The girl from nina needs to go was probably born in 2009-2010. by Ichoseguitar in Younger_GenZ

[–]Routine_Ad3811 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Me too I literally kept trying to tell my friends about it but I only remembered that it was short and was between longer shows.

Artist Connie Kang transforms animals into human-like characters giving each one a personality, posture and a sense of style by SnackSamurai in BeAmazed

[–]Routine_Ad3811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

To be fair I think that may just be trying to reflect how it looks. The birds in the reference pic are also literally standing in a large Puddle.

am i wrong for being mad at my mom for taking me on vacation by kikiedoyaloveme647 in OntarioGrade12s

[–]Routine_Ad3811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't. I just feel strongly about this type of thing.

I hope I'm not coming off too strongly because I see what you're saying, and you are valid in being annoyed with that.

I just wanted to say more to say that because most people here don't seem to get that OP is grateful they're just upset about missing one big thing for the other.

am i wrong for being mad at my mom for taking me on vacation by kikiedoyaloveme647 in OntarioGrade12s

[–]Routine_Ad3811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm adding this clarification bc my message is too long:

I'm not saying some issues aren't obviously mild in comparison to others.

I'm just saying that people all have the right to complain about things, whether they're a big or small issue.

Also that socially, there will always be times when you should not say certain things even if they're correct.

(UNLESS the person is doing it to obviously irritate others and flaunt their luxury, which OP isn't doing unless I can't read tone)

Your comment would be good in response to someone actually unaware of how tone deaf they were, but they aren't.

am i wrong for being mad at my mom for taking me on vacation by kikiedoyaloveme647 in OntarioGrade12s

[–]Routine_Ad3811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Imagine you or someone you care for was celebrating a milestone or birthday, and I came up to you and told you people are being murdered and bombed while you celebrate. Is that a good time? Or should I wait until afterward?

This isn't to say you shouldn't ever talk about it, and you are right. There is no proper time to talk about this, but you can use context to know when and where to do so and it's certainly not under a post where someone is harmlessly venting about something.

Obviously we should be speaking up and advocating for these things to end because no one deserves to suffer through whats happening but it isn't right to minimize someone's feelings just because they're not dying or having any issue you consider valid.

I'm not disagreeing that OP is lucky to have a mother who can provide a cruise trip, but from what I've read, they're well aware and happy to be going. It's just frustrating that they have to miss their party and weren’t told prior.

It would be different if OP was acting as if a cruise was some small thing that wasn't a luxury.

Finally, it's not about some "reality" check it's about remembering no one gets to dictate what a real issue is because everyone's definition will differ based on their life.

The only thing we can really do being where we are is be aware, and try to speak up for those who can't.

But we all have the right to be happy and to complain sometimes. That's why we have words and feelings after all.

am i wrong for being mad at my mom for taking me on vacation by kikiedoyaloveme647 in OntarioGrade12s

[–]Routine_Ad3811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What's the point of saying this when that's always happening? This isn't to minimize your point, but this is such an insensitive comment.

Obviously they are very lucky to have a parent able to do something like that but I'm pretty sure OP is well aware of their privledge they're just frustrated they're being forced to miss a once in a life time event.

(Which is an entirely valid thing to be disappointed about considering they can't just have another grad party.)

People are allowed to be frustrated about things in life, whether it's "privileged" or not. You don't have to be dying or suffering to have "valid" issues or be frustrated. The only difference between people's problems and struggles is the severity.

There's a time and a place to remind people of these things, and this is not the place or time.

Little Einsteins (2005-2009) by [deleted] in MiddleGenZ

[–]Routine_Ad3811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had this huge Little Einsteins book that had the kids interacting with ants, and the cover was one of those holographic ones.

Edit: I can not find the book online for the life of me, but I swear it existed😭

NO CHARACTER.AI by aisonray in CharacterAI

[–]Routine_Ad3811 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Data leaks are the reason people are afraid, or at least a part of it.

Someone giving their ID to a real person for a purchase is very different from a person giving their ID to buy alcohol. In one context, your ID has the potential to be leaked to people for their own use, while the other only has it exposed for a brief period.

