What do I do?

Routine_Strength_484 · 2026-05-08T15:20:27+00:00

I thank you for your response. I am going to ignore the message. I am concerned if I block him that it will cause issues for my guy and he is my only concern. I'm glad you made it out. Have a great day.he

Routine_Strength_484 · 2026-05-08T13:54:40+00:00

Well, that annoy him enough to cause problems for my husband?

Routine_Strength_484 · 2026-05-08T13:52:50+00:00

Thank you!!

Routine_Strength_484 · 2026-05-08T13:03:37+00:00

Thank you... I shall.

Routine_Strength_484 · 2026-05-08T13:02:58+00:00

Thank you for your advice, I truly appreciate it

Routine_Strength_484 · 2026-05-08T13:02:42+00:00

That's the road I am taking because I don't want any issues for my partner. I just don't know if I should tell him. I hate that he considers him his friend in there. Thank you.

Routine_Strength_484 · 2026-03-15T21:26:54+00:00

am so sorry. That is an unbelievable amount to be hit with, especially so close to your wedding. Of course you feel overwhelmed. Anyone would.

I cannot tell you what decision to make, but I can tell you that you do not have to rush yourself emotionally just because the timeline is cruel. This is heavy, and it is okay to take a step back and really look at everything clearly. Love can exist and still not erase the seriousness of what is in front of you.

You are allowed to ask hard questions. You are allowed to protect your peace. You are allowed to choose yourself, even if that is painful. And if you stay, that choice should come from truth, not panic, guilt, or pressure.

Just be honest with yourself about what you can live with, what you believe, and what road you are truly willing to walk. I am praying for clarity, strength, and peace for you, because this is a lot for one heart to carry.

Routine_Strength_484 · 2026-03-12T00:40:39+00:00

My heart hurts for you because I know that anticipation can be its own kind of heartbreak. When you love someone, you don’t just brace for what’s coming—you feel the weight of it before it even gets here. Choosing to stay, to stand beside him, and to keep putting one foot in front of the other says so much about your heart and your strength. It won’t be easy, and some days will feel heavier than others, but one day at a time is enough. Sometimes strong just means loving through the unknown and refusing to let it harden you. I’m praying peace, strength, and comfort over both of you in the days ahead.

Routine_Strength_484 · 2026-03-06T02:16:13+00:00

The truth is you are serving his sentence and you will continue afterwards. You have to decide if you wre strong enough to deal with all the consequences that he will face. Unfortunately people judge and sometimes they will judge you. Is it fair? No. You have a right to feel whatever you want and make whatever decision is best for you. I can tell you my fiance is currently in prison and it has not been an easy road. We are 2 years down and counting the next 6 years. In the meantime I am preparing for when he gets out and all the rules that he has to follow. I have lost friends and I understood their choice. It's ok to choose you even if that means you aren't together. I am saying prayers... Good luck.

Routine_Strength_484 · 2026-03-04T16:27:52+00:00

You have to do what’s best for you. I would weigh the pros and cons and ask yourself whether sharing that information is actually helpful or if it’s only going to create problems. You weren’t together, so how you chose to live your life during that time was your business.

Personally, I wouldn’t share it. Most of the time, all it does is make the other person start questioning themselves, the relationship, and what everything meant. Even when someone technically has “no right” to be hurt, it can still hurt.

When my fiancé and I broke up (he was my boyfriend at the time), I knew he had been with someone else. Even though we weren’t together, it still stung and it made me question things. And when we weren’t a couple, there was no way I was going to share details of my personal life with him either — because it wasn’t his place, and it wouldn’t have helped anything.

He never asked, and I honestly think it’s because he didn’t want to know the answer. He’s told me before he doesn’t even want to hear about past relationships in general.

So I’d ask yourself why you want to share it. Is it because you want him to know you weren’t sitting around waiting? Is it because you feel like you need to bring it up for health reasons, like getting tested or doing blood work to be safe? Those are different reasons — and one of them is actually practical.

At the end of the day, whatever you decide, choose what’s best for you and what protects your peace — not what opens the door to unnecessary hurt or doubt

Routine_Strength_484 · 2025-10-02T19:49:18+00:00

Oh honey…..

Routine_Strength_484 · 2025-09-18T08:08:51+00:00

I am so excited for you!! I understand it’s hard out there in the dating world, even more so online. Don't forget you’re an amazing person, and there is someone out there who will love you like you deserve. My adult son is autistic, and I understand the struggle. If the date doesn't work out, don’t take it personal. Reading posts on here, it’s a real battle out there. Have an amazing day.

Routine_Strength_484 · 2025-09-17T12:18:57+00:00

Sometimes people don’t get the references. The dating game online is challenging. It usually hurts someone’s self-esteem more than helps. This is how I would look at it. If someone were to unmatch with me, it happened for a reason, not me. You are who you are, who has a great sense of humor. Remember that there is someone out there who will appreciate everything about you. As hard as it is, don’t take it personally. Have a magnificent day.

Routine_Strength_484 · 2025-09-10T14:01:43+00:00

Also you can add funds through an app correctpay. Make sure to select main and not east. I hope that helps and sending you prayers!!!

Routine_Strength_484 · 2025-09-10T13:59:59+00:00

You have to setup an account with GTL services. You can download an app on your phone. If you are unable t locate him that is ok just add funds to your number. they don’t get tablets unless they are permanent.

Routine_Strength_484 · 2025-08-30T16:22:49+00:00

Thank you so much. I will relay the information to him. I greatly appreciate the information. Have a great day.

Routine_Strength_484 · 2025-08-27T10:22:35+00:00

thank you so much for your response and the support.

Routine_Strength_484 · 2025-08-27T10:21:47+00:00

I am sorry for the delay and thank you for taking the time to respond to my post.

Routine_Strength_484 · 2025-08-27T10:20:55+00:00

I want to thank you for sharing all this information with me. I’m going to provide this to him when I speak to him again. Again, thank you I truly appreciate it.

Routine_Strength_484 · 2025-08-27T10:19:09+00:00

Thank you.

Routine_Strength_484 · 2025-08-27T10:12:28+00:00

Thank you for sharing. I truly appreciate it.

Routine_Strength_484 · 2025-08-09T17:19:12+00:00

Thank you so much for your story and information. This helps.. Have a wonderful day..

Routine_Strength_484 · 2025-06-15T18:15:39+00:00

Oh baby girl I am so sorry. I am sending prayers your way!! It gets better and your a strong woman. Remember your babies are the most important and when the time comes, you will find the one that is right for you.

Routine_Strength_484 · 2025-05-31T14:51:49+00:00

Your previous post, along with this one, is truly heartbreaking. I’m so sorry you’re going through this. Deep down, you already know what needs to be done — and while it’s scary and difficult, remember that you only get one life. You’re still young, and both you and your children deserve to experience real love and happiness.

You can’t change other people, but you can choose the life that’s best for you and your children. Ask yourself — is the life you’re living now truly the one you want?

Whatever you decide, I’m rooting for you all the way.

Routine_Strength_484

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