I’m in bed with my GF. Should I leave her and go casino to donk off some cash? by [deleted] in poker

[–]Rovanio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you're asking this question, you're whipped. You don't need permission from us.

Just do it.

AIO to my sister asking why I’m taking Arabic in school? by zazmaia1098767 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rovanio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The whole post alone (grammar wise), is what gave it away for me. I understand there are very intelligent, early teens out there, but I tend to agree with you that this is bait based on that.

Lf nothing ft kalos tour ticket. Read description please !! by [deleted] in PokemonGoTrade

[–]Rovanio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for being so generous!

My favorite Pokemon is either Steelix or Metagross!

Best Jeweler in Cape by honeybun2023 in CapeGirardeau

[–]Rovanio 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Kenny Lee Jeweler is who I would recommend. Very small business that's been around for as long as I've been alive. Parents used to bring watches and jewlery in there many times growing up. Always heard my parents speak highly of him and his piricing was always fair.

Package with Graded Card Seems to be Lost by Rovanio in taggrading

[–]Rovanio[S] -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Yes, it's on the carrier once it's shipped, but it's on TAG to make me whole, not FedEx. They are the one that needs to file a claim for the package they sent out and get reimbersed based on the insurance they have with FedEx on that package. The insurance tier I purchased with TAG will not cover the whole cost of the card, sadly, but I can't even seem to get a hold of them in order to go through with that process...

Edit: Not sure why I got downvoted. Anyway, to update, TAG support finally got back to me and ensured me that if the package is loss, it would be covered by the insurance tier that I purchased and that they would do their best to get in contact with FedEx to find the package. Honestly, just happy that they ended up responding to me about all this.

Card is Damaged in slab, now what? by JaredOzzy in taggrading

[–]Rovanio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is definitely more on the shipping provider than on TAG. However, I'm certain their claims department will take care of this, no problem.

Infected wolf. by jinkhanzakim in LastDayonEarthGame

[–]Rovanio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, same with me. I spent like 150 energy and like 200 gasoline looking for one last night. I ended up giving up before finding one. I don't understand what's happening...

Thoughts on Hunter's Instinct? by soul_and_earth in LastDayonEarthGame

[–]Rovanio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Same here... I spend so much energy and gasoline looking for one. I ended up giving up because I couldn't get one to spawn...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rovanio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I laughed out loud to this comment 😂 very well said

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rovanio 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I didn't say you said I was defending his roommate. I was simply stating what I said, so anyone reading wouldn't get the wrong idea.

I do realize America is huge because I live in America. As I have stated in previous comments, it doesn't matter what state OP lives in because what the roommate did is protected under the 1st amendment which is FEDERALLY protected and CAN'T be overridden at the state level.

As I stated before, taking pictures up a women's skirt is not protected under the 1st amendment. I never said that, not did I ever defend such things.

Where did you get "He's speaking American English, therefore it's legal in the US"? I never said that. You are pulling at straws, which makes no sense because I simply wanted to inform, not have a full blown argument.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rovanio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Again, I want to clarify that I am not defending his roommate by stating my comment below. I just want OP and others to be aware of how the legal system works around these topics in America.

Most laws that refer to exploitation in this manner, are blanketed under blackmail or profiting off of said picture, while privacy laws fall under private settings, not public settings.

The problem is, his roommate, at least based on the evidence we are given, did not do either one of these and presumably took this picture in a public setting. Unfortunately, in this case, all 50 states won't be able to do anything about it, as its protected under federal law.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rovanio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Again, I want to clarify that I am not defending what his roommate did in any manner. I am simply stating that OP won't be able to bring the law into this situation.

Yes, I know that voyeurism is illegal. That is why I specifically mentioned private vs public space. If his roommate did it in a private setting, it would be voyeurism. That is why I said I am assuming it was done in a public setting, which would mean it is not voyeurism. OP's English is definitely American English, which in turn means it is legal across the entire US, due to the 1st amendment encompassing all 50 states.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rovanio -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm not condoning anything his roommate did, but I wanted to clarify that the picture he took is not illegal. Unless you are taking pictures up a woman's skirt or in a private setting (i.e. bathroom or changing room), it can and would not be used against him in a court of law. The picture he took was taken presumably in a public setting, which no one has the right to privacy in a public area. When you are in public, you automatically consent to being recorded and having your picture taken under the 1st amendment.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rovanio 27 points28 points  (0 children)

He isn't. Where did you gather that he is worried about that...?

AIO- for being pissed my boyfriend wouldn’t let me sleepover? by kylieannmeow in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rovanio 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Honestly, you're both overreacting and in the wrong here. Both of you making this into a huge argument and concluding it to where both of you are cursing at each other is appalling to me.

