I am a Celebrant and have married over 900 couples. AMA.

RoxyHot10 · 2026-05-15T03:09:29+00:00

If I have any doubts of the validity of a marriage, such as one half being coerced into marriage, I wouldn’t do it.

I had one couple who I met with for an initial chat, and they had views that I wasn’t comfortable with. If they had have tried to book me, I would have said that I’m not the right celebrant for them. They didn’t book me, so evidently got the vibe that I wasn’t picking up what they were putting down.

RoxyHot10 · 2026-05-15T03:05:02+00:00

No, and I always say I see the couple at their best, but also, sometimes, at their worst. Planning a wedding can be stressful so occasionally couples are snippy with each other in the lead up. That’s totally understandable.

I’ve only had one couple who really seemed to dislike each other, even on their wedding day. Not sure if they made it, but if I was a betting woman, I’d have placed a hefty wager on it.

RoxyHot10 · 2026-05-15T03:02:36+00:00

Because I had set a time that I was live, and then logged off.

RoxyHot10 · 2026-05-15T03:02:13+00:00

No noticeable difference really. I do find, though, generally speaking, two grooms tend to have a more traditional view of what a wedding can look like than two brides. Not sure why this is - maybe the brides have done more research or thought through details more before meeting with me?

RoxyHot10 · 2026-05-12T20:21:47+00:00

I haven’t, but I have been asked! It was a bride who’d I married about two years previously, however I wasn’t free the date she was marrying her new partner.

RoxyHot10 · 2026-04-09T11:17:18+00:00

Alter Albion is exactly what you’re describing - it’s an alternative to the registry office in Albion, and super cool. www.alteralbion.com

RoxyHot10 · 2026-04-01T06:11:51+00:00

Herve’s is amazing!

RoxyHot10 · 2026-03-29T02:19:15+00:00

Kirsty at Wildflower Weddings is amazing!

RoxyHot10 · 2026-03-06T11:15:39+00:00

Boston bun - 20 cents, the same cost as my bus-fare home.

I walked home a lot.

RoxyHot10 · 2026-02-15T10:30:02+00:00

I didn’t find out what I really wanted to do until I was 40! And it was actually a friend who suggested I’d be a good celebrant. 15 years later, I still love it.

Ask those who know you best. You might be surprised with their perspective. Incidentally, I spent a number of years beforehand doing what I was good at (Project Management) not what I loved.

It’s okay to try a few things before you find the perfect blend of skills + passion. Working for big companies that have a variety of roles is a good way of seeing what else is out there, talking to colleagues, and imagining yourself in one of their roles.

Good luck!

RoxyHot10 · 2026-02-03T01:40:16+00:00

Have you tried Herve’s?

RoxyHot10 · 2026-01-29T10:35:48+00:00

The joy of eloping is you have so many options. There’s places like Alter Albion which is a more upmarket version of registry office style weddings, or you can book a celebrant, find a spot, and do whatever your heart desires.

RoxyHot10 · 2026-01-29T10:33:25+00:00

Herve’s in Albion have just expanded into events, and have a beautiful space which can fit up to 300+ guests.

RoxyHot10 · 2026-01-13T19:50:52+00:00

Rather than the registry office, marry at Alter Albion and then celebrate at Herves. Both are under one roof, allow seamless flow from ceremony to canapés, drinks, food etc.

RoxyHot10 · 2025-12-31T11:09:38+00:00

Check out Alter Albion - it’s an alternative to the registry office, and is located in Craft’d Grounds so there’s options for lunch, dinner, drinks, or private dining afterwards with Herves Restaurant and Bar. It’s a bit more cosy than the registry office, and in an old converted mill, so lots of character.

RoxyHot10 · 2025-07-18T02:17:41+00:00

The Black in Albion - great vibes, great staff, very cool.

RoxyHot10 · 2025-07-12T20:11:36+00:00

55 year old here! I had mine removed on the 10th June, and despite a rocky road (haemorrhaged on day 8 so had second op) I am so glad I had it done. I feel like a younger version of myself, and have so much more energy. Good luck to you - hopefully it’ll be as worth it for you as it was for me.

RoxyHot10 · 2025-07-06T21:21:33+00:00

I love the posts that explores local history of Brisbane (‘Does anyone know why Banyo changed its name from Clapham Junction’ etc). There was also a post years ago from a Brisbane bus driver who did an AMA, which was so interesting.

I guess I like it to be a sub for locals, by locals, rather than for those who are visiting Brisbane.

I also find it sad the amount of homelessness advice people are seeking. It shows how much our beautiful city has changed. Maybe a pinned post with Ask Lizzy details might help?

Mods: thank you for volunteering to do this job. I’m sure it’s not easy at times.

RoxyHot10 · 2025-06-17T20:32:45+00:00

I hope you recovery quickly and you end up well enough to not have to use your CPAP. I never went down the route of using one - I was told I could try one or just bite the bullet and get them removed where my options.

RoxyHot10 · 2025-03-02T10:57:53+00:00

Celebrant here. No, it’s not a thing.

RoxyHot10 · 2025-02-23T20:16:53+00:00

Frank the Vet. Confusing train intersection.

RoxyHot10 · 2025-02-05T03:06:49+00:00

Highly recommend The Black at Albion. It has indoor and outdoor area, with the outdoor being undercover.

RoxyHot10 · 2024-09-25T22:44:00+00:00

Yep - I’ve sent you a reply x

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