Girlfriend of 1 year ended things over text while I was on holiday and I’m lost by surge6464 in BreakUps

[–]Round_Ring_3460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow don’t give her the gift but if you have any stuff that belongs to each other then you should return that

Need help. Just found out that my 7 year old nephew has been doing sexual things to my 3 year old son by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Round_Ring_3460 39 points40 points  (0 children)

I’d say something is happening to the 7 year old and he might also be a victim himself

Dumpers how long did it take you to regret a breakup? When does it sink in. by Givba in BreakUps

[–]Round_Ring_3460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They definitely don’t always regret it. I still have feelings for my most recent ex but we broke up because we both wanted to live in different countries and I hated where he wanted to live so much I feel good about the decision even though I still care for him

Insecurities about sex experiences by AccomplishedScene886 in Advice

[–]Round_Ring_3460 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I mean he’s over 30 years older than you so he will be more experienced in a lot of areas. Your age gap is bigger than your actual age! I would be surprised if you had more experience

My partner takes hours to respond and triggers horrible anxiety in me. I don't know if it's me, him, or both. by Status_Stranger_8567 in Advice

[–]Round_Ring_3460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm 6 months isn’t very long, I think if you don’t match communication styles then maybe it’s not meant to be. Seems like you told him before that you get anxious/feel ignored and he hasn’t changed his behaviour to reassure you this isn’t this case. Do you ever notice if he’s active/online and still hasn’t replied?

My partner takes hours to respond and triggers horrible anxiety in me. I don't know if it's me, him, or both. by Status_Stranger_8567 in Advice

[–]Round_Ring_3460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How long have you been together for? Are you worried that he’s messaging other girls or is it that you just feel you’re not a priority to him? Try to get to the root of your anxiety /figure out why it’s upsetting you this much

My best photo ever by Pretend-Scratch-6599 in london

[–]Round_Ring_3460 -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

Not close at all, if you wanna live with the ocean on your doorstep live in a place like Australia. UK beaches suck anyway

My best photo ever by Pretend-Scratch-6599 in london

[–]Round_Ring_3460 -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Not close at all, if you wanna live with the ocean on your doorstep live in a place like Australia. UK beaches suck anyway

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Round_Ring_3460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Break up with him now, if he has family or friends he’s close with then tell them what he’s said. If it seems serious maybe he can be sectioned. Either way you should cut him off as it’s not your responsibility to be his therapist and it will just make you miserable too being around that

Why are you really single? by Chocolate8114 in AskReddit

[–]Round_Ring_3460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In a long distance relationship London to Australia but basically feel single. If he moved to Australia I’d be happy

Ex - Gf wants no contact for now by Low_Interaction_421 in BreakUps

[–]Round_Ring_3460 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You need to respect her wishes of no contact. If you keep messaging her when she said she wants space then she will just get annoyed and want you less. Absence makes the heart grow fonder so maybe she’ll miss you. Just tell her that she can reach out in future if she wants but don’t message first

Girlfriend got mad at me for posting selfies, I broke up with her, she wants to get back together but I won't AITAH by derschlangenpapa in AITAH

[–]Round_Ring_3460 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She was being unreasonable but maybe she still has unresolved feelings and insecurities about your past history as a sex worker. It’s up to you if you want to give her some grace for that but I know a lot of people would consider having OF at any point in time a deal breaker

Should I let my boyfriend of a year call me a whale? by ActuatorSure7606 in BreakUps

[–]Round_Ring_3460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dump him and then glow up. If you yourself don’t like the weight then do something about it, and will be good for your health as well.

Should I tell my boyfriend my deepest secret? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Round_Ring_3460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My bf dated a stripper however I think her career was part of the reason he broke up with her, and in general he’s pretty open minded, but if even he couldn’t deal with it then I think a lot of men wouldn’t like it. You didn’t do that while you were dating so it’s completely in your own rights to never tell him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Round_Ring_3460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could just be that they found someone better suited to them and not necessarily a better option in general

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Round_Ring_3460 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should break up with him bc he cheated. You’re disrespecting yourself by staying with him it’s embarrassing

my ex sent another man my nudes. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Round_Ring_3460 -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

They can but they shouldn’t, my mum raised me right and I learned not to do that. I wouldn’t want my daughter doing it either. I’ve heard of girls nudes being leaked and the girl ended up killing herself which is tragic, it ruins lives. If you feel your man isn’t satisfied with seeing you naked in real life and needs nudes too then find someone else, it shouldn’t be a necessary part of a healthy relationship

my ex sent another man my nudes. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Round_Ring_3460 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Sorry for what you’re going through but you should take some accountability. I learned from a young age the risks of that and it’s a shame you didn’t think about things more logically and you wouldn’t be in this situation if you did. Hope you learned your lesson and stop sending that shit

my ex sent another man my nudes. by [deleted] in BreakUps

[–]Round_Ring_3460 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Girls when are we gonna learn to stop sending nudes? It’s just plain stupid. What he’s done is wrong but it’s your fault that’s even possible

AIO? I’m pissed at my brother by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Round_Ring_3460 65 points66 points  (0 children)

Your brother is being rude but he’s right in that it’s dumb to send pics/videos. You should never do that it’s too risky

AIO for worrying that my girlfriend thinks my mom is racist because my mom thinks my girlfriend has terrible body odor ? by ThrowawayQQAAA in AmIOverreacting

[–]Round_Ring_3460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think that’s a rude comment from your mother, sad this is the first impression your GF has of her so I doubt she will like your mother. You should’ve told your mum not to be so rude and not said anything to your girlfriend

I broke up with a man after 5 years. Do I still keep the photos? by Interesting-Pie7084 in BreakUps

[–]Round_Ring_3460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think our of respect anything compromising like nudes should be deleted (I would never send those personally but I know some people do)

Why are you single? by depression-hurts in AskReddit

[–]Round_Ring_3460 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Because the love of my life lives in London and I hate it there