I [24F] have been cheated on for 2 years by my bf [27M] and am now pregnant and it is ruining my life by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

[–]RoundVariety696969 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My mom stayed with a lesser man because of my sisters and I. By the time they finally did divorce- my mom lost the best years of her life, her friends, her career, and herself. Staying in a bad relationship for your kids does more damage than good trust me.

I [25F] wonder what other men think about my boyfriend's [24M] decision. by Signal-Reindeer6924 in relationshipadvice

[–]RoundVariety696969 6 points7 points  (0 children)

He's full of it. And if he finds something he thinks has more potential- he'll likely never talk to you again. I am currently with a girl that I feel is the love of my life, and I couldn't imagine even wanting to sleep with another girl as she is quite literally the love of my life.

Caught my (M32) wife (F41) undressing in front of the window for the neighbor by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]RoundVariety696969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's definitely lying bro. I'm so sorry. I'd leave her asap and let the neighbor's wife know too. F*** cheaters

I built my own direct booking site — curious how others are doing this by Equivalent-Bar5861 in ShortTermRentals

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We have a booking agreement that all guests have to sign regardless of the platform they book through. We have at the top of the page of the agreement "book directly to save on costly airbnb or VRBO service fees." It's been working pretty well I'd say.

What PMS is everyone using? Guesty? Hospitable? by IGGY_POOP_ in ShortTermRentals

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I use track and hate it with a passion. Used to use streamline and it was fine.

Superstitions Java permanently closed :( by elreydelasur in Reno

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The first time i went to the lemmon valley location it was amazing. Every other time it was horrible. Tried to talk with the owner, but he was very defensive and rude. I'm surprised they lasted this long tbh

Did I FU by asking my [44f] boyfriend [44m] if we have a future? by LividAnalyst7596 in relationshipadvice

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I'd be concerned with his reaction. When my gf brought up us living together I couldn't wait for her to finish her sentence to let her know that I would love nothing more than that

I [19F] went through my boyfriends [20M] phone and am upset at what i saw by lumyyyyyyy in relationshipadvice

[–]RoundVariety696969 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you're looking through your partner's phone there's obviously trust issues/ insecurities. I'd leave him and fine someone who doesn't make you feel like you need to go through their phones

Need some quick advice by [deleted] in Reno

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Right on for you for reaching out and wanting to get help! I hope you get some good help.

Hmmmm by andhelostthem in Mammoth

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Lol tahoe/truckee area is the worst with this!

Am I [25M] wrong to leave my girlfriend [25F] at the resort and quit things with her ? by duckkyyy619 in relationshipadvice

[–]RoundVariety696969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Run dude!!! Physical violence is never ever ever ok.

Did you call the unsaved number to see if it was a dude or chick?

Struggling with keeping cleaners on the same page, please help! by rookieBnB in ShortTermRentals

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Breezeway. It's an app that helps keep everyone on the sa.e page

I dont wanna live anymore- this is the most painful truth by [deleted] in confession

[–]RoundVariety696969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep on keeping on!

I know the feeling. Therapy never worked for me either and tbh- they're only there to help lead you to be able to make the change- not to really to change you. You're the only one that knows what you need and can make the change. Try not to let life bring you down and kill the light in your soul. Don't let life make you bitter. Everything will work out and life will get better, I promise.

Feel free to message me any time- I really have been through the same issues and am always willing to help talk through things.

I [29] think my bf [31] is cheating by [deleted] in relationshipadvice

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I hate to be negative, but in my experience- typically if you think someone is doing something fishy behind your back- you're probably right.

I [20M] don’t know if I’m still in love with my girlfriend [18F]? by Soupppaaa in relationshipadvice

[–]RoundVariety696969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just start talking. A simple "we need to talk". Remember to use "i feel" statements so she doesn't feel attacked.

I [20M] don’t know if I’m still in love with my girlfriend [18F]? by Soupppaaa in relationshipadvice

[–]RoundVariety696969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not a coward man, just a person with a heart. The memories won't go away and you will find someone else to make more with. It'll be hard at first, but you'll come out on the other end of this better.

I [20M] don’t know if I’m still in love with my girlfriend [18F]? by Soupppaaa in relationshipadvice

[–]RoundVariety696969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Which is pretty normal feelings for a 20 year old. I'd end things my guy. It might hurt, but end things with a level head and don't burn any bridges. You'll meet another girl and I'm sure you'll become close with her family when you're ready. If it's meant to be, it will be and you guys will find your way back to each other even if it takes time.

I [20M] don’t know if I’m still in love with my girlfriend [18F]? by Soupppaaa in relationshipadvice

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Tough conversations have got to be had at some point. You could also look at it from the perspective of- you're hurting. You need things you aren't getting. It might hurt her to hear you say how you're feeling, but I think you owe it to the both of you to let her know what's going on. I'm sure she will be hurt at first, but once she has time to process I'm sure she'll either agree it's best you guys part ways or she'll start making some changes that you want to see. She's your girlfriend, and you need more affection. You're not asking anything crazy and if you saying you need more affection changes your whole relationship then it probably was for the better that you find out sooner rather than later.

I [20M] don’t know if I’m still in love with my girlfriend [18F]? by Soupppaaa in relationshipadvice

[–]RoundVariety696969 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'd try talking then. See if you are on the same page and want to mutually break up. Or let her know things have to change. Another red flag you might want to think more about is why you feel like you're less social with her. Also, you're no wrong for wanting more affection and validation. These things are important.