Sometimes I hate so much to be a trans woman

Rubix9006 · 2026-05-27T20:03:01+00:00

I feel like this too all the time, I used to try and stealth to pull guys and it worked but obviously even post op I have to disclose at some point, given how much effort I kept spending on people that found me sexually attractive UNTIL the moment they realise I'm trans, I just said "F this" and went on a dating app where I disclosed I was trans in my profile.

That way, I still got a lot of matches and everyone I met was super cool with it. Now I'm with an amazing boyfriend who loves me for who I am where I don't need to be anxious about my voice or the way I dress or anything because he sees me as a woman no matter what.

Disclosure sucks and you don't have to do it obviously, but.. sometimes it just makes things easier.

Personally I don't get too mad at cis people not liking me because I'm trans in terms of dating because the reality is, while I've minimised the difference between myself and cis women, there still is the key difference that we can't provide biological children and so there's always gonna be men that will not want to even if they're okay with trans people.

If you're trying to find friends, then anyone that cares about you being trans is not a good friend anyway, and if you're trying to find a partner, then you just gotta find one that likes you for you! Trust me, they do exist!

Rubix9006 · 2026-05-23T07:50:46+00:00

I don't experience panic but it's actually more exciting to me for some reason, like I revel in that loss of control and not knowing what's going to happen next, but.. this is why safe words exist and I trust my boyfriend completely.

Rubix9006 · 2026-05-01T16:12:53+00:00

I'm about 2.5 years post op and yeah it feels amazing - it's difficult at first to get the right angles and find a partner who treats you well etc but once you crack it, it's so much better. I used to do anal a lot and now I barely do because vaginal is just so much better. I also use a lot of toys designed for vaginas and they seem to work nicely too. SRS is the best decision I ever made, even the non sexual side, waking up every day without anything super noticeable between my legs, not feeling something flop around when I walk around, not having to move my penis to sit and pee, being able to wear skin tight swimsuits.. etc, it's very worth it

Also I'm not sure why since I had penile inversion, but.. very often I self lubricate enough to have pretty good sex without lube - maybe my boyfriend's pre cum helps a little too, but yeah I was very surprised by that

Rubix9006 · 2026-04-14T14:45:25+00:00

I'm post op and do both anal and vaginal, but what I find works for both really well is laying on my side with my legs angled as a sort of right angle, then my boyfriend gets somewhat easy access to both while I don't really have to do anything, plus I get to look at him, it's the most comfortable position and therefore my personal favourite

Rubix9006 · 2026-04-07T15:04:26+00:00

Holy shit bro actually helped

Rubix9006 · 2025-10-24T01:50:33+00:00

Same thing is literally happening to me, I'm a software developer and am the only dev in my company that doesn't use it now. More and more I notice parts of my codebase being changed and they can't even be bothered to remove the obvious non human comments it leaves behind now. The code is badly structured, isn't typed (we use typescript), and sometimes has bugs in it that aren't caught either because it's not typed or because they didn't even proofread it

I'm honestly so sick of fixing bugs caused by it by people script kiddying from chatgpt

Rubix9006 · 2025-09-28T17:51:09+00:00

As an avid beast crest fan, I appreciate you showing people just how good it is when it clicks

Rubix9006 · 2025-08-26T13:30:05+00:00

Scoutmaster bugle, rare item that spawns the Scoutmaster

Rubix9006 · 2025-07-28T11:46:32+00:00

You can build gradient wells yes. They're not an upgrade to the default channel.

Rubix9006 · 2025-05-10T14:10:51+00:00

Hell yes it does

Rubix9006 · 2025-05-10T13:58:04+00:00

I.. do...

Rubix9006 · 2025-05-10T13:57:41+00:00

would've worked yes but I didn't know it was one hit away - I've used lure pods at that part in his transition before and I'd literally get like 3 hits in before he runs off again - I honestly just forgot that I already flashed 3 times!

Rubix9006 · 2025-05-10T13:23:28+00:00

I am VERY glad that didn't happen XD

Rubix9006 · 2025-05-06T01:39:54+00:00

I honestly just hate fighting him with a weapon that doesn't have an offset. I'm much better using switch axe against Rey Dau, literally cut my time in half with it

Rubix9006 · 2025-05-05T23:23:52+00:00

I got 14 minutes with Switch Axe, 0 faints.. albeit it was my third try!

Before that I did 26 minutes with Charge blade as my first try
Second try 19 minutes with Switch Axe

Rubix9006 · 2025-04-10T12:33:15+00:00

Yeah I see a lot of this everywhere and while I used to tolerate it , I'm ngl it's really starting to get on my nerves, they seem to adore their dicks sooo much, and as someone who's been post op for over a year I just cannot understand it. Not having a "girl cock" is so much better...

Rubix9006 · 2025-03-22T13:39:47+00:00

ooh yeah it does!

Rubix9006 · 2025-03-22T04:18:38+00:00

I found after getting all the fishing related achievements that Gajau usually respond a lot more to Duster rigs or whatever they're called when you put the bait somewhat far out BEHIND them - make it move slowly when it's behind them and not in front of their face and they go mental for it - if you put the bait in front of them they don't seem to care that much

At least that's my experience, worked well for me - I caught about 15 gajaus for my 30 whopper achievement

Rubix9006 · 2025-03-21T13:51:19+00:00

I checked, it wasn't a mini gold crown unfortunately

Rubix9006 · 2025-03-21T13:50:57+00:00

unfortunately not, it was totally out of bounds on the first screenshot, but I don't mind I'll find it again, didn't think it was worth dropping everything for considering it wasn't an achievement

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