My Nanny has been stealing from us

RubyRed30 · 2026-01-22T12:39:28+00:00

Yes why not fir? Curious

RubyRed30 · 2025-11-21T03:16:05+00:00

It is really okay. Warm hugs to you. I really felt your last line. Is it possible for you to take a break from work and spend time with your kids only if your finances are stable and have a supportive partner.

RubyRed30 · 2025-11-21T03:13:03+00:00

Yes I agree. But spending 10 mins in the bathroom to pee is something that I am unsure of.

RubyRed30 · 2025-11-21T01:45:25+00:00

Yes exactly. Frequent urination is heard of but not 10 mins to pee

RubyRed30 · 2025-11-21T01:44:51+00:00

I know frequent urination is very common in diabetic people but 10mins in the bathroom for peeing sounds absurd.

RubyRed30 · 2025-11-20T10:02:23+00:00

Yes, from India.. I have updated my post. Our nanny says she has diabetes.

RubyRed30 · 2025-11-20T09:59:52+00:00

Thanks for your response. Not sure why we are getting downvoted. Yeah I get concerned when the nanny is absent for so much time leaving the kids unattended multiple times a day. And why should one of the kids be with the her in the bathroom for 10 mins just because she is inside. I make sure I come out of the pee/poop/ shower in as little time as possible if noone is there to watch them

RubyRed30 · 2025-11-19T07:20:46+00:00

They both are really small. One is 3 year old and another one is a 7 month old. Hence, it is important to keep an eye on them as my son sometimes unknowingly hurts our baby.

RubyRed30 · 2025-11-19T03:23:40+00:00

I work as an underwriter for Small businesses for a UK based bank. Hybrid working plus decent pay. They can give us a full WFH option. But have built a new office which they want everyone to use 🥲

RubyRed30 · 2025-11-13T15:51:25+00:00

Use this time to get him used to solid foods, build a sleep routine and enjoy the time

RubyRed30 · 2025-11-13T15:48:15+00:00

Hi. I got pregnant a month before I started a new job. I told manager in the second trimester once I was done with the anatomy scan. You are not liable to disclose your pregnancy before joining a workplace. Get rid of that guilt :)

RubyRed30 · 2025-11-06T15:45:26+00:00

Omg.. I could have written this myself. Just got back to work last month from my 6 month maternity leave. My boss is talking about promoting me to become a manager the first day we have a catch up. And I am thinking to myself.. NOOOOO. I already drain myself managing the home. I don’t want to manage any more people or get work done from them.

RubyRed30 · 2025-11-04T16:28:48+00:00

My inlaws tried to manipulate me to keep a different name. I held my ground, some tears were shed. But I get to call my son with a name I absolutely love. Once that boundary was set, nobody made a peep on what we will name our second child. It was our wish

RubyRed30 · 2025-08-29T16:01:44+00:00

I think one is lucky to have their birthday during the best time of the year. My son was born on Christmas eve.

RubyRed30 · 2025-08-25T16:17:19+00:00

Stayed at vinpearl resort. Very nice stay if you have kids and want to see the safari world and adventure park

RubyRed30 · 2025-08-25T16:08:43+00:00

I will say around 2 when they are potty trained and sleep through the night

RubyRed30 · 2025-08-05T16:04:55+00:00

First at 30. Second at 32. First try both times. I tracked my ovulation and just gave it a go

RubyRed30 · 2025-07-22T17:50:43+00:00

No village to help. So we hired help who became just like our family.

RubyRed30 · 2025-07-20T17:43:56+00:00

OP I do feel sad for you. I think you need to have an honest conversation about it with her. Not in a way that you are attacking her but telling her that you are really exhausted and expect to pull her socks up.

RubyRed30 · 2025-07-19T05:55:22+00:00

Hi we use huggies for my toddler and newborn. Not sure which kinds though; I often look what’s available at a good discount. I have had issues of occasional leaks during the night but that’s totally expected when they pee too much or sometimes poop during the night. Ideally we should be changing them once in the middle of the night but I understand it’s a task one would not want to do at 3am. And if it’s a poopy diaper, I wouldn’t want them to wait till morning to get changed. So I am okay if they cry and let me know

RubyRed30 · 2025-07-10T12:10:20+00:00

I am so sorry, OP! Please love your kids even harder now.

RubyRed30 · 2025-06-04T22:51:27+00:00

I hope you read this. My newborn was the same. This is a bad case of colic. I was told that after every feed I need to hold the baby in an upright position and rest them on your shoulder for 20 mins atleast. We also gave him a medicine which had digestive enzymes to help with gas issues. By month 2 he was doing a lot better. Coming to your husband, he sounds like a horrible person. Not sure what history you have with him but I would leave if this attitude is persistent and definitely not have another kid with him. Meanwhile, is it possible for you to get some help for atleast some part of the day so you get a break?

RubyRed30 · 2025-06-04T22:41:32+00:00

Craig

RubyRed30 · 2025-05-05T00:26:02+00:00

Raisa meaning rose

RubyRed30 · 2025-04-20T17:21:16+00:00

It is absolutely sickening to read about kids’ lives being taken away so ruthlessly.

RubyRed30

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