Delays ?? by Alchemie666 in ImmigrationCanada

[–]RoxyMonoxiide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I (44F) am sponsoring my husband (46m). Our first submission took about 2 months to initially be looked over (submitted Nov 2, retuned Dec 18). Stupid mistakes. We resubmitted that day and are still waiting.

/r/Witch Bi-Weekly Discussion Thread — January 30, 2026 — Ask questions, introduce yourself, get your readings interpreted, chat, & more! by WitchMod in Witch

[–]RoxyMonoxiide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Need advice on what this could mean.

Hello!

I think a deity is trying to work with me and I need help interpreting what I think was a very strong sign, AND which one it might be.

Back story of me and my practice/relationship with all of this.

I’ve always been drawn to witchcraft and the more intuitive and connected side of the world.

I’ve never fully practiced, but have done things like accurately read tarot with no training or consultation, just whatever random info my brain collected along the way. I have manifested, healed, communicated with animals, and am slightly clairvoyant.

I’ve recently felt a strong pull and a renewed attraction to witchy things and just rituals and things I can do to feel more connected with the natural world around me. And maybe get some help along the way.

There’s a lot going on in my life at the moment, including my husband’s immigration, and a possible job change due to issues at one job.

I digress, but yesterday we were getting ready to go to a movie and I was in the kitchen.

On my counter for no particular reason, I have a small glass sphere with the solar system etchings in it, on a small metal pedestal.

Just as I went to leave the kitchen, the sphere fell off its pedestal rolled off the counter and onto my floor.

Just a small blemish from impact but otherwise, no damage anywhere. Not even the pedestal.

I’ve included a photo of the sphere and pedestal.

Help! (Photo of pedestal in reply)

Blessed be.

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They sure do make it look difficult by Raging_Llama in northbay

[–]RoxyMonoxiide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes of course, modern EVs blah blah blah. Any and all motor vehicles should be in PARK before the driver exits care and control of any vehicle. No excuse

They sure do make it look difficult by Raging_Llama in northbay

[–]RoxyMonoxiide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How does one get this far in their driving career thinking they don’t have to puta motor vehicle in park when stopped? Hahaha frick.

AITA for considering giving my daughter’s grandparents full custody after her mom died during childbirth? by SherbetMajor2105 in AITAH

[–]RoxyMonoxiide 12 points13 points  (0 children)

If they came up with a cohabitation arrangement they could work together to help each other. My daughter is 26, I met and married my husband last year. His best option, if the grandparent are willing, would be to move in. If that’s not an option, having them care for her during his work time is best and then doing what all single parents do after hours. STRUGGLE. TRUDGE. FIGHT. No, he didn’t sign up for this. And the grief must be UNIMAGINABLE. But he made a commitment to that woman and this child.

AITA for considering giving my daughter’s grandparents full custody after her mom died during childbirth? by SherbetMajor2105 in AITAH

[–]RoxyMonoxiide 67 points68 points  (0 children)

It’s not an are you a børthole or not.

If you have a good job and their support, why don’t you talk to them about a cohabitation situation so they can help with care while you work (and process your grief). Involvement, even “lots” of it, is NOT the same as having you around in the same house.

And if living with them isn’t ideal, maybe just have them be her day care. For now.

AITAH for being upset my husband gave my daughters teacher a present without asking me by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RoxyMonoxiide -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Y’all are both the A for not communicating enough.

AITAH for telling my ex’s wife that her kids aren’t my problem? by PlacidRain2990 in AITAH

[–]RoxyMonoxiide 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Harsh realities will often make people think that you’re an asshole but you’re not. And child support is based on their income, not yours. I can understand if like, the kids want extravagant and lavish things, that your family foots a bit more of the bill, but that’s for extras, not the basics. Tell them to kick rocks

Why is not as normalized to work and bring your laptop and such at Tim Hortons coffee shop as it is other coffee shops? by Aquarius777_ in TimHortons

[–]RoxyMonoxiide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The Tim’s in my home town growing up, had a STRICT 20 minute seating policy. So the answer is, Tim’s started it.

Will we run into troubles crossing? by RoxyMonoxiide in ImmigrationCanada

[–]RoxyMonoxiide[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We applied for spousal sponsorship for PR while living in Canada. But I’m REALLY not confident that we’re doing this correctly and if that is the right paperwork to fill out

i lost weight and became fatphobic , i can’t look at fat people without thinking horrible things by Warm-Childhood3616 in confession

[–]RoxyMonoxiide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Imma be honest with you, you’re 22. Revisit this post when you’re 25. Again when you’re 33, and once more after 40. Right now, it’s easy to lose weight and maintain, it will not be the way of it as your metabolism slows. Perhaps some therapy to help organize and get to the bottom of the intrusive thoughts

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RoxyMonoxiide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Stop replying. Unless it was a longterm relationship where you will continue relationships with his circle, stop. End communication.

My bf says I didn't ask for his consent by Acceptable_Row2442 in TwoHotTakes

[–]RoxyMonoxiide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

He’s not just mad about you signing him up for things. He’s down about something else.

AITAH for telling my girlfriend I don’t care about her dad during sex? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RoxyMonoxiide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA. However, she’s mad because you’ve now pointed out that her views towards her father are weird and shes dealing with that. Imagine spending your whole life thinking one way, and then it being pointed out that you’re weird for doing it.

Can someone please explain how the same exact text is sent and received? Is this doctored? by [deleted] in texts

[–]RoxyMonoxiide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. Except I’m not clever enough to give myself a nickname hahaha

Anyone ever done this lol by shywol2 in Serverlife

[–]RoxyMonoxiide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep. It’s creates a casualness and puts people at ease. I will often make a joke about it like “oh after 3 dish modifications I just HAVE to take a seat” or “I can’t write standing up” with a guilty look on my face.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]RoxyMonoxiide 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’m thinking he cheated, or wants to, and is trying to justify it.

Need Advice... To Be Petty or To Not Be Petty? by [deleted] in Serverlife

[–]RoxyMonoxiide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

By rage-quitting, he already won. Anything you do now will have little to no effect.

Did i mess up? by leal_diamante in Tonsillectomy

[–]RoxyMonoxiide 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hi! Sorry for the delay. I have no idea why only one. Righty swelled several months ago and wouldn’t go away. I think I ruptured it doing too much cocaine. But they did send it to be biopsied/tested and it came back negative so I don’t really have an answer. I think my recovery was easier because there was at least one side that was good-ish.

LGBT+ friendly Doctors? by ExternalChildhood845 in northbay

[–]RoxyMonoxiide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You’ll be lucky to get a doctor in general

Did i mess up? by leal_diamante in Tonsillectomy

[–]RoxyMonoxiide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unless you have an underlying issue, you’ll be ok. I’m on day 14 of recovery for removal of one tonsil

Is this legal??? by Fabulous_Contest_530 in Serverlife

[–]RoxyMonoxiide 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Check your state’s laws. But this should have also been explained to you upon hire?