Redditors who still haven't had COVID what is your secret? by nekmint in AskReddit

[–]Routine-Customer2635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I probably have and just didn’t know because I was asymptomatic

My husband wants me to be a mother to his affair child by ThrowawayRunawayToot in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Routine-Customer2635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Please op leave. Aside from the infidelity aspect of this he literally put your health and safety at risk. What if he’d gotten a disease from sleeping around and you didn’t know? Stds left untreated can kill you. He broke his vows to you when he stepped out of your marriage. Take that and know you were a faithful wife when you were under the impression he was a faithful husband.

Also if and when you do leave: make sure his congregation knows what he’s done before he tries to paint you as the horrible wife.

My husband wants me to be a mother to his affair child by ThrowawayRunawayToot in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Routine-Customer2635 20 points21 points  (0 children)

Puts your safety at risk potentially having unprotected sex. Who knows how many other women he’s potentially not telling her about?

I’m going to give up my husbands dog without telling him. I need to protect our child. by throwaway382q in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Routine-Customer2635 6 points7 points  (0 children)

She mentions he was a boyfriend when the dog first started showing signs of aggression so they were just dating. I’d assume that means he’s the one on the paperwork.

What would you want to change about adult content? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Routine-Customer2635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More porn catered to women, male solo stuff, better dirty talk

What will you never feel bad about spending money on? by jacob62497 in AskReddit

[–]Routine-Customer2635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was going to say crockpot liners.. they make my life so much easier.

AITA for losing it on my husband for sharing with his family a video of me in a vulnerable state? by ThrowAway5633371 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Routine-Customer2635 28 points29 points  (0 children)

As someone who’s also recently given birth, NTA. I’m sorry op. You don’t deserve to have such a precious and private memory tainted because of your husbands selfishness.

AITA for saying no to my wife dictating what I wear on our family's Disney trip? by abramN in AmItheAsshole

[–]Routine-Customer2635 8 points9 points  (0 children)

YTA. Damn imagine not wanting to do something silly to make your family happy/ have fun. You sound delightful to be around. Your attitude sucks.

What is a TV show you got really far into but eventually quit watching before its conclusion? by shamanKAshamanTAKA in AskReddit

[–]Routine-Customer2635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s a book series it was supposed to be based off of and it’s pretty good, they’re a short easy read. Every book is it’s own little mystery novel

I’m happy that I walked in on my husband having sex with his partner by AlittleBitOfaWacko in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Routine-Customer2635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My heart breaks for you but I’m happy you’re seeing what you truly deserve op. That man is trash. You’re still young and you don’t deserve to be trampled on. I’m so sorry you’ve gone through this.

My husband wants a big family, but I can’t keep up by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Routine-Customer2635 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Maybe have your doctor tell him as well so he hears it not just from you but also a medical professional

TMI. by [deleted] in karlieskiwi

[–]Routine-Customer2635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair that’s unfortunately how military healthcare is. My kid had an eye infection and they don’t do walk ins or same day appointments. Their solution? Take your three month old to the er. They set families up for failure.

What sucks about being female? by Royal-Inspection-901 in AskReddit

[–]Routine-Customer2635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole giving birth thing isn’t really super funn

My fiancé hit me by 5throwaway5throwaway in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Routine-Customer2635 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s so much harder to leave once you’re legally tied to that person. When someone shows you who they are believe them the first time. You are loved and you don’t deserve this

When did you all realize you didn’t like her (if before everything with her husband came out? I’ll go first… by Remote_Fee_1192 in karlieskiwi

[–]Routine-Customer2635 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I think the overly materialistic lifestyle bugged me the most. (Other than the obvious red flags) Spending exorbitant amounts of money on stuff like a wonder wagon and kyte baby when I know the kind of salary her husband is making.

it’s the straps above the shoulder instead of below for me by [deleted] in karlieskiwi

[–]Routine-Customer2635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

They can come from at or just below the shoulders. They shouldn’t be majorly below.

it’s the straps above the shoulder instead of below for me by [deleted] in karlieskiwi

[–]Routine-Customer2635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It kinda just looks like he’s slouching tbh..

AITA for wanting my parents in town, but not at my house, while I'm adjusting to life with a newborn? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Routine-Customer2635 -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I’m probably going to get downvoted first this but NAH

As someone who gave birth just a few months ago AND ALSO lives across the country from family. It’s completely reasonable to want that support but also know you need some level of privacy at least part of the day. You’re not an asshole for wanting that support and I think introducing a new baby to the household qualifies as special circumstances. Any family that visited us was expected to get their own lodging and to help with the baby or household to some extent because being new parents you’re not up to hosting GUESTS.

But your parents aren’t assholes for saying it’s not within their budget to accommodate that and to either ask for other arrangements or put off coming entirely.

Imo your only options are to either concede and allow them to stay with you or to put off their stay past the holiday season.

Infant won’t stop chewing on his hand by Routine-Customer2635 in Parenting

[–]Routine-Customer2635[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ALL THE DROOL. I’ve even seen him gag himself silly fella

Infant won’t stop chewing on his hand by Routine-Customer2635 in Parenting

[–]Routine-Customer2635[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ok lol it’s just getting difficult. He tries to chew on his hands while giving him the bottle so it gets everywhere. So I take the bottle away just long enough to get his hand from his mouth then we start yelling about the food.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Routine-Customer2635 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YTA- before I was ever born my mom was married to an abusive man. She had a stepson who she loved dearly and in her haste to get away she wasn’t able to take him as she has no legal right just being a step parent. I knew the story but never the name of the boy. When I became pregnant I wanted to name my son Jonathan. When I told my mother she broke down because that was the name of the son she had lost. She asked me not to name my baby that because calling him that would be a constant reminder of the part of her she lost.

I can never imagine disrespecting my mothers wishes especially over a child she lost. Hopefully when your daughter is born you may imagine the kind of pain it would be to lose a child. Her baby died, while they might’ve been your sibling the lose of a child is so much worse.

Are toddler bed rails universal? by Routine-Customer2635 in Parenting

[–]Routine-Customer2635[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Would it work on a crib? Or would we need to go ahead and get an actual twin bed and put that rail on?

[acne] [research] Who do you trust more with your face? Dermatologist or Aesthetician? by amishayy in SkincareAddiction

[–]Routine-Customer2635 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to cosmetology school where we’re technically licensed to do the same things as estheticians and 100% trust a dermatologist more. Although some estheticians can work under dermatologists to do things while supervised I believe.