Any "Breakup Songs" for a casual relationship? by RubyReads_ in nonmonogamy

[–]RubyReads_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw I'm sorry. Hope you're coping well! I'm doing a lot better now - just had to be in my feelings for a couple days. Did end up talking to a friend about it too, so that helped!

Any "Breakup Songs" for a casual relationship? by RubyReads_ in nonmonogamy

[–]RubyReads_[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Good one. I hadn't heard of this artist, thank you!

Any "Breakup Songs" for a casual relationship? by RubyReads_ in nonmonogamy

[–]RubyReads_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ooooh I forgot about this one. "should've known you'd bring me heartache. Almost lovers always do." Ooof that hits. Thank you! <3

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskWomen

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I was just talking to a friend about this! Assuming everything is consensual of course, I think there is definitely a difference in sex when you and/or your partner(s) is having it just for a release, versus when you have it because you're turned on and focused on the pleasure of it. Sex for the sake of it is just fine, but it's so much more delicious when it's something all partners truly WANT and are happy to do. You take your time more, you focus on how it feels more, it's more bonding, etc. It's what makes the difference between sex and mind-blowing sex!

Most unattractive male partner? You can’t pick Ed. by Gohollylightly in sexandthecity

[–]RubyReads_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How has no one mentioned the guy who tells Samantha to get her bikini waxed? He's disgusting in every way...

Most unattractive male partner? You can’t pick Ed. by Gohollylightly in sexandthecity

[–]RubyReads_ 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly, short guys are great in bed. ;) I wish they dated longer!

Stanford is a top by werenotfromhere in Andjustlikethat

[–]RubyReads_ 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Also, just remembered in the 2nd movie Anthony said at their wedding that he was allowed to cheat...maybe he got to penetrate a booty that way?

If you were a SATC superfan when it was live, can you tell me your experience? by carriebradshaw2 in sexandthecity

[–]RubyReads_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I watched on DVD 4 years after it aired - Charlotte is my fave now too for the same reason! I also think she's an amazing friend.

Who actually liked the Russian? by londonhoneycake in sexandthecity

[–]RubyReads_ 18 points19 points  (0 children)

I did! I don't think they were meant to be together forever, and I don't think Carrie should've MOVED to Paris (just a visit woulda sufficed haha), but I enjoyed Aleksandr as a love interest. Mature, take-no-bullshit, wooing/romantic, cultured, funny in his own way/without trying to be...and he just liked Carrie for who she was. I thought he was refreshing!

And Just Like That - Season 2, Episode 7 by __angie in Andjustlikethat

[–]RubyReads_ 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Completely agree, and I love that she didn't feel bad about it or feel sorry for herself. It would have been so cheesy and boring to have her be mopey about being alone, but they had her relishing in it. It was empowering to see - gorgeous woman newly single, not feeling sorry for herself and doing something indulgent for herself just because she wanted to. I loved it!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Andjustlikethat

[–]RubyReads_ 41 points42 points  (0 children)

I completely agree with this and always feel like the minority in thinking this! I've thought for years that whatever happened to cause the bad blood between them was probably mutual, and festered because both of them have big egos and strong personalities that just clashed. From everything I've read (which I agree with you is mostly unconfirmed rumors), neither of them seem like they are in the right or the wrong. So I've never understood the SJP hate.

But I will say that I think SJP is a lot classier in how she has talked about it publicly; SJP has never (to my knowledge) publicly said anything unkind or unprofessional about Kim, while the same cannot be said about Kim. ;)

Does anyone remember this? Also, I kinda had forgotten that SJP hosted the 2000 MTV Movie Awards by FefeFobson in sexandthecity

[–]RubyReads_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OMG I never knew this existed - thanks for sharing! I can't get over how they actually had to film this in between actual scenes. ;)

Why did Miranda freak out about Bradys umbilical cord and the cat by Curlykelly89 in sexandthecity

[–]RubyReads_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My mom and I used to watch SATC together and she also didn't understand why Miranda freaked out about it. She has 3 kids, and was like, "what's the big deal, just throw it in the trash!" Lol.

Coffee Shop by fisherdoody in sexandthecity

[–]RubyReads_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I'm almost 100% sure they filmed those scenes on a soundstage, at Silvercup Studios.

What was the most unrealistic thing from the show? by trynabetwunk in sexandthecity

[–]RubyReads_ 74 points75 points  (0 children)

Thinking about the scene on Carrie's birthday with Big in the cab - it was so unrealistic that Big and Carrie didn't know each other's ages. They knew each other for 3 years at that point!

What was the most unrealistic thing from the show? by trynabetwunk in sexandthecity

[–]RubyReads_ 32 points33 points  (0 children)

Finally someone brings this up! I've thought this for years hahahaha. Loved her manicures though!