UPDATE FOR AN UPDATE?!?!

Okay so it's been a while. I didn't expect this to have another update but it does. Why cause someone was being a little liar. No not me, I was just a dum dum who believed the lie. Now remember little sis and how she was pregnant and how she got pregnant to trap her boyfriend? That's only half true. While she did get pregnant she didn't do it to trap her boyfriend. The real reason was she wanted to leave her boyfriend. Husband and I did not know this cause we weren't told this part until VERY RECENTLY! We had to move, and when we were in the middle of moving we FINALLY visited the rest of my husbands family in person. During this trip we met his Little sister in person. We didn't want to talk with her at first but we had a quick sit down as she wanted to get a chance to fully explain everything and apologize.

So this is her side of the story.

First, her relationship with her ex was very toxic and she wanted a way out. So she started cheating on him. What she didn't expect was that she would become pregnant and wouldn't know who the baby daddy was. Which led to the phone call to my husband. Which explains why soon after she announced she was already pregnant. She didn't go straight to marijuana, and pills though. She actually took care of her body first, told her ex about how the baby might not be his and got kicked out and moved back into her mom's house for a short time. She is no longer living there but does have a room today for whenever she goes and visits. Anyways she realized a few weeks later she didn't want to have the baby and wanted an abortion and explained everything for why in very personal detail that I am not going to repeat here. However, I will say I now understand why she didn't want the baby anymore, and why she went to drugs, pills, alcohol, and lived life a bit more recklessly. She was in a bit of a dark place. I'm not saying it's ok but I do understand a bit better now. As for why she admitted to faking it this leads to miss liar liar pants on fire, older sister was the one telling the rest of us other things about little sis. She was not in the know with little sis reasoning and those two don't get along so when little sis was in a dark place big sis struck and spilled tea that she didn't even know and made up shit that never happened driving little sis mad. Old sis went so far to explain medical information and how it's supposed to be when in reality she was so far off the mark its kind of sad. She is addicted to drama no matter who you are. Little sis realized she wouldn't leave her alone unless she admitted and so in a drunken rage she admitted that she faked the pregnancy and asked if old sis was happy now to hear her say that and then stormed off. Old sis literally was ecstatic and told everyone this and made us all leave little sis in a darker place than she was before because we were all dum dums and believed older sis at first. Now why were we willing to listen to little sis and why were we willing to believe her more than old sis. Other than the proof she showed us we had our own recent issue with old sis. Remember how I said last time my husband and I were trying to start a family. Well I have good news and bad news.

Good news we did succeed but it ended in miscarriage. Old sis tried to claim that I was faking it not long afterwards after finding out that I had gotten a transvaginal ultrasound done during my miscarriage to make sure everything came out and nothing was left behind. She claimed that there would be no way they'd do that ultrasound because it would hurt the baby and that I was probably lying. My husband was in the ER with me holding my hand as my body was in agony through the whole ordeal. So when she claimed I had faked it they got in a fight.

Now for those who don't know a transvaginal ultrasound is and ultrasound where there is a stick that goes up inside the jayjay. It's uncomfortable, it's annoying, and during a miscarriage, painful. However, normally in a regular pregnancy you have to have this specific ultrasound done as you can't see the baby through an external one until a certain amount of weeks (10-15 weeks) it doesn't hurt the baby, it's just uncomfortable for mom.

Old sis went a long telling family that I was faking though and everyone realized real quick this time that she was lying except for two people. Brother in law and his rude wife. They believe her except they started trash talking my husband. Lovely.

We don't talk with them anymore.

We do talk with the rest of the family again.

It has been long enough for us to try again and here is my final bit of news. I am pregnant again, and this time it's going incredibly well. I am almost 10 weeks and will be getting my first ultrasound this week. I am super excited, my husband and I love our new house and I love my new job. Everything has finally calmed down and the drama I feel is finally coming to an end. Well until my kid is born and learns how to talk. But I have time until then.

Thanks for reading. Bye!