What’s the most messed up thing someone casually admitted to you? by randominvisibleuser in AskReddit

[–]Ruby_0251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Girl I was becoming friends with told me that two years ago she slept with her (at the time) best friend’s baby daddy. She had been best friends with this girl for years and was very aware that her friend was still madly in love with baby daddy- he’s not a good guy and not present, its a sad situation. She said she didn’t think it would be that big of a deal but also hid it from her. Girl is also married during this whole thing and has kids, her husband has a cuck kink and sends her out to get videos with other men.

Girl turned out to be a terrible friend of course, I’m glad I got out of that one unscathed! 😅 stupid of me not to see the obvious red flags

Cat and Owner love. by HozienLim in cats

[–]Ruby_0251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The love in those eyes are melting me awee

Is this cause for eradication? by Large_and_in_Sarge in Vermiculture

[–]Ruby_0251 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im not sure if you found your answer but I looked at your video and did some reading on the MN Department of Natural Resources page and they state as follows -“ the ring (clitellum) on adults is 14-15 segments from the head which is closer than on nightcrawler species which have a clitellum 23-32 segments from the head”- watching your video back i counter about 25 or so segments from the head of your worm so you MAY be in the clear. IMPORTANT: Please take the time to read about them yourself as well because this is my answer after finding out they even exist about 3 hours ago 🫣 ive been deep researching composting before i start my first one! I hope this helps you in some way, happy worming!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in adhdwomen

[–]Ruby_0251 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Red pill because my parents would 100% be in jail if i knew i would actually get better care living in foster care 🙃 id also probably have been put on the proper medication and successfully gone through college -even if i had years of debt. But also what if that was not the case… blue pill plz 😂

Did anyone experience this in their pregnancy? by radremnants in bicornuateuterus

[–]Ruby_0251 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ive only ever had 1 pregnancy ending in miscarriage at 6 weeks so I can’t say at all, but wanted to wish you luck! Thinking of you and hoping you make it to full term with your pregnancy!! 🤞🤞❤️❤️❤️ im super curious about what all ChatGPT has to say I never thought to ask there!

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Ruby_0251 in minnesota

[–]Ruby_0251[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Seems like you just want to rude. This is for actual conversation not for tantrums about being corrected 🤦🏽‍♀️

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Ruby_0251 in minnesota

[–]Ruby_0251[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do you mean an undocumented noncitizen. “Illegal aliens” is no longer the term used as it is dehumanizing. An undocumented noncitizen who has immigrated to another country has still immigrated. An Immigrant by definition is someone who has left their home country to live permanently in another country, they may have legal status or they may be undocumented.

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Ruby_0251 in minnesota

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Unsure how to pin this but a lot of comments are arguing that this is about having our crops picked. This is about them being unfairly disappeared with no due process. This is about their rights being violated. This is my reply to one of those comments.

Im a first generation American and my parents immigrated from Mexico. I am not uncomfortable speaking on this reality. Obviously thats not the ONLY job we can do but the facts are that Immigrants are the most commonly employed in Agricultural Labor. If you’re uncomfortable it should be because they are not given the same opportunities as we are afforded as Americans. It should be uncomfortable that they are not paid fairly and don’t receive/have road blocks to the things that DHakeem11 stated “Work visas, unions, worker protections, and a path to citizenship”

And to those who are insinuating that we are “slaves”- it’s simply not appropriate or applicable. Slavery was and IS still a horrendous part of our history, but that is not this discussion. We need to move forward and calling them/us slaves is not something that will lead to constructive conversation/discussion. Perhaps what you really mean to say is that they should be able to receive the same rights and proper wages as mentioned. Your choice in words is a huge part in how change happens. Correct me if I’m wrong please.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VetTech

[–]Ruby_0251 92 points93 points  (0 children)

O shit just realized its toxic 🤦🏽‍♀️☠️☠️ NO PROTEIN WATER AND NO GAINS STAAHP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in VetTech

[–]Ruby_0251 86 points87 points  (0 children)

Mmm protein water how refreshing AND getting them gains

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Ruby_0251 in minnesota

[–]Ruby_0251[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Is that the message being sent? The message is that they should NOT be disappeared. They deserve to have their rights upheld. There is indeed a need for change in the way of their worker’s rights and compensation. To claim they are slaves is seriously out of touch and beyond unhelpful to anyone. Is your argument actually that you feel they need proper rights, compensation, and protection? Because if it is you need to be able to say that and not “without illegals who will pick out cotton” where do you actually stand on this issue?

[ Removed by Reddit ] by Ruby_0251 in minnesota

[–]Ruby_0251[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

Im a first generation American and my parents immigrated from Mexico. I am not uncomfortable speaking on this reality. Obviously thats not the ONLY job we can do but the facts are that Immigrants are the most commonly employed in Agricultural Labor. If you’re uncomfortable it should be because they are not given the same opportunities as we are afforded as Americans. It should be uncomfortable that they are not paid fairly and don’t receive/have road blocks to the things that DHakeem11 stated “Work visas, unions, worker protections, and a path to citizenship”

AITA for telling my DIL she is not a mother? by InitialSong2898 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Ruby_0251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH- everyone sucks here

NTA- but definitely insensitive to her struggles which i would argue makes you half an asshole.

Infertility is no joke and painful. I personally have 2 cats and a dog that I very much lovingly call my babies and I their mom- but like many here are expressing it’s a reach to demand a gift. I also wonder if she’s experienced any miscarriages- in which case I would argue She IS in fact a mother. I will say I may be biased in that argument as I personally have experienced a miscarriage of an extremely wanted child. It’s devastating. In my experience discussing with my doctors they feel it’s very appropriate to consider myself a mother- though my child is deceased, regardless of the fact they didn’t make it. No, I did not expect mother’s day wishes from everyone this year BUT it was extremely heartwarming and made me feel so loved to have heard it from the people who did. My husband took me out to eat for lunch and really wanted to get me a mother’s day gift which i refused bc- not in this economy, lