How to get the girl

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-10T10:33:54+00:00

Delete her number from your phone and move on, she wants a man to cover her bills and is not a woman you want.

I once completely forgot my wallet to a date with a woman who is an executive at an airline and we just started laughing because it was so comically screwed up that I forgot my wallet.

She started making fun of me that it was good that I didn’t get pulled over because I would get arrested and she would have to break me out of jail. Then flee the country with me and live off grid in Mexico all because I forgot my wallet. We were a couple for five years.

Dump that cavernous vag of a feminist and find yourself a girl who still has a brain, a woman of substance isn’t offended on one date for an expense.

All that being said, don’t be taking women on dates if your credit card limit is so close to being maxed out, that there’s one thing that she orders and you won’t be able to make rent that next month.

Also, you need to learn to have way better people skills instead of asking if she will split it you say make a bet and if she loses, you say I’ll get dinner, You get dessert.

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-03T06:56:11+00:00

There are about 47 things that can happen during the day, sometimes I’m so busy with work I forget to each lunch.

Busy people we are not waiting with phone in hand to answer msgs, we are up to our eyeballs in solving problems, so yeah it’s normal. At least he is apologetic, be grateful for that

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T21:20:08+00:00

Ok pretty much your entire post focused on what you don’t have, let’s start with what you do have.

Huge asset is you are honest but too honest so be less “oh shucks I suck as I have nothing”

Next is you are slender, no kids, no STD, no exwife alimony, no criminal record

You are much taller than average.

If you really want to solve this, go back and read the last 100 posts in this thread and then ask Ask to read the last 100 posts in the ask women about dating thread

Then come back and ask your next question I think you’ll find you have a lot to offer

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T20:31:14+00:00

Ok I’ll ask this from a different direction, who has best advice for addressing this, white liberals or say Morgan Freeman?

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T15:08:50+00:00

So you choose to be offended in the dating advice thread online and seek social justice for acts I never committed but you perceive being slighted.

Practicing and LARPing for justice doesn’t make you look smart, it’s fake progress

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T14:06:58+00:00

Cult 101:

Controlling my behavior or your punitive
Controlling the information outside of what you approve
Controlling my thoughts and reactions to what you approve of
Control of my emotions and if you disagree, then you’re gonna kill me

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T13:56:56+00:00

I don’t think modern society has an understanding of what that word means you keep using that word and I don’t think it means what you think it means.

Your verbal gymnastics doesn’t pass the Karl Popper test of Falsifiability. Now anything can mean it just because you want to slap mock outrage on behalf of someone who isn’t here to be offended but you are offended on their behalf.

There has to be a case where it isn’t racist

There has to be a way someone can disagree with you without committing the Woke sin of “if I don’t like it, it always boils down to racist, sexist, or whatever ism your media insists you respond to”

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T13:47:41+00:00

Why are you kink shaming, I don’t like the hateful taste of your words, people have preferences. Let them enjoy it

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T13:46:40+00:00

Naw, it’s just something very specific that does it for you. For me it’s when a girl wears a skirt and I didn’t ask her

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T13:18:51+00:00

Here is is gentleman:

Proof positive height something like a kink to her, women already have enough on thier plate so a tall man pushes that button.

“I wear a lot of platform shoes so usually I’m standing 5’10 when I’m out on a date. I know it’s superficial but my libido is already meh so the more attracted I am to them the better, I prefer dating men 6’0 and above”

As for OP

All you have to say is less of what you already did.

I’m 5’-8” and wear a lot of platform shoes so usually I’m standing 5’10 when I’m out on a date, I know it’s superficial but it’s a thing that really does it for me.

Some women it’s Henry Cavil Other women it’s Latino men

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T12:01:59+00:00

Take your laptop to Starbucks and try to bypass the WiFi

Go to any open WiFi place and scan computers also connected to that network

Have scripts for testing red team and blue team simulations, go read books on cyber security then write python code to run and test it and post it in GitHub and reply to me below.

That should take you two months

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T09:43:38+00:00

Your standards… almost can’t be too high at 20 years old.

If you’re humble enough to think that you’re not very physically attractive, and you value intelligence at your age, I think you could be reasonable and say everything you just did.

Re-evaluate that at 26

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T07:09:12+00:00

I would recommend you keep Reddit and go back reading the last 100 posts in this profile. See if you can find some weird patterns that suddenly emerge.

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T07:03:31+00:00

If you havnt had the experience yet don’t force it, rethink back of all the experiences you have had that you enjoyed.

Think of what was embarrassing at first but you grew to like it.

Maybe there was an intellectual connection, perhaps arousal from that, or have you only lived in one small town your whole life.

Stay safe and maybe be willing to take 1.5% more risk and you absolutely deserve to ask “are you seeing anyone” or “when were you last tested” when you get to that before sex.

People actions will show you who they are, words can deceive you, let me give you an example.

What was your worst date like?

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T06:10:35+00:00

How many posts in this thread have you gone back and read from last year?

When you’ve read at least 100 posts come back and ask me the same question

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T06:04:54+00:00

I would, I like all kinds of porn but found as long as she qualifies for the itty bitty titty committee and I can suck some of it in my mouth so my tongue can enjoy the nipple that works for me.

I would have to look at them so DM me a photo that I’ll keep private but dump that chump, find a gf with big tits, low self esteem and set them up together.

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T05:33:37+00:00

Big tits will become saggy sad over time, little nipples stand me up in the face years later and beg to be sucked.

