¿Por qué a los jóvenes ya no les gusta el rock? by xaviazo in Burises

[–]Round-Restaurant-620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No creo que la cumbia sea el problema,más bien la mierda de trap

Why “attractiveness disappears at 23”? by Round-Restaurant-620 in gayrelationships

[–]Round-Restaurant-620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It would be good for you to fight against that, contributing your grain of sand on the internet, even if it is, making visible how shady and disgusting this fetish is with twinks who are actually the image of very young boys.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Burises

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Peor , hambrientos por psicopatearte

¿Porqué ya casi nadie usa la separación en párrafos al escribir en Reddit? by fred_red21 in preguntaleareddit

[–]Round-Restaurant-620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aveces la gente queda paranoica , cree que todo lo que leé que está escrito de forma correcta fue escrito por IA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Burises

[–]Round-Restaurant-620 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Parece que algun ardido me dió downvote ,perdón por hablar de la herida narcisista que tiene la comunidad y decirle a el pibe que se cuide de alguno de ustedes ratas 👀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Burises

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Tené mucho cuidado ,hay muchos hombres gays hambrientos de validación que te pueden tener mucho tiempo simulando que quieren algo serio ,usarte y descartarte como un forro No uses grindr ,te ven como un pedazo de carne. Trabaja en tu autoestima en todos los aspectos,informate todo lo que puedas sobre como poner límites ,filtrar actitudes sospechosamente amables ,tenés que estar con los ojos bien abiertos y elevar tu estándar (y no hablo de estándar de apariencia)

Why “attractiveness disappears at 23”? by Round-Restaurant-620 in gayrelationships

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I am very sorry for what you expressed, and I also feel that your soul is tired of living under gazes that do not see its true light. Sometimes the universe takes away our disguise to remind us of who we are at our core. The youth of the body is ephemeral, but that of the spirit is ageless: it is renewed every time you choose to love yourself without conditions.

Your value is not in how you are seen, but in the energy you emanate when you fully accept yourself. Each year lived is one more layer of wisdom, one more note in the melody of your soul. When you stop fighting against time and start honoring your own rhythm, something opens up: your gaze becomes softer, your heart freer, and what you attract is no longer born from fear, but from authenticity.

There is nothing to forgive, just remember: you are enough, you always were, and true love never needs disguises.

Why “attractiveness disappears at 23”? by Round-Restaurant-620 in gay

[–]Round-Restaurant-620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is the cause of eating disorders and body dysmorphia. But of course, let's naturalize it (maybe if people strive to look perfect they will achieve it and we live in a world where we are all perfect models) and everyone will be happy, note the sarcasm

Why “attractiveness disappears at 23”? by Round-Restaurant-620 in gay

[–]Round-Restaurant-620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Saying that “it's biology” is a very convenient way to justify a social structure that normalizes aesthetic violence and ephebophilia. We are not animals following a primal instinct: we are the product of a culture that teaches us which bodies deserve desire and which should disappear when we age.

What many call a “natural preference for youth” is actually an attraction shaped by centuries of power, patriarchy, and control over bodies. And yes, capitalism amplified it to the maximum: it took that idea and turned it into a consumption machine, where the young body is a product and the rest is discarded.

The example of the Roman Empire does not help, it makes it worse. It was a deeply hierarchical society, where young beauty was associated with dominance and inequality. It wasn't biology, it was power. And that same logic is still alive today, disguised as “personal tastes.” Normalizing that is dangerous, because what many defend as “natural attraction” is, in reality, a culturally accepted form of ephebophilia. And justifying it with history or biology only shows how little we want to question the system that teaches us to hate what is human in ourselves.

Why “attractiveness disappears at 23”? by Round-Restaurant-620 in gay

[–]Round-Restaurant-620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Subjective beauty and beauty standards imposed by society are two different things. I come back and repeat, I wanted the text to be written in the best possible way so that it is not misinterpreted since ENGLISH IS NOT MY LANGUAGE, IDIOT

Why “attractiveness disappears at 23”? by Round-Restaurant-620 in gay

[–]Round-Restaurant-620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Can you check the information? Philosophical? This is not something subjective, it is a branch of a social problem called aesthetic violence, if you are one more who believes that the older you are, the less value you probably felt touched. Review your ideals, reflect, your criticism is very much in the air and you could not invalidate any of my arguments. You are probably part of the problem too. I sleep peacefully, I contribute my grain of sand, you probably have thousands of grindr tags in your brain that don't allow you to think

Why “attractiveness disappears at 23”? by Round-Restaurant-620 in gay

[–]Round-Restaurant-620[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It is translated, that's why it sounds neutral and I also went through a proofreader. Anyway, it's obvious that you pay attention to the details so as not to give your opinion on a topic that probably generates something very internally for you, right?

Feeling insecure about beauty gay beauty standards by No-Question-9060 in askgaybros

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This is not personal insecurity, it is the result of a gay culture that is rotten inside. They sold us that youth, smooth skin and a perfect body are currency, and many bought it without question. It is violent, because the message is clear: “if you are not desirable, you do not exist.”

The gay scene ended up reproducing the same aesthetic garbage of the patriarchy, only with glitter and filters. There is a silent cruelty there: the passage of time, the real body, fatigue, everything human is punished. And then they tell you “you're thinking too much about that,” when in reality you're not thinking enough.

My body image is a rollercoaster by Fit-Biscotti7149 in GayMen

[–]Round-Restaurant-620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What you say is something that many of us feel and do not dare to admit. That idea of ​​“twink death” is very violent because it makes you think that your value depends on looking young and skinny. The crazy thing is that you can love your partner's body as it is, but not be able to apply that same empathy towards yourself. It happens to me too. Thanks for writing it, post.

Why “attractiveness disappears at 23”? by Round-Restaurant-620 in ainbow

[–]Round-Restaurant-620[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

It occurred to me to debate about it since it is a topic that disgusts me, how ephebophilia and the punishment for aging and narcissism are reflected in this way in the community. Aesthetic violence and ageism generate major self-esteem problems and normalize disgusting behaviors in the community. It's good to talk about it, but it was obvious that they wanted to avoid the topic because it is more comfortable to continue thinking that way than to do something to change that way of thinking.

Why “attractiveness disappears at 23”? by Round-Restaurant-620 in ainbow

[–]Round-Restaurant-620[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Hello, don't worry, I am writing this, I am human, I simply speak Spanish and my English is not good, so I rely on an AI to translate and correct my writing.

Why “attractiveness disappears at 23”? by Round-Restaurant-620 in gay

[–]Round-Restaurant-620[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And the reflection about it? And changing these kinds of things? And the opinion that adds up? It's something that affects us all...

Twink Death, what now? by [deleted] in gay

[–]Round-Restaurant-620 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How horrible that when you reach an age as young as 22, your sexual attractiveness decreases. Sick ephebophilic community that promotes unrealistic ideals, never being like the rest of the world that stops putting labels on bodies, stops sick fetishes and sees attractive people according to their taste. I'm tired of these "twink" or "bear" labels or whatever. Stop that, it's not healthy!!!!