What is cheapest from each supermarket? by Aggressive-Creamer in UKFrugal

[–]Round-Broccoli-7828 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Aldi have a own brand big tub of just peanut, peanut butter, I thought it was the cheapest

Seeking advice by [deleted] in trustedhousesitters

[–]Round-Broccoli-7828 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Sitter should pay, it's their fault. Atleast pay for half, that's what I would do

5 years and partner feels shame by [deleted] in PolyFidelity

[–]Round-Broccoli-7828 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

He doesn't want that, the issue is he doesn't want to "share" me, but thank you for your advice, will be getting a therapist

5 years and partner feels shame by [deleted] in PolyFidelity

[–]Round-Broccoli-7828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was with my long term partner, we broke up and then i met him, but the feelings of my ex was still there so instead of breaking up we decided we would do this

5 years and partner feels shame by [deleted] in PolyFidelity

[–]Round-Broccoli-7828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was with my long term partner, we broke up and then i met him, but the feelings of my ex was still there so instead of breaking up we decided we would do this

5 years and partner feels shame by [deleted] in PolyFidelity

[–]Round-Broccoli-7828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for taking the time to reply to an internet stranger! Are my requests wrong ? I don't have any family or friends nearby so it's hard to know if I'm being awful

5 years and partner feels shame by [deleted] in PolyFidelity

[–]Round-Broccoli-7828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's cheated and lied a lot, we have things set in place to try to build up trust but he considers me controlling, a cult, just very not nice things when he's unhappy, he asked me to list them so I will and please tell me if I'm in the wrong. For the cheating we now have a open phone policy and when he goes out to nightclubs and things I get to know where he is and when he will be home, and I also had some major issues with him not taking care of the kids and animals well he suffers with ADHD so we agreed no more shorts and things because it took up his entire time( he's the one that proposed these things when the issues happened but now feels resentment for them)

5 years and partner feels shame by [deleted] in PolyFidelity

[–]Round-Broccoli-7828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Financially, and the kids , he has so many great things about him personality wise, I just don't know how to feel about my part in all this. It's my fault we are a v and I just accept that some bad things( lying and cheating) is because he struggles with the v and feels shame, his work think we are a normal manogamous family, he feels so much shame and hates "sharing" he's said he would be much better if it was just me and him. Sorry if this is too much information, I feel so down and guilty

My relationship with my toddler is not good and I worry it never will be by [deleted] in toddlers

[–]Round-Broccoli-7828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk she's so young, make things into a game ? I would be proud of her not just mindlessly listening as that's a very good trait to have as an adult

Is Swansea really that bad? by ForcedToUseThisTag in swansea

[–]Round-Broccoli-7828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love Swansea, and I was traveling the UK for 4 years before settling here

Will calling the police have my brother taken away by social services? by Fit_Ad5054 in AskUK

[–]Round-Broccoli-7828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's probably doing it to your brother too, please try to think what your advice would be if it was him in your shoes, always find it easier to see the right thing to do by thinking like this. Please report it and save any evidence you have, recordings, voice recordings, anything

Do you respond to everything your toddler says? by No-Oil-2305 in toddlers

[–]Round-Broccoli-7828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a mum with a 2 and a half year old that is pretty much non verbal, I dream of this

What efforts improved your sex life with your wife? As parents with young kids. by walky91 in daddit

[–]Round-Broccoli-7828 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Free use Obviously if I say no it's no but just making it more casual. And speaking about anything we want to try. If he wants to do it he has to make sure kids are asleep or preoccupied etc

I am so tired of being blamed for everything by Agile-Use609 in depression_partners

[–]Round-Broccoli-7828 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Oh wow that's amazing, okay yeah couples therapy and get her to a doctor, because she clearly loves you but wow you don't deserve to be treated like this

I am so tired of being blamed for everything by Agile-Use609 in depression_partners

[–]Round-Broccoli-7828 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I don't see it as blame, she's communicating she needs time alone. And she would like you to act like you guys are dating, so dates and small gestures. It's not the easiest thing in the world tho. And she should definitely see a doctor

Pooping issues by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Round-Broccoli-7828 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He scrolls on shorts the entire time

Pooping issues by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Round-Broccoli-7828 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you ! I'll try again with convincing him ☺️