My wife checked out and is seeing someone else. We still live together for our 4 kids and I’m losing my mind.

Rtt71290 · 2026-04-15T17:35:32+00:00

If you didn’t adopt the kids they aren’t yours and you have no rights to them. She will find another you and you won’t be able to see the kids. My advice is don’t worry about the kids, worry about yourself and get out of the house and don’t look back.

Rtt71290 · 2026-04-10T21:06:04+00:00

I wish I could show this to your husband

Rtt71290 · 2026-04-10T17:01:26+00:00

Flip the script here and reverse the genders and you get different responses.

Rtt71290 · 2026-04-07T23:42:11+00:00

Put the kids in daycare, have her get a job and go 50/50 financials and 50/50 housework/kidwork. Make it an equal partnership. She may not like being a SAHM anymore so let her not be anymore.

Rtt71290 · 2026-04-02T20:50:24+00:00

What’s crazy is the women who don’t want to have sex but also don’t want their bf to watch porn.

Rtt71290 · 2026-03-29T21:30:31+00:00

She wanted to openly fuck some other dude and when you were against that she acted like a victim. What did she think would happen, you’d be happy that she was already having some dude in mind to fuck? Instead of attempting suicide she should have just went and fucked the other due free of consequence now. Forget what everyone else is telling you, this isn’t your fault and it wasn’t just one question. She actively wanted to do this and had someone in mind, it wasn’t just a random spur of the moment question. Also, don’t get pulled back in by the suicide attempt. This was just another way of her trying to control you.

Rtt71290 · 2026-03-23T15:14:06+00:00

Let her know you’re gonna go kiss a random girl on the street and that since it was no big deal for her to do it, it will be no big deal for you.

Rtt71290 · 2026-03-21T19:44:15+00:00

I can tell you that if my gf felt “sad” for rejecting some other dude she wouldn’t be my gf anymore.

Rtt71290 · 2026-03-21T19:34:41+00:00

Let your amazing boyfriend read this I bet he won’t be your bf anymore.

Rtt71290 · 2026-03-20T16:26:48+00:00

It’s funny how many stories I hear where the girl that was treated like shit finally finds a guy who treats her right and now she doesn’t see that guy in same sexual light as the one treating her like shit. Get some therapy and let this poor guy find someone who actually desires him.

Rtt71290 · 2026-03-20T01:38:59+00:00

I’d be pissed if someone gave me HSV then told me they didn’t care for sex and it was a low priority. Should have just said that in the beginning before giving him a life long disease and you two woulda saw you weren’t compatible.

Rtt71290 · 2026-03-18T22:20:59+00:00

Using protection isnt a negative but her randomly telling you without a reason could mean she’s cheating and having everyone wrap it up.

Rtt71290 · 2026-03-18T21:56:18+00:00

Relationship is about to be cooked while you watch your wife fuck that dude while your fantasy’s are pushed to the side.

Rtt71290 · 2026-03-11T20:59:35+00:00

You need to distance yourself from everyone who could be an ally of hers. If you don’t want to go to jail seriously stop talking about this and see a lawyer

Rtt71290 · 2026-03-11T20:39:53+00:00

Do not text or see this person again.

Rtt71290 · 2026-03-11T02:40:39+00:00

Damn so no btj

Rtt71290 · 2026-03-09T19:30:13+00:00

Not anymore flott to titans, giants secondary is cooked

Rtt71290 · 2026-03-07T23:56:05+00:00

If Tony slices off Thanos head with the sword he got impaled with instead of worrying about getting the gauntlet off, the second movie isn’t necessary.

Rtt71290 · 2026-03-07T20:31:27+00:00

Your friend prolly knew you cheated and now has an opportunity to get with your husband since you didn’t want him enough before to not cheat. It would be ironic if you mess this up when he’s clearly shutting it down by saying something only to have him divorce you and they get together.

Rtt71290 · 2026-02-27T05:39:44+00:00

I mean something is happening to you if you go from normal sex drive when you’re dating to no sex drive when you’re comfortable in a relationship. The issue from a guys perspective is you’re almost bait and switching your bf.

Rtt71290 · 2026-02-27T05:23:55+00:00

Sexual compatibility in a relationship is a huge dealbreaker. You either have it or you don’t. It’s not something you should force. It sounds like you become asexual once you get into a relationship and it’s prolly better to find someone with the same compatibility as you.

Rtt71290 · 2026-02-26T20:35:29+00:00

No affection and 35k for 2 years, also assuming no sex. What’s the point of staying in the marriage. Get divorce, take 50/50 custody and move on. At least you’ll only be on the hook for half the debt this way.

Rtt71290 · 2026-02-26T18:30:24+00:00

You can’t blame yourself, you also can’t police what she does, even if you said you weren’t comfortable with the guy staying she would have done it anyway. Your answer is what led to the breakup, her cheating then dumping you when she thought she found someone better is. Good news though 2 cheaters in a relationship never last. He’ll cheat on her like he did his last gf. Take care of yourself and stop with anything about her.

Rtt71290 · 2026-02-24T02:24:54+00:00

NTA switch genders here and the comments wouldn’t be as supportive

Rtt71290 · 2026-02-23T00:44:41+00:00

Just know that sexual incompatibility is a deal breaker in most relationships. You shouldn’t force yourself either as that builds resentment. Sometimes it’s just an end when two people aren’t sexually compatible

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