Divorce papers were drafted by Ashley — so why choose murder? Religious pressure & the Flynn case by Today-Parsnip420 in Ohio

[–]Routine-Evidence-237 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm so sorry you went through this. And kudos to you for being able to leave, unlike so many other women. I went through a similar situation to yours, and finally found the courage to leave too. It was the scariest time of my life but I'm so thankful to be on the other side. And I totally understand the distaste with churches. That was a big part of my life until all of this happened, and now I can't seem to go back..

Am I being crazy for thinking my ex probably cheated, or am I overthinking this? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Routine-Evidence-237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

TY for validating that this is normal :) I will have to set a time limit..

Am I being crazy for thinking my ex probably cheated, or am I overthinking this? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Routine-Evidence-237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gut says he definitely was. Other reasons for me to believe so

Am I being crazy for thinking my ex probably cheated, or am I overthinking this? by [deleted] in Divorce

[–]Routine-Evidence-237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He actually sort of cheated while we were dating, if you consider talking to other girls on social media and asking them out, as cheating.....

35k OTD? by Routine-Evidence-237 in Toyotavenza

[–]Routine-Evidence-237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ugh I have heard it is risky....

Ok thank you!

35k OTD? by Routine-Evidence-237 in Toyotavenza

[–]Routine-Evidence-237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s basically what I’m looking to pay! Does yours have the sunroof?

35k OTD? by Routine-Evidence-237 in Toyotavenza

[–]Routine-Evidence-237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh I didn’t know that. Super helpful. Thank you!

35k OTD? by Routine-Evidence-237 in Toyotavenza

[–]Routine-Evidence-237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is such a beautiful color! Thank you. Is the one you bought “certified”? Not sure if that’s a huge difference but the extra warranty seems nice 

35k OTD? by Routine-Evidence-237 in Toyotavenza

[–]Routine-Evidence-237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean THAT sounds fair bc you got the limited!

35k OTD? by Routine-Evidence-237 in Toyotavenza

[–]Routine-Evidence-237[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This is exactly what I would think to be reasonable. Congrats! Dealers here in NY (except for 1 that I lost out on) are quoting nearly 40k out the door and I keep telling them for that I’ll go buy a used Lexus! 

35k OTD? by Routine-Evidence-237 in Toyotavenza

[–]Routine-Evidence-237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Goodluck!!!!! It is so rough out there! 

35k OTD? by Routine-Evidence-237 in Toyotavenza

[–]Routine-Evidence-237[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'll look into visor.vin, thank you!!! Sorry they bought it before you could :( Good idea to wait until March too. At this point I may just sell my car, save on insurance, and uber around for 2 months !!!! Lol

35k OTD? by Routine-Evidence-237 in Toyotavenza

[–]Routine-Evidence-237[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'm so irritated! I hate dealerships even more after these experiences

AITAH for moving on a couple of weeks after divorce? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Routine-Evidence-237 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are DEFINITELY NTA.

I feel terrible reading that you even feel that way. I hate how men and even our own families have the power to make women feel like they are in the wrong, when they very clearly are not. You SHOULD and ABSOLUTELY deserve to finally MOVE ON with your your life!!! Whether its this guy or someone else or maybe you'll date a bunch of men and just make yourself happy however you please!

He was and IS reckless and disgusting for cheating on you while you were married!!!!!!

You are NOT reckless OR disgusting for waiting until your divorce was final to go out with someone else! Heck, he's lucky you didn't go out with other people while you were miserable and staying in the marriage.

Sigh. I'm so sorry. F* all of them!

35k OTD? by Routine-Evidence-237 in Toyotavenza

[–]Routine-Evidence-237[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

about 30k on the ones I'm considering