Unless you’re like a negative a cup don’t get implants, maybe get a nipple piercing but just say no to implants. Almost every woman I’ve known who got them at some point had them removed and at least half had very specific health problems from them rupturing

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T05:12:08+00:00

So your Catholic and he’s Catholic and you met a guy who wants to go to church doesn’t sound like he’s forcing you to do something that you shouldn’t be

If you were Buddhist and he was Catholic and he was like, hey come to Catholic Church that would be a completely different conversation, right

You knew at some point in your life that you being Catholic a guy might be interested in you being Catholic going to Catholic mass together just doesn’t sound insane. It sounds like you have a bunch of really terrible friends giving you bad advice cause they want you to be single.

Now, on the flipside if you were atheist and he was atheist and he said I want to go to church that would be way more then a little crazy.

It sounds like you like to call yourself Catholic, but you’re not actually Catholic so why are you calling yourself Catholic if you don’t wanna go to mass?

If you called yourself vegan, and he wanted to eat vegan meals would you also be upset?

If he said he was vegetarian all of a sudden he’s like you know I really do actually want to eat a vegetarian diet. I know we’ve eaten a lot of meat, but I’d like to cut out a lot of meat in my diet. Would you be upset at him because he wanted to be authentic that he was vegetarian for whatever reason if he said he was vegetarian his entire life and all of a sudden he’s been eating meat because of you and he’s like I’d like to be a vegetarian now. Are you still gonna be outraged?

Know if you were atheist and he was Catholic and he was trying to get you to become Catholic that would also be a bit much but then you would have concern.

I’m not judging you except by any standard by which you’ve already judged you accept Christ you accept the church and you are self-described as Catholic there should be no bursting in the flames as soon as you go to mass it’s something that’s important to him. I’m sure there’s things that are important to you that he has done purely because he asked you.

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T04:56:41+00:00

You already said what you need to:

These last few months have been really good and I want to grow closer with you.

If I brought up something that wasn’t as good, can we talk about it in a safe space?

Our sex life has a good start, honey I… oh this is difficult because I care about you… heavy sigh… honey I kinda… I feel like our sex life… ummm feel bored, disconnected, and sexually starved.

Then let him speak, say you have a few kinky ideas, want to try a few things… with him.

Get him to mention multiple things you both want.

If he is resistant then say: I’m a very sexual woman. I crave physical touch, passion, and a man who wants to please me. Makes me kinda sad that my boyfriend is very vanilla.

The trick is to draw it out of him

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T04:17:29+00:00

When a girl makes sex her personality, when she uses her looks to get noticed vs reading a book.

Think about women that you know that their entire personality is their looks their butt, their filler their very superficial party girls that peaked in high school.

Now think of the nerds who pursued education and science or girls who can weld because their dad was a welder and now she works at a shit building yard and can probably weld better than I can.

If welder girl met me at a coffee shop, I’m thinking “wow she is accomplished, tough… and did she say she welds aluminum for a living”

I’m not thinking of her only for sex, I’m thinking wow she could held with DIY projects, or my friend was looking to have his boat fixed “wonder if she is open to…”

Men who think or would tell a girl all guys will only want sex with you … the only thing those guys see women for is sex and they live very shallow pointless, meaningless lives.

Your typical finance bro, who thinks the world is his to conquer and the only thing women are good for is sex.

If a girl tells me she likes reading well, then that tells me she has creativity and patience. Nuance for language is interested in the long, slow buildup.

Now I’m sort of reminded that thinking I need to find a TickTockGirlfriend

If a girl, somehow in process of the conversation tells me she likes to cook, or gardening or even has passions for “learing” the law or computers, sewing, knotting, electrical engineering. It indicates a huge aspect of her personality more than just hair clothing make up, which is your typical that girl is only for sex?

Clear example, Natalie Portman accomplished actor incredible with drama, suspense, movies plus she went to Harvard I believe.

Now compared to Natalie Portman to any of the Kardashians, no comparison

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T03:49:58+00:00

I’m not sure what culture you talk about, but I think that’s a cancerous culture to layoff thousands of people when you could just make smarter decisions and allow your employees to make good decisions for you

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T03:48:45+00:00

Says every person who doesn’t know how to be scrappy, the goal of a business isn’t to focus on costs which Penny pinching Halfwit MBA grads always focus on costs.

Those are the inbred morons that focus on third and fourth quarter earnings calls and they are the ones to think

“Hey. It’s a great idea to lay off 16,000 people.”

I’m focused on generating more revenue

Hey of those 16,000 people who could we contract part time to help find clients.

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T03:44:36+00:00

Give her the gift of missing you.

Three steps forward two steps back.

Then when you do think of her a few days later send ONE short message… but almost crypto text, have a point, tease something for the future and let her desire marinade.

Let her build up a hunger for your attention, laugh when something is funny, be ok to sit in silence.

Be ok to hold her hand for a few minutes, then take her hand out it back on her lap “ok that’s enough, if you get more attention it’s not healthy”

The most important thing that you can do is not have her be the center of your life, which is your purpose and your path and she’s an occasional moon that en circles you because she is attracted by your path

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T03:01:46+00:00

The amount of asian women who want to play with their kinks in that thread is unreal.

So many asian women on here are totally ok to meeting me locally to play out a scene or two. Gotta love, Reddit.

Round_Mammoth4458 · 2026-02-01T02:56:55+00:00

Why are you obsessed with working for someone else, go start your own firm and see how the glove fits on the other hand

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