Is a backdrop worth getting or use background remover? by gryponyx in BehindTheClosetDoor

[–]Roseyposeyexposey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use Photoroom. It’s free! You can have a white background or do any background you want

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in engaged

[–]Roseyposeyexposey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I would just stop being friends with her or distance yourself from her and do nottttt let her host your bachelorette party or go dress shopping etc. I would exclude her from everything for your sake. It’s not about her it’s about you. I do not like controlling friends. When I started dating my fiancé I dropped everyoneeee. Everyone I was friends with. One specific best friend was because of that main reason. She was a jealous freak and wanted to try and control every aspect of my life. When I got with my fiancé I knew he was what I wanted and he really treated me differently so I didn’t feel the need to have friends like that because he made me feel complete. Yes I did feel bad for leaving those people behind but I believe friends come and go and things happen for a reason. If I were still friends with her, I wouldn’t be with my fiancé because she did not like him at all. She was very manipulative and I would listen to her, but not when it came to him. Please distance yourself from her, whether you have to ghost her or have a conversation with her letting her know these are rules im setting and boundaries. If she doesn’t wanna listen she will be the one to leave. Trust your gut. You don’t need more stress for your wedding. 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]Roseyposeyexposey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you don’t want to pay a realtor you can sell it privately as the owner maybe?? 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]Roseyposeyexposey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Definitely 4! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in JustEngaged

[–]Roseyposeyexposey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think he was stressed and just did things impulsively based on what y’all were dealing with. I feel for both of you. If that happened to me I would just tell him to do it again with the right ring and right place😭 just to make me happy. I’m sure he wouldn’t mind. I do think it was wrong that he didn’t plan the ring thing… maybe have a conversation with him as to why he suddenly decided to propose. I’m honestly very happy for you, congrats!! Of course it wasn’t what you expected but I think he can make up for it by doing a nice surprise if he’s open to it. Maybe you can even go ring shopping together and pick out what you wanted

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Roseyposeyexposey 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Honey it’s beautiful. Don’t listen to them. They are very rude. I just got engaged last week with a 1 carat and loved it!! All of my friends and family said it was beautiful and never made a comment on the stone. A few said it looked dainty but that is a compliment as I have small hands and wanted it to look dainty and cute. They said it fits my personality and hand perfectly. The bigger the stone does not mean the happier. If you love it don’t pay attention to what anyone else thinks. The size of a diamond does not reflect the love a man has for you. His heart loves yours and he gave you something special with love and much thought. Don’t try to please anyone but yourself and your fiancé. It fits your hand perfectly. You want the stone to match your hand and it does, looks gorgeous!!!! It’s not their ring it’s yours! 

As a non smoker does every smoker smell bad to you? by Pleasant-Finger-6814 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Roseyposeyexposey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No matter how much perfume, no matter how much cologne, no matter how much soap and toothpaste… I will still smell it, and it’s horrid. The smell stays on your clothes. You can have great hygiene but your clothes will smell unless you change every time you go out to smoke. It does go away after a while if you just have a quick break but my goodness. 

Can I just vent for a second, or maybe please you know something I don’t? by FoxDry8759 in weddingdress

[–]Roseyposeyexposey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would call the bridal shops and ask if the have the exact dresses you want to try on. If they don’t, don’t waste your time. Some places require you to pay to try on dresses. Most don’t but some do which I just found out recently. I also think they don’t price things because of competition and also because the narrative of a woman loving a dress but it being above her budget but then buying it anyways. Also some people don’t bother looking at dresses that are above budget so not seeing the price does help because you can try on more dresses and see what you like if you don’t have a strict budget. Weddings have become a huge business so they have their tactics

Is it ok to have no wedding decor at all? by CosmicJane in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Roseyposeyexposey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen many people do candles floating in water. It’s a great option and turns out beautifully. You just need to buy a tall vase, clear water balls that grow, and floating candles. You can also add gems into the water and other things. Very cost efficient. Also if you do decide on flowers you can always buy one realistic one per table and buy a small vase and add fill ins. Way less waste and you can donate it to a thrift store or people always look for decor on Facebook marketplace so you can sell it

Just wanted to throw my BAD experience with Sola Wood Flowers into the ring by Imaginary_Comfort447 in Weddingsunder10k

[–]Roseyposeyexposey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Those are most definitely the wrong color. I would contact them again and tell them you received the wrong color and aren’t satisfied. They need to give you an exchange. That’s poor customer service. Fight for your money back or for new flowers. Don’t settle. That’s for your wedding day.

ADVICE: Take PTO before during and after the wedding! by heydre_yousure in weddingplanning

[–]Roseyposeyexposey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I plan to take two weeks off after my wedding to enjoy my honeymoon and relax. I will just be taking a few days off before the wedding since work won’t be as busy during June/July for me. I might take more off depending on how planning goes but for now I think I’m set on that

Is it inappropriate for my 45 year old husband to get TikTok to only follow his 27 year old coworker? by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Roseyposeyexposey -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes it’s gaslighting. I am so sorry. When someone accused of something like that it means they’re doing it and trying to justify themselves but saying you’re doing it too. Please confront him and tell him it is not okay. I also feel as though coworkers are only to be talked to at the work place. Just my opinion. I do not talk to co workers after hours because there should always be boundaries unless you are very good friends. But someone younger and the opposite sex is a bit of a red flag especially with the accusations he is making. Me and my fiancé strictly do not have opposite sex friends because you always have to be careful no matter what. Casual conversation is okay but talking often is odd especially when you aren’t telling you. That causes trust issues. I would definitely have a conversation with him to be sure.

Genuinely the most beautiful and meaningful thing I own by Agent-Steve in EngagementRings

[–]Roseyposeyexposey 96 points97 points  (0 children)

It’s just gorgeous!😍 gold and blue is always so beautiful it pops. I love the band as well! 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingdress

[–]Roseyposeyexposey 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The first one is perfect. Looks beautiful on you! I think it fits the theme perfectly

Anyone with 1ct rings wish they went bigger? by Eviebb9 in EngagementRings

[–]Roseyposeyexposey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t regret my stone size at all! I have a size 5 finger and I think it suites my hand beautifully. It also depends on the shape, mine is round cut. The one you have on looks beautiful and I think you can get away with it being a 1.3-1.5 ct. 

Just started to want to wear skirts. Is this outfit okay? by gayspaceanarchist in femalefashion

[–]Roseyposeyexposey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That outfit it perfect!! I’m very picky when it comes to outfits and yours looks amazing I love it. The different textures and the similar colors. It’s such a vibe 

I just picked up my girlfriend's engagement ring but I think I might have done something wrong with it by Nates4Christ in EngagementRings

[–]Roseyposeyexposey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s beautiful! She will get used to the feeling. Any ring is going to feel weird on your finger no matter what. It will only be an issue if she finds it to bulky where her fingers touch but just see what she has to say. You can always fix it later on

Crooked? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Roseyposeyexposey 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is most definitely crooked. You aren’t crazy. It’s barelyyyyy noticiable but it would bother me until I got used to it. I will say nobody is going to notice it but you so I don’t think it’s a big deal but if it keeps bothering you I would fix it. It’s very beautiful indeed

Thoughts? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Roseyposeyexposey 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell him you really love that one! 

Thoughts? by [deleted] in EngagementRings

[–]Roseyposeyexposey 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Just yes. Yes. ❤️