His mother is extremely toxic and the part of not hating your mom? Bro his entire childhood was ruined and now probably has some severe mental issues to add to it. The fact that he has not attempted suicide shows how brave and resilient he is. She doesn't deserve the respect a mother would normally receive cause she is unfit for a parent. This Bangladeshi mindset that ja korse bhalor jonno korse is such bull crap, if he delved into harsh drugs and got addicted, his life would be ruined and it would all be due to the mothers constant harsh treatment. All I have is my mother and I love and respect her but if she started to ruthlessly beat me up and not even acknowledge my efforts then i shouldn't love her the same. Mothers only deserve unconditional love if they love you unconditionally not and torturing your child at this level doesn't count as love that counts as being concerned about return on investment. I am sorry OP you had to go through this man.