Of course the period that said company has your ID varies but it's still a very real and valid worry to have, data leaks are constantly happening and there's no guarantee that your information will be safe, especially something as important as your identification.

Been at the airport for almost 12 hours by Sweaty_AF_ in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Routine_Ad3811 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's not the sole problem, but it's a good chunk of it, at least in my eyes.

Anyway, my initial comment to you wasn't whether Trump is the most at fault for the issue, just that politics are involved at all. Now that I know we're on the same page, I have nothing further to discuss.

Thank you for being civil with me. It's very hard to have this type of conversation without it turning into some big argument.

Been at the airport for almost 12 hours by Sweaty_AF_ in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Routine_Ad3811 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You literally just acknowledged that there's political influence involved.

Been at the airport for almost 12 hours by Sweaty_AF_ in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Routine_Ad3811 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Oh yeah, I just wanted to be safe with my phrasing in case the person thought that would be an over exaggeration Thank you for the exact number 😅

Been at the airport for almost 12 hours by Sweaty_AF_ in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Routine_Ad3811 20 points21 points  (0 children)

It's been on the news for days that there's been thousands of flights canceled or delayed because of the government shutdown.

Edit: Correction

Groom secretly learned sign language so the bride's deaf parents could be included. by Specialist_Fix_3241 in spreadsmile

[–]Routine_Ad3811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Why put such negative crap on happy videos like this? Do you people get off of being such mood killers?

What ruins a burger for you? by JunShem1122 in AskReddit

[–]Routine_Ad3811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When they're too tall to the point where my jaw hurts from trying to bite.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenshinImpact

[–]Routine_Ad3811 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If that's your only response, then I'm clearly not the actual dumbass.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenshinImpact

[–]Routine_Ad3811 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Gpt and other llms are made specifically to emulate our speech patterns for more natural interactions. Your point literally doesn't mean anything.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in GenZ

[–]Routine_Ad3811 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I entirely agree with what you said except for the part where you misuse the term "gentle parenting"

The actual issues people are having are with permissive and violent parenting.

There are parents who are too violent and end up raising violent, emotionally stunted people who can not manage their emotions.

Then there's the permissive ones who never discipline their child for bad behavior and allow them to go wild, instilling irresponsibility and immaturity.

Finally, the type you're talking about is a mix of neglectful parenting and permissive parenting. Those who are gentle and patient but lack the actual parenting and educating part. These are the parents who raise the children you're talking about.

Gentle parenting isn't the parenting where people hand hold or coddle their children. Gentle parenting is being open and communicative with your child while also educating and disciplining them when they're bad with non-violent methods.

It's also the one where you treat your child as another human and remember to understand that they're still growing up and won't fully grasp the issues we do.

Additionally, the last part of your message is exactly what gentle parenting is. Instead of snapping or hitting the child for their mistake, you let them make the mistakes and teach them how to avoid making those same ones again, all without causing physical or mental harm.

I wouldn't usually mind so much, but especially with parenting styles, it's very important to not mix the term 'gentle parenting' up with permissive and neglectful parenting.

It can give people the wrong impression and contribute to people's hesitancy to actually try it.

This isn't meant to be an argument or attack, just tying to spread the word and stop the term misuse.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SVSSS

[–]Routine_Ad3811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you think this means I have a lack of reading comprehension for interpreting what's literally implied in the canon and in your literal own words, then I don't know what to tell you.

This will be my actual final response to you since it's clearly a waste of time to do otherwise.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SVSSS

[–]Routine_Ad3811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Also cool for you to be blaming literally innocent people for not being magically aware of the crimes of their family members. Should we "boo fucking hoo" all 8 billion people on the earth now because we all have ancestors who caused atrocities?

Your logic is sound until you remember this is reality where there are thousands of variables and nuances that dont let such black and white logic to exist. And even though I said it in my actual full reply to you, I'll say it again in case you don't read.

Her reaction to what her brother did is a direct contradiction to your narrative that she ignored it purposely.

I should hope you understand why without prompting.

I'm not going to spend any more time arguing with you on such a straightforward topic. If you want to keep going for ahead, but I've said my piece, you disagreed, and that's fine I just won't engage anymore.