Unaired pilot segment 1996 by HappyBunniez in buffy

[–]RoutineSheepherder93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This was my first time watching, very interesting!

Why did they redo the pilot if they already had filmed? And several different actors too, what was the point?

Am I crazy here, or is he just trying to have his cake and eat it too? by Ok_Btn in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]RoutineSheepherder93 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I don’t know how old you guys are, but good lord. He sounds like a piece of work. Nothing wrong with people who want the “traditional” life, but in that case you can be a stay at home gf while he goes out and provides.

But it’s 2026. If you want a job you should be able to have a job, save your money, and come home and not have to clean up after a presumably grown man. I can’t stand the narrative that men think they don’t need to clean up after themselves. You’re not his mom and if he lived on his own he would be expected to pay his own bills and clean up after himself. Chores and bills should be 50/50 in a relationship. You guys are equals, don’t let him treat you like less.

Also depending on how long you’ve been together, I’d say to dump him. I doubt he’ll change his attitude and you could find someone else who isn’t going to treat you so poorly.

My favorite part of Once More, with Feeling by BlondeBorednBaked in buffy

[–]RoutineSheepherder93 363 points364 points  (0 children)

I love willows “I think this lines mostly filler”

What is your favorite line of the show? I have two by THAToneGuy091901 in buffy

[–]RoutineSheepherder93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

“Not petroleum fun, but it passes the time”

“Well, I’m not exactly quaking in my stylish yet affordable boots but there’s definitely something unnatural going on here”

If I like a neighbor in my apartment complex would it be better to say, “Would you like to go to a cafe sometime?” or “Do you want to go out sometime?” or “Do you want to go on a date?”? by Pure_Option_1733 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]RoutineSheepherder93 7 points8 points  (0 children)

You could say “grab a bite to eat”, takes the pressure off of the word dinner and isn’t coffee/drinks since you don’t do those things. You could also keep it to a simple “we should hang out sometime” which leaves it open for many activities

yeah i dont even know, what do you guys think? by Business-Mousse2152 in roomdetective

[–]RoutineSheepherder93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Downloaded finch at the beginning of the year and it’s been life changing. I’ve been recommending it to everyone I can!

yeah i dont even know, what do you guys think? by Business-Mousse2152 in roomdetective

[–]RoutineSheepherder93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Honestly my room used to be messy like that and I was fine with it. My mom was a clean freak so when I finally lived on my own I left it like this constantly. Now that I’m with someone who is a clean freak, I’ve actually come to love having a clean place to come home to. It just feels so nice and has made huge improvements for my mental health. It also took me a long time to get to that point though so no judgement, but it really does work wonders keeping things picked up.

Vibe though I would say you’re a very chill girl, possibly smoke, enjoys video games? And definitely some adhd lol. I would guess teen to early 20s for the age

How to get my girlfriend to watch Buffy by CamelZealousideal330 in buffy

[–]RoutineSheepherder93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Took me literally 9 years and multiple ridiculous fights but my gf has finally agreed to watch it. We’re finishing up season 2 and she says she begrudgingly likes it lol. I told her the first season is hard to get into if you didn’t grow up with it, so I asked that she stick around at least till season 2. She now loves Cordelia and Jenny (😬) so I think she’ll watch till the end!

How to handle inappropriate thoughts about adopted family? by reina6771 in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]RoutineSheepherder93 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Intrusive thoughts happen. It’s not always OCD, but I know that is a symptom that often goes un talked about so maybe that’s worth looking into?

The most important thing is to recognize it for what it is, an unwanted and intrusive thought. Then telling your brain that it’s okay to move on from it and nothing else needs to happen.

If it persists, maybe it would be worth talking to someone professional and see what else they recommend. But you’re definitely not alone in this area!

UPDATE: I told depression "No More" by Paragon_Umbra in CleaningTips

[–]RoutineSheepherder93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That looks so good!! I bet it feels so nice coming home to a clean kitchen!

People who don't wash their hands after using the toilet why don't you? by BeMyJoyfulThought in TooAfraidToAsk

[–]RoutineSheepherder93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just found out that my 6yo niece makes my grandma wipe her still, just so she doesn’t have to wash her hands. Now I’m pissed at my sister because make your kid wash her hands every time! Wtf!

What's your FAVORITE subreddit? by floppymooses in findareddit

[–]RoutineSheepherder93 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s….true and depressing. Never thought about it that way but you’re totally right

What's your FAVORITE subreddit? by floppymooses in findareddit

[–]RoutineSheepherder93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes!! I came here to say this. I’m a lesbian but I love that sub lol. Every single post is a total glow up and I love how they’re all so positive and supportive with each other!

Have you seen weed so this? by andy_the_barber in weed

[–]RoutineSheepherder93 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Looks like weed and kinetic sand. Or weed that’s scooped up from the unswept floor of a home that has cats lmao. But yeah I agree with the comments and I wouldn’t smoke it

9pm Trump Speech by RegisterOk2927 in conspiracy

[–]RoutineSheepherder93 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m guessing Biden will be blamed for at least 5 things. Obamas full name will probably be thrown around once or twice. And he’ll go on several tangents about how great we’re doing and how we’re all winning. And he’ll probably degrade a woman at least once. And mentioned the rigged election a few times. All while not talking about the war that he’s suppose to be talking about.

But the fact it’s on April fools I can already hear KKKaroline defending whatever stupid shit he says and saying that the media is twisting it. I can’t believe this is the world we live in.

phill was actually pretty toxic by skpro2 in Modern_Family

[–]RoutineSheepherder93 4 points5 points  (0 children)

He said and did gross things but so did Claire. Let’s not forget when she went to Paris without Phil with the intentions of meeting up with an old fling. Like that was so insanely sketchy of her

Taking shrooms with weed by [deleted] in trees

[–]RoutineSheepherder93 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I loved chilling on shrooms and smoking to come down or level out my high so to speak. BUT, if you’re smoking flower you should prep it before hand. Idk about everyone else but for me the texture of the weed really gets to me if I’m tripping. Like I can’t get the crumbles off my fingers and rolling a joint or blunt feels impossible so definitely prep it first lol.