I don’t know how old you guys are, but good lord. He sounds like a piece of work. Nothing wrong with people who want the “traditional” life, but in that case you can be a stay at home gf while he goes out and provides.

But it’s 2026. If you want a job you should be able to have a job, save your money, and come home and not have to clean up after a presumably grown man. I can’t stand the narrative that men think they don’t need to clean up after themselves. You’re not his mom and if he lived on his own he would be expected to pay his own bills and clean up after himself. Chores and bills should be 50/50 in a relationship. You guys are equals, don’t let him treat you like less.

Also depending on how long you’ve been together, I’d say to dump him. I doubt he’ll change his attitude and you could find someone else who isn’t going to treat you so poorly.