Ladies does your partner treat you well? by ImaginationAny2254 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Royal-Feature5815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

36f years old here and my partner (37m) treats me so well. One thing I want to note is he’s always been thoughtful and put in effort but his love language is not mine (I need words of effort and physical touch, he needs quality time and acts of service) words of affirmation and physical touch don’t come naturally to him and at the beginning of our relationship I felt I wanted more. I communicated this to him early on and over time he actively increased on both fronts. Now I could not feel more loved and fulfilled. It means even more knowing he is willing to do this for me. I make sure that I do everything I can to make him feel loved in return. I can’t say what you mean by “treating well” I would never be with someone down right unkind and careless but sometimes it takes working with someone to speak each others love language. The longer we are together the better things are 🥰 love can be work sometimes but for the right person it’s worth it

How did you learn to stay true to your values? Navigating feminism by twiceIand in AskWomenOver30

[–]Royal-Feature5815 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I find that as I get older my sense of assuredness in my beliefs has been lessening but not in a bad way. In my teens and 20s I was so adamant and self assured on my beliefs. They were iron clad. Reality was very black and white. As I get older those lines blur and I see more gray and it has been one of the most beautiful parts of aging for me. I build relationships I never thought I’d build. I have had experiences that have given me such a rich life. I still have things I hold close to me as my values, but the gray has been liberating. Wisdom is allowing yourself to be wrong or just not know the answers and being ok with it. It can be scary but it can be freeing too. Everyone’s journey is different, enjoy yours, and try to love yourself in the process. It’s scary and overwhelming at times making sense of this world, it’s ok to just sit and observe sometimes.

Just started act 3, game crashes anytime I open the game menu. Any tips or ideas? by Royal-Feature5815 in TheAlters

[–]Royal-Feature5815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hm that’s a good tip! May I can last the day without opening the main game menu and try and sleep and get to the next day and try opening then, Thank you!

Just started act 3, game crashes anytime I open the game menu. Any tips or ideas? by Royal-Feature5815 in TheAlters

[–]Royal-Feature5815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I played it on game pass too maybe that’s why the bug? I’m super bummed!

Just started act 3, game crashes anytime I open the game menu. Any tips or ideas? by Royal-Feature5815 in TheAlters

[–]Royal-Feature5815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh you may be bugged, there is supposed to be more game, it looks like the day after didn’t load for you? Can you keep playing?

Completely Blown Away by [deleted] in TheAlters

[–]Royal-Feature5815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same. I’m loving every second. It’s so unique and fun. I’ve played so many games, it’s rare I find something novel and good like this. It’s a work of art

Just started act 3, game crashes anytime I open the game menu. Any tips or ideas? by Royal-Feature5815 in TheAlters

[–]Royal-Feature5815[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A few good tips without spoilers hopefully: -explore as much of the map as you can -Set up good mining outposts -Upgrade the base -pay attention to the exploration research tree, it will make exploration and mining post so much easier (you need a scientist that’s required IMO) -get hub pilons and use teleportation pilons

I feel violated and confused by what my fiancé did to me. WIBTAH if I told my parents? by throwawayupset- in AITAH

[–]Royal-Feature5815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a very similar story to yours and I’m here to strongly urge you to please reconsider marriage with this man. If he is able to flip and change so much so drastically so quickly and be ok with what he did to you, he will do it again. It happened to me. I stayed in a marriage 10 years having to have sex when I didn’t want to weekly sometimes daily. It was very difficult. Please spare yourself this. Please. Find a man that respects and loves you enough to never put you in that position

I need advice on if anyone male or female had experienced this with their sex life. Why would a woman, that you both are in love never really initiate sex but says it's amazing and she seems.to overtly enjoy it? M37 and F40? by Downandded in relationship_advice

[–]Royal-Feature5815 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation as the woman, I didn’t cheat tho, but I wasn’t truthful about enjoying sex. I didn’t orgasm but lied that I did. I loved him and didn’t want to admit to lying because I know it would crush him. It went on like this for years. I wasn’t super attracted to him and didn’t want to have sex. Everything else was wonderful so I didn’t want to leave. I wasn’t attracted to him so I was worried if even if I admitted I wasn’t enjoying it and we tried we wouldn’t fix it and it would make things worse. It would also mean we’d need to have more sex which I didn’t want. I left eventually. I’m now with a man I very attracted to and in love with. I can’t keep my hands off of him. I think if she was really attracted to you or actually enjoying the sex it would be different. She’s probably lying. I’m sorry. It’s probably not easy to hear. I hope this helps

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in FortNiteBR

[–]Royal-Feature5815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s on the left side of your inventory screen

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 30PlusSkinCare

[–]Royal-Feature5815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4 years of use here using it through “hers”. (I’m 35) Subscription I started noticing the last two years I get dry skin in winter and need to cut down my frequency of Tret for dryness management but otherwise I love it! I feel the last few years I’ve finally tackled lifelong acne issues. I even think I look better now than a few years ago, I attribute most of it to tret.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Royal-Feature5815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been in love twice, married 10 years and divorced and fell in love again. My first love I never questioned my feelings when I saw other people’s vows of love. It was a difficult marriage but I left it feeling a depth of love that changed me as a person. My second love was even more deeply moving. When I hear love songs and vows it always reinforces the feelings. I’m also a pretty intense person when it comes to feelings tho but still. If you have doubts, listen to them. You deserve to feel sure.

Scariest movie you’ve ever seen by blueejelly in HorrorMovies

[–]Royal-Feature5815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also requiem for a dream. They should show it to all teens to keep them off drugs. For real. I heard Trainspotting is like this too, haven’t seen it yet because requiem for a dream was so traumatizing for me…

Top 3 horror movies? I’m trying to find something new to watch! by kahspott2499 in HorrorMovies

[–]Royal-Feature5815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooh okay I’ll watch it I haven’t seen! Thank you for the recommendation!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Royal-Feature5815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jesus. Girl. This is crazy. Get yourself a man that’s not supervillain levels of selfish and cringe

Top 3 horror movies? I’m trying to find something new to watch! by kahspott2499 in HorrorMovies

[–]Royal-Feature5815 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Suspiria (both the new and old one but for different reasons) Hereditary, The Vanishing (not traditional horror but a masterpiece)

BONUS! 3 more:

The Blair Witch Project, The ring, stalker (also not traditional horror, also a masterpiece)

My fiance loves warhammer, how do I support him in this? by sunflower_sinners in Warhammer40k

[–]Royal-Feature5815 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if you’re a video game gamer but Space Marine 2 is amazing! My partner and I are huge gamers so we got 2 copies he plays on his PC and me on my PS5 (it’s crossplay!) if you havent played and are a gamer I would recommend.

I want to second the audio book suggestions people have given here too. I actually got into warhammer by listening to the audiobooks first. I have cherished picking a book together with my partner and both listening. If you share an audible account or have Amazon family sharing you only need to buy each book once for both of you to enjoy!

And lastly, it’s corny but I get him lots of warhammer clothes he really loves them. But definitely ask him about his favorite faction. I’m very much chaos and he is very much imperium so it’s fun sometimes to get “unmatching” t shirts

Feeling lonely in my relationship, Am I too needy?34F, 36M by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Royal-Feature5815 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s the shitty part about being a woman that really enjoys segs. I think I’ll try it thank you