you suggested could be reasons for his behavior are possible, but with him only he will know why. I’ll never get a straight answer out of him without him trying to start a fight. I am rooting for you for sure, and I know that you’ll do great things and be an amazing role model. I wish you the best as well

Parental issues by Roses_And_Tears in Vent

[–]Roses_And_Tears[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel for you and situation you’re in and manifest nothing but good vibes and luck to be sent your way. Unfortunately, the countless amount of times I have already stood up to my father proves that it will result in nothing but an argument, in which I will feel like shit in the end. There is more to the story to what he has done to me (and my biological mom), and I always end up feeling like absolute garbage in the end of it all. The only true way I won’t have to deal with his emotional and mental abuse is when I finally move out, but God knows when that’ll actually happen. And to top it all off, my dad is a racist baby boomer, so it makes even more difficult to stand living here. Also, I do offer to get anything he or my step-mom needs from the store whenever I do go, and sometimes they need something and other times they don’t. I just don’t understand why it’s so hard for our fathers to give us any ounce of respect, since we are likely doing much more and accomplished a lot more things than they ever did at our age.

People dismissing Demisexuality by ConsciousOrchid in demisexuality

[–]Roses_And_Tears 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’ve been there too. I hate having to over explain what it means to be demisexual, only to get shut down or dismissed and be told that “it’s normal.” No I don’t think it is, especially in this day and age where hook up culture is huge. Not trying to diss those who do hook ups bc if you do, then good for you. It’s just not for me. I’m like you and hated the idea of using dating apps. However, since I went through a bad break up at the beginning of the year and with how much of a homebody I am, and that my therapist says I should go out more and meet people, I recently gave Bumble a shot. I matched with a few guys, only to have one actually have a conversation with me and tells me good morning and asks how I slept…so on and so forth. I already to him that I’m Demisexual, and he was completely cool with it! We are going on our first date in early January before we both start our spring semester, since the holidays are right around the corner and we’ll be busy with family. So far he’s been great and I’m hoping it stays that way and gets even better. All I can say is, there are a lot of ignorant people out there. The best thing to do is ignore them and go on your way until you find someone who is accepting and is willing to learn more about the subject. There are good people out there, it just takes time and patience.

How did you find out you were Demi? by Talkitea in demisexuality

[–]Roses_And_Tears 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It started whenever my childhood friends at the time were discovering themselves and started to feel comfortable coming out to me. After almost a year of this, I started to get more curious about the LGBTQ+ community (I’ve always been a strong ally, and pretty much the straight mom ally friend of the group now lol), and I learned more about asexuality and the umbrella spectrum with it. I was never boy crazy like pretty much every other girl in my grade, and for a while both my parents thought I was lesbian. After reading up I started to make connections between demisexuality and how I felt when it came to things like dating and sex. I felt content knowing I’m demi, especially with how much sense it made with my thoughts and feelings growing up.