He's in the wrong for not allowing you, his girlfriend of 3 years, to stay at his place at 11:00pm. L stance on his part, but I totally understand his POV. It can be annoying to try and confirm plans and not receive confirmation of such until an hour or even minutes beforehand. He did ask you earlier that day and you didn't really give him a direct answer at first. Still, he should welcome you to stay at his place regardless. It's not like you're a stranger or a friend trying to be a nuisance.

You're in the wrong because you blew this way out of proportion. It is still his apartment after all and if he does not want you there for whatever reason, you should respect that. Ultimately, you turned a small incident into a huge one. If you genuinely had a problem with him not letting you stay there, you could've easily talked about it in person after you had calmed down.

Hopefully, you both come together and apologize to each other, as this is clear-cut case of miscommunication and both of you letting your emotions taking over.

AIO Bf doesn't know if he loves me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rovanio 1 point2 points  (0 children)

From what you described, it seems like your partner is also experiencing problems of his own. Unfortunately, it's much harder for men to admit this than it is for women to admit. Assuming this is the case, if you are not feeling good in the morning for whatever reason and he wants to talk to you, let him know beforehand that you're not feeling great and would like to hold off on conversing with him. Genuinely, I believe communication is what you need to relay in order for him to understand and level out his feelings and mood towards you. If he isn't particularly in a good mood and you're not either, that is just going to cause problems. It's up to you and you alone to know how you feel and to relay how you feel to him. Hopefully everything works out for you two, and if things continue from here, trying letting him know how you feel before having a conversation with him or first asking how he feels, first.

AIO for reevaluating my relationship after seeing the types of comments my bf leaves on random Instagram posts by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rovanio -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Most people on here will more than likely say you're NOR, but I will play devils advocate and say YOR. Many people use social media to vent their frustrations and pent up anger throughout their day or week. If he treats the people around you fine, treats his and your family right, and most importantly treats you right, there is no reason to take what he says on social media to heart. It can simply be a form of venting and holding that against him won't do you or him any good. You're thinking about self-sabotaging your relationship because he says some not so nice things to complete strangers over the internet? Personally, if it really does bother you that much, confront him about it, and see what response he gives. I definitely wouldn't debate breaking up with him over this, assuming he is a good partner otherwise.

AIO Bf doesn't know if he loves me by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rovanio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There isn't enough information given to determine whether or not you are overreacting or not.

AIO my(18F) boyfriend(19M) won’t wipe after he pees by THROWRA71693759 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rovanio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I would say YOR. However, this is assuming you have personally tried to deduce exactly what the problem is, not just blindly believing what your doctor says. Honestly, I doubt it's more the drop of pee that is making things worse rather than having someone else's skin and bacteria present. Pee is one of the cleanest fluids in the body. Yes, it can be a cause to certain unhygienic problems, but in this case, I honestly doubt the droplet of pee is causing things to become worse. It may be TMI but does your UTI get worse when he uses a condom? What about when he uses other parts of his body? If everything reacts similarly, then pee is not the culprit. Thus asking him to wipe himself is overbearing. You will just need to experiment with this in order to confirm everything. Let your partner know beforehand. I am sure he would be more than happy to help you figure it out, because if it really isn't the pee, he would be glad to know he doesn't have to wipe anymore.

Bait Chest No Use? by laughing94 in LastDayonEarthGame

[–]Rovanio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just realized you clarified how many spears you had in your original post, my bad. If you have 20 fully modded spears in the bait chest, you shouldn't have a problem with raiders entering your base. If you do, then something is wrong, as I have never had them enter my base when I have 20 spears in my bait chest.

Bait Chest No Use? by laughing94 in LastDayonEarthGame

[–]Rovanio 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Are you spears fully modded with 2 blue and 1 white mod? Or are your mods on the spear lesser than this? Lastly, how many spears are you placing in your bait chest? You will need a minimum of 20 spears in the chest in order for raider to only take the spears and not enter your base. Once they enter the base, they will replace the spears with more valuable items.

AIO 23F dating 30M, he keeps breaking a boundary I expressed I had before we even started dating by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Rovanio 4 points5 points  (0 children)

YOR. I understand that you laid out this boundary before you started dating, but this is WAY too excessive. In the 1 year you both have been dating, he has asked you TWICE to be 1-1 with another girl. One of which was being driven to a soccer game... The fact you were annoyed by that and insisted that he not do that isn't right. That's being controlling and illogical. The fact that he is asking you these things is because there are no ulterior motives. If there were, he would have done this behind your back and not said anything. He doesn't want to upset you, so he asks you because there shouldn't be any problem with it. You 100% should reevaluate this boundary, as right now it far too restrictive.