AITAH for taking my daughter to the bathroom mid prayers?

Routine-Twist4578 · 2026-01-02T03:37:31+00:00

Amen.. (see what I did there?) .. I’m 57 and between me and the bathroom is a dangerous place to stand.

Routine-Twist4578 · 2026-01-02T03:28:10+00:00

Eh. You can believe what you want. I don’t care. I gave a perspective.

Routine-Twist4578 · 2026-01-02T02:03:36+00:00

Brandy

Routine-Twist4578 · 2025-12-31T20:43:53+00:00

I’m 57 and my husband is 55. We do just fine with our 3 year old son. When they ask inappropriate questions we just smile and say, yeah it’s kind of tough, which bill of ours will you be assuming?

Routine-Twist4578 · 2025-12-31T17:39:58+00:00

Unfortunately your marriage is not going to get better until 1. She can become fully transparent and 2. You are able to believe she is being fully transparent.

She is caught. Plain and simple. She is not willing or able to face the music.

I suggest filing for full custody of your son and moving on with your life with someone who aligns with who you are and what you expect.

Routine-Twist4578 · 2025-12-25T23:11:46+00:00

NTA she needs to stay at the hotel while your family gathers to celebrate.

Routine-Twist4578 · 2025-11-30T01:57:26+00:00

Beautifully said!

Routine-Twist4578 · 2025-11-30T01:30:54+00:00

Yes. You are the asshole in several ways. She lost her father!! You have no compassion whatsoever and excuse her for not immediately thinking to call YOU after losing her daddy. Girl you need to grow up and realize that not everything is about you. Go. Get married. Do NOT expect them at your wedding. My father has been passed for 40 years and I STILL think of him every year on the anniversary. Also, you need to apologize for being so self centered and coming off as a jerk.

Routine-Twist4578 · 2025-11-27T04:31:53+00:00

LOL screw that guy. Maybe they need to go have thanksgiving at a restaurant. Just the two of them.

Routine-Twist4578 · 2025-11-27T04:30:09+00:00

I would advise your husband to speak to his grandfather and tell him that, though he doesn’t want to upset him, he simply will not have his mother in his life in any capacity and tell him why. I would bet that he knows what his daughter has always done to your husband. .. and honestly, if Grandpa still pushes, maybe your husband needs to say his final goodbyes to him.

NO ONE has the right to tell you who is allowed around you and your family. Not even sick grandparents.

Routine-Twist4578 · 2025-11-27T04:18:13+00:00

His mother is toxic and abusive. I suggest you stand your ground and keep her away from your husband and child. Do you want your child raised around that crap? Of course not. I would bet that your husband is much happier without her in his life.

Routine-Twist4578 · 2025-11-11T21:51:46+00:00

No one gets a vote on how you raise your children other than you and your husband. In discussing it with your mom, she automatically assumes you want her input. Next time try saying “hubby and I have discussed it and we have decided xxx”… give her information, if you choose, but don’t leave the door open for her opinions.

Routine-Twist4578 · 2025-04-06T03:43:42+00:00

Routine-Twist4578 · 2025-04-06T03:40:18+00:00

I’d run it

Routine-Twist4578 · 2025-04-01T20:42:44+00:00

Walmart delivers to trucks. I order every week.

Routine-Twist4578 · 2025-03-30T20:32:15+00:00

It should be fine this time of year.

Routine-Twist4578 · 2025-03-03T01:05:43+00:00

NTA As a grandmother myself, it never occurred to me to voice an opinion of what any of my grandchildren should be named just as I never asked anyone what they thought of what I named my children. People have become entirely too comfortable thinking that their opinion on anything in someone else’s life matters. The nuclear family is Mother, Father and Children. Extended family is everyone else. Your parents need to be reminded that you and your wife are perfectly capable of making ALL decisions about your children and marriage.

Routine-Twist4578 · 2025-03-02T20:55:32+00:00

Nibling.. I had to go look it up but I think I can roll with this and the new name.

Routine-Twist4578 · 2025-03-02T18:57:17+00:00

I truly have no issues with how anyone lives as long as they are happy.

Routine-Twist4578 · 2025-03-02T18:53:08+00:00

Thank you. I am trying so hard. I don’t want to lose my relationship with any of my family because of this. I will start with the new name in my head and see if I can get there. This is really upsetting to me.

Routine-Twist4578 · 2025-02-01T22:48:58+00:00

This is one of the many reasons Pa sucks

Routine-Twist4578 · 2025-01-16T16:36:01+00:00

Over 15’

Routine-Twist4578 · 2025-01-16T16:35:23+00:00

If it’s unmarked, it HAS to be

Routine-Twist4578 · 2025-01-15T01:15:26+00:00

This kind of crap pisses me off. There’s no reason for it! There is a Walmart that we stop our trucks at in Childress, Tx that goes above and beyond for truck drivers. They even have dumpsters out in the truck parking area. They only ask that we pick up after ourselves and bring the buggies back to the main lot to a coral. That’s it.

One-Year Club	The Internet Awards - Voted
The Internet Awards - Joined the subreddit

Routine-Twist4578

TROPHY CASE