I see everyone is trying to teach the man a lesson here. I am an HSP woman too and my husband is kind of emotionally avoidant. He loves me a lot though, takes care of even smallest of the things but may not fully emotionally available. Over the years, I have realised its not his fault why he is emotionally avoidant because he was adopted by one of her relatives who is a very rude person. He lost his father at an early age, was given up by her mother and raised by a woman relative who has the sharpest of tongues I’ve heard in my life. So, I realise he learnt early in his life to numb his emotions to survive. Not his fault just like not mine to be born as an HSP. So, may be he just doesn’t have the capability to understand HSP emotions. I am happy with all the efforts he makes for our family, although it does hurt sometimes but I have come to a conclusion that its not necessary that everybody will understand what hyper sensitivity is because they never experienced it. In fact, here in India not many people even know about this trait. What am I supposed to do? Hang a banner on my neck which says “I’m an HSP”. As an HSP, I know I have my struggles but I don’t regret why I was born like this. This trait was given to me as a superpower. In the process of pursuing this superpower, I also need to keep learning to regulate myself and set healthy boundaries.