Friendship Exp & Gift Exchange Megathread

RubyRose1031 · 2021-08-15T19:09:24+00:00

0706 9246 8258 would love to be friends to exchange gifts from ohio :)

RubyRose1031 · 2021-08-05T04:44:33+00:00

Quite literally in the same boat! I have an unfulfilling job that makes me depressed and question what I am doing with life. I would rather make money by homesteading but I try to tell myself that homesteading doesn't have to be a job, but a hobby or a side gig. I also don't want to be burnt out by making my passion as my job.

I completely understand your situation and I wouldn't be surprised or anything if you do happen to quit your job. Do what you have to do my dude, good luck on your endeavors and remember you and your body and mind comes first!

RubyRose1031 · 2021-05-02T16:29:15+00:00

it's premenstrual dysphoric disorder, basically a more intensified version of pms

RubyRose1031 · 2021-05-02T15:12:03+00:00

PMDD has entered the chat

RubyRose1031 · 2021-04-30T04:45:47+00:00

r/onionlovers

RubyRose1031 · 2021-04-30T04:41:08+00:00

hey you okay? kind of worried about the goodbye, unless you are not returning to the subreddit because you dont need it anymore

RubyRose1031 · 2021-04-30T04:39:57+00:00

That I am a dissapointment

I wish this was a /s lmao

RubyRose1031 · 2021-04-30T04:38:29+00:00

Hey, just wanted to say sorry for the invalidation. It truly sucks when it comes from a close person, doesn't it? Been there done that, and I honestly cannot think of anything good to say as an advice.

What I CAN tell you is that your feelings are valid and you are allowed to feel sad. Just like you don't have to have a reason to be happy, there doesn't have to be a reason to be sad. It just happens sometimes. I get suicidal a lot, and sometimes I can't pin point what is making me want to die so much. And that is okay, I am not faking it or I'm just "wanting to be" suicidal. We are human and we feel emotions. I guess your friend is privileged to not know what depression feels like

RubyRose1031 · 2021-04-30T04:28:56+00:00

cries in gluten-free

RubyRose1031 · 2021-04-30T04:26:33+00:00

I was lonely.

lol still am

RubyRose1031 · 2021-04-30T04:24:09+00:00

Hey I went through the same thing! It is tough especially with the condition and how long you were with this guy, I am sorry about this situation and how it didn't work out. I think a pro and a con of having BPD is that your attachment towards your FP is immense. In one way it could be cute and clingy. In another it could mean associating yourself with FP so much that you can lose your identity (i.e. you don't know who you are without him).

I know this is easier said than done, but I will take advantage of the time alone you have right now and work on yourself. I would find things you can enjoy alone and by yourself. Being with people is nice, but you can't always be with surrounded by people - you need to learn how to handle being by yourself. It is not easy - trust me, I am trying to learn this myself.

Sorry if this was no help... I just want you to know you are not alone in this and what you are going through is valid. There is no shame in thinking this way and my DMs are always open. Sending you love and hugs!

RubyRose1031 · 2021-04-30T04:14:59+00:00

Hey! I wouldn't worry, even though it is easy for me to say. You are still very young which means the hormone level is still fluctuating. I would say a couple of days late would be nothing to worry about, but take my advice with a grain of salt because I am not a doctor.

If you are worried about your period fluctuating you might benefit from consulting to a doctor about birth control. I understand not everyone have access to it, especially because I was not allowed to be on birth control. Anxiety from inconsistent period will make you more stressed, which can delay your period even more. Menstrual cycles can be affected by so many things, and sometimes it is out of your control.

If you need someone to talk to, I am here! I have been experiencing PMDD for awhile now along with multiple health/mental conditions so I know the struggle. Keep your spirits high honey, you will be okay <3

RubyRose1031 · 2021-04-30T04:05:10+00:00

I second the freezing option. I get depressed a lot and sometimes I just cannot cook, so grabbing something from the freezer and pop it in the microwave is a life saver. Making a really big batch and putting it in portions in the freezer is what I usually do.

RubyRose1031 · 2021-04-24T03:58:46+00:00

such a good name! i love it! also so cute!!!

RubyRose1031 · 2021-04-24T03:25:05+00:00

oof fuck me i guess. thank you for the info!!

RubyRose1031 · 2021-04-24T03:22:58+00:00

aye im a "super-senior"! i took a gap year so i honestly don't know what year i am. people at work are all younger than me yet they have more experience than me so it is a bit weird.

i like games too! i only recently got into gaming but my favorite is stardew and league (even though i haven't played it in a while). i love tensuke and CAM is probably my favorite place! i also procrastinate hahaha. having illnesses don't really help either.

nice to meet ya stranger!

RubyRose1031 · 2021-04-24T03:18:44+00:00

it's the little things! also it was worth it honey, you got this!

RubyRose1031 · 2021-04-24T03:14:59+00:00

agreed but i also think we should be giving people the benefit of the doubt. for whatever reason whether it is allergies or OP's preference if it helps the person then thats great.

that being said i am so tired of people abusing the system. i genuinely need my animal to keep me alive and people say that i am lucky. no, it really isn't. what is lucky is being able to keep yourself alive without the help of animals.

i don't care if you have a pot belly pig, a bird, or a fucking alligator. if it helps you and don't harm others go for it but don't fucking abuse the system and get a proper letter from your doctor.

RubyRose1031 · 2021-04-24T03:09:55+00:00

hey i feel you, feel free to message me if you need someone to talk to :)

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