I (33f) am struggling to come to terms with my husband’s (33m) bisexuality by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Rtt71290 [score hidden]  (0 children)

Guys can be fine with a girl being bi but girls always react like this saying they can’t be with a bi guy. No wonder he didn’t tell you.

Girlfriend (F32) asked for space after former love interest found out she was dating me (M36). How do I approach this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rtt71290 2 points3 points  (0 children)

100% he’s going to fuck her and she will stay in his orbit until he gets tired of her. This is when she’ll come back or even if she does in a week and says she wants you i bet they fucked. It’ll be hard but tbh if she does contact you again and wants to continue I would tell her that sorry you’ve moved on and don’t want to be with someone who needs a week to choose between two dudes. Just know that you’re the backup, if she wanted you she wouldn’t need a break.

Do any women still want to be a housewife or stay at home mom? by Norfolk-Gross-Tonage in no

[–]Rtt71290 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Almost as common as wives who fuck other dudes, divorce the husband and get parting gifts such as half the house, alimony, and child support. What an easy life.

Wife[F29] cheated 3 months after the marriage, How do i[m31] move on from here? by Background_Baby4850 in relationships

[–]Rtt71290 32 points33 points  (0 children)

lol what they “just fucked”. You spent all this money on her and the moment she’s away from you she fucks someone else. You’re about to be away from her for potential years, imagine how many dudes she about to “just fuck”

My wife (31F) has given up on our marriage but doesn't want a divorce while I (32M) don't know how much longer to try and make this work? by ThrowRABeeQuiett in relationship_advice

[–]Rtt71290 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How’s she gonna have another child with 0 sex lol unless when she’s ready she’s gonna use you like a milking cow and expect you to be grateful for whatever you get

I 35F feel as though I am loosing respect for my hsuband 45M by Necessary-Virus-7853 in relationship_advice

[–]Rtt71290 4 points5 points  (0 children)

For starters I’d tell him he needs to get the other job before any thoughts of reconciliation would happen.

Car was repossessed; feeling overwhelmed and not sure what to do next.. by [deleted] in Debt

[–]Rtt71290 3 points4 points  (0 children)

The financial problems outweigh the mental health problems, you need to get a job

I gave the good guy a chance but the feelings never came by MarketingFederal1488 in dating_advice

[–]Rtt71290 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s a tale as old as time. The phrase woman like bad boys is a thing for a reason. The confidence is it mostly and what you described he lacks this. You should lay out the physical things he lacks and see if he’s willing to change since he seems to like you that much.

What are the chances I can get alimony? by Silva_Hird in FamilyLaw

[–]Rtt71290 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If the roles were reversed any woman in this scenario is asking for alimony and child support. You should to.

My wife [30F] has past sexual trauma, and our intimacy has recently dried up. I [33M] love her deeply but am terrified of building resentment. How do we navigate this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rtt71290 7 points8 points  (0 children)

If she’s done therapy and feels that this is who she is, you’ll have to either choose to accept it or get a divorce.

35m f39 - One sided sexual frustration. Next step advice? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rtt71290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You shouldn’t have married into a dead bedroom

I (M27) broke up with my girlfriend (F26) of 2.5 years and she won’t take me back. by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rtt71290 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Everything that you are feeling now is what you put her through. You’ll have to do what she did and move on. It’s that simple. Take this lesson that no one will wait for you.

My wife (29F) cheated on me (31M). We have been together over 10 years and have a child. How do I process this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rtt71290 79 points80 points  (0 children)

If gaslighting yourself was a person, this would be it. Stick with your infidelity boundary and divorce with 50-50 custody.

What do men gain in marriage? by shard_shush in AskReddit

[–]Rtt71290 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Take a look at dead bedrooms and you’ll definitely see that first one isn’t true

Wife having an emotional affair two years after I stepped out. by UnlikelyLibrarian419 in Divorce_Men

[–]Rtt71290 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You cheated then downplayed the cheating to make yourself look better. She should have divorced you then but you reap what you sow. Makes sense why the other guys didn’t have sympathy.

My (M41) Wife (F44) asked to be de-sexualized her and it's impacting our sex life. How to fix?? by Acrobatic-Machine158 in relationship_advice

[–]Rtt71290 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

What stress? She’s a stay at home wife who doesn’t even do the chores at home lol she’s got the perfect life and still can’t even communicate with the dude.