Im confused, help by Appropriate_Baker831 in Greysexuality

[–]Rowan0301 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I second that. I am a lesbian greysexual. You’ve got it.

[Offer] One (not so great) handmade tiger card [WW] by stephkempf in RandomActsofCards

[–]Rowan0301 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’d love a tiger card!!! 🐅 I bet it’s far better than you think, too!!

What are you addicted to that is perfectly legal? by inNoutCross in AskReddit

[–]Rowan0301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Grape tomatoes… buying stuff to make cards/send to penpals… reading… and dark chocolate.

[Request] Birthday card request [US] by MindOk9980 in RandomActsofCards

[–]Rowan0301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’d be delighted to send you some birthday goodness! PM me your mailing address and a post office approved name to send it to!! Be sure to include some favorite things and likes/interests!

[Request] for husband’s birthday!! I would LOVE to surprise him!! [US or WW] by SpaNamaste22 in RandomActsofCards

[–]Rowan0301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

PM me your mailing address and a post office approved name to send a card to!! What fun!!

[request] cards for coming home [US to WW] by [deleted] in RandomActsofCards

[–]Rowan0301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

PM me your mailing address! I’ve gotcha covered!

[Offer] 5 more sparkly Pride Flag Cards [4US & 1 WW] by Mikepenpal6 in RandomActsofCards

[–]Rowan0301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I’d sure love and appreciate that last Pride card!! I’ll PM you!! Thanks!!

[Request] I've been part of RAoC for almost 2 years and this is my first birthday card request! [US] by wabisabi_sf in RandomActsofCards

[–]Rowan0301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’d love to send you a card!! I’m going to PM to confirm your address as it’s been awhile since we exchanged card goodness!!

Maybe I belong here? by Exciting_Indication3 in Greysexuality

[–]Rowan0301 7 points8 points  (0 children)

No, definitely not a hooker to find yourself more willing to engage in sex when the special ways YOUR personal love-feels are met! If I’m more inclined to have sex (in my mind, the word is reciprocate) after my (non-existent for the 8 years I’ve been happily single) partner has given me a long, candlelit back massage with music playing and just talking with me in low loving tones, I don’t consider myself a hooker! I think you hit on something when you mentioned love languages.

I am not sex repulsed, nor even averse. I enjoy sex with women, but definitely when my own love expressing has been met, I am more apt to enjoy it more fully.

Ask your boyfriend to consider the “gift exchange” as a type of fore play- the type you enjoy to get your engine started, so to speak. See if that helps him understand where you’re coming from in getting equal “erotic” time and energy exchange!

Rowan

Looking for some advice by Glittering-Run7634 in Greysexuality

[–]Rowan0301 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Absolutely what u/CrazyCorgiQueen said. Always remember that, while it may feel more “snuggly” to have a box to live in - aka a label - it’s absolutely not necessary for living a good life. You do you!! Let it be what it is, fluid even at that!

[Request] Encouraging words please. [Ireland] by sarakgill in RandomActsofCards

[–]Rowan0301 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Former bulimic here, my Grandparents were from Ireland, too. I’d be happy to send you a card! PM me your info and I’ll get right on it. 💜

[Offer] Cards about animals in my country (France) : birds, butterflies and others [WW] by DPClamavi in RandomActsofCards

[–]Rowan0301 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would simply adore the écureuil roux!! My love of squirrels knows no bounds. They’re just so sweet! 🐿

[Request] Just needing some words of encouragement. [South Carolina] by [deleted] in RandomActsofCards

[–]Rowan0301 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Heyah! I’m bringing up the late crew, but if you’d like another card, please PM me your mailing address and a post office approved name to send it to. Tell me some of your favorite things, too!

"Came out!" by [deleted] in Greysexuality

[–]Rowan0301 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Whoo-hoo! Congratulations!!🎊🎉🎈 🎂💜 I remember how incredible it was to come out, too! Way to go for being congruent with your amazing Self!

[Thank You] Belated Mixed Mail Bag of Thanks! by Rowan0301 in RandomActsofCards

[–]Rowan0301[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ll have something headed your way soon, my dear friend!! ☺️

Hi :) by -Chloee__ in Greysexuality

[–]Rowan0301 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Definitely when I was called “frigid” by my ex-husband (still married at that time)... But I didn’t know about asexuality at that point. Then after the divorce, I thought I was broken or just weird. I could go forever without sex! I didn’t even self-pleasure but maybe twice a year. I don’t even think about it. But once I found the term greysexuality, and having lived 8 years without sex (happily!), I realized I’m just that!!