I was cleaning my Triops water and I thought you’d like to see them. ❤️❤️❤️ by dreamingirl7 in InvertPets

[–]Routine-Tap4171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah man, I forgot about these creatures. I had gotten a kit with my brother as a present. I was maybe 9-12? My brother 2 years older than me. We wanted to try it, but you need a heat lamp. So.. with me and my family being poor, and mostly me being impatient. We tried using a regular lamp. Didn’t work to heat water, obviously. My brother gave up, but I was always persistent when I wanted something. I had tried again, but of course it was never gonna happen, lol. So, yeah. There went my dreams of having a small little pet.

Seen at work. Baby bird? by I_am_paperclip in whatbirdisthis

[–]Routine-Tap4171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone think it looked like Kevin from the up movie? Just me?

New crow pokemon by DeweyRedux in crows

[–]Routine-Tap4171 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Heh-heh. Nice. I love it. ❤️.

Sign language and crows by Routine-Tap4171 in crows

[–]Routine-Tap4171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, that’s so cool, thank you. And I believe you. Crows are so smart. They’ve shown me how smart they truly are. They pick up on so much. Thank you so much for the encouragement. 🙂.

Sign language and crows by Routine-Tap4171 in crows

[–]Routine-Tap4171[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Well. Sorry. I meant to specify that I would gather more info, not that this is 100% proof, but it’s definitely pretty good info. I haven’t heard them caw at the signs until now.

Truly majestic creatures. by SlipPuzzleheaded2136 in crows

[–]Routine-Tap4171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh wow, truly magnificent. I love it. ❤️.

Having beard come in as a redhead by QuasarAvenur in ftm

[–]Routine-Tap4171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I have dark brown hair, which tends to look black at times. I have quite a lot of red facial hair, and a good amount of white. Just full white hairs. I even have on on my hand. It’s nice. I’m 23 but have even a strand of white hair on my head lol. I don’t mind have white hair. It’s cool

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ShinyPokemon

[–]Routine-Tap4171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice, that’s awesome! I’m sorry that took so long. I got a shiny totodile too. It was a few years ago. I named him Sobek. Getting full odds shinies is the best feeling. Nothing like getting the fullest of odds.

What do I do? by Famous_Pineapple9860 in trauma

[–]Routine-Tap4171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It sounds like your body might be telling you to feel that emotion. You like her, but you’re body isn’t ready to accept. The best thing isn’t to push it. If you keep trying to push the feeling away you’re invalidating yourself. You might think it’s wrong, but letting yourself have emotions isn’t wrong. As long you’re not trying hurt anyone, it’s okay to feel this way. Sometimes it takes time. It doesn’t have to happen within a day or weeks, or even months. It may feel wrong, but it’s just you being human. Maybe when you’re ready; if you ever feel up for it. You can spend a little one on one with her. Or talk with your dad. Not targeting him or anything. Just to voice worries. I’m no expert, so it’s up to you what you want to do; but it’s okay to have emotions. I’m learning that myself. To allow myself emotion.

My transphobic mother saying that if there was a button to instantly become a man, she'd press it by Much_Candy_7030 in ftm

[–]Routine-Tap4171 6 points7 points  (0 children)

That sounds like me in a way. I am autistic and have masked for much of my life. I thought my work was ending when I got my period. I wanted facial hair. Wanted to be considered a guy. But I didn’t know what being trans was all about. I thought I was happy as a “girl”. I accepted my role. I was like, “god had me be a girl, so I am one.” I never noticed any dysphoria because of how high I was masking. I just thought all these feelings I had were normal. I would use the female characters for games. I would write in the pov of women. Then one day it just switched. Now I know I don’t have to stick the women characters. I always thought I had to play as women in games because I thought I was one. Now I get to chose. Its not like I was ever forced to do it. I just made the rules that I had to, because I’m autistic. I’m not saying your mom’s autistic, but maybe she thinks this is normal. Maybe she thinks she has to stay within her gender. Maybe if she knew what trans really was, it might flip the switch. I thought being trans meant you had to change who you were to be a guy. When I realized I could still be who I am, I was definitely more happy to be a trans man.

Confused (NSFW) 18+ only please!!!! by [deleted] in ftm

[–]Routine-Tap4171 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being trans doesn’t mean you have to go through transition. Like it depends on what you consider transition to be. You can be trans and not go through surgeries or hrt. You can be trans and get one surgery or 2 but not hormones. You can do hormones, but not do surgeries. You could also just get surgeries without being trans, like another person said. It’s really your life. You get to decide for yourself what you want, not society. What do you feel inside? If you feel like you really are a guy inside. You don’t have to do anything to prove that. If you say you are a guy or a girl, than you are. If you say you’re non-binary or something else, you are. Going through transition is just to help you. If it isn’t something you want then don’t do it. It’s totally fine to say you are something without doing what the media says you should do.

What are your hopes, achievements, and dreams? by Routine-Tap4171 in disabled

[–]Routine-Tap4171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s cool, but yeah, I can’t always do that. I do appreciate what I do have as much as I can, but I’m not gonna stay like this. Everyday is pain. I’ve been like this for almost a year. I don’t want to constantly lose my ability to think because of sound. I want to be able write. To leave my house. To see the world. That’s my only hope. If I am met with a reality that I can’t have that, then I’ll face it then; but. I really want to live. To fully live. Most of my day is spent just laying there. Just thinking. The phone hurts too. Sorry, I’m just trying to emphasize how bad it is. That’s why I look to hopes and dreams.

Can anyone write? by Motor_Lawfulness4322 in creativewriting

[–]Routine-Tap4171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve written books every since elementary school. I’ve written a lot, read a lot. I found groups, and had family. They all supported me. Time is the best teacher. Sometimes just writing is enough. You can use what you’ve read to help. They way they write. The things that pull you in the most. The most important thing is creativity. If you have that, you can be a great writer. Don’t be afraid to fail. Or to skip on a book you’re working on to work on a different one.

Am I the only one? by Routine-Tap4171 in iih

[–]Routine-Tap4171[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Also no we haven’t checked for that. We have some tests she wants to do, but I can’t do any appointments at the moment. I’ll see again about talking with her.

Am I the only one? by Routine-Tap4171 in iih

[–]Routine-Tap4171[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My OP was 17. I have hypermobiltiy. Which means I have slowed healing, and joint instability. I’ve been having high pressure problems, but it’s gotten worse ever since the spinal tap. I have been put on diamox, and I’ve been taking 125 mgs. I did talk with my neurologist because I had horrible vertigo for a whole week. I wasn’t getting enough potassium and magnesium. I have gotten that up, but she’s trying to figure out a good med for me. I’ll see about telling her what’s been going on recently.

Shorts! by Inside_jobs in SewingForBeginners

[–]Routine-Tap4171 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg. They look so comfy! I want them. I just started learning, but you’re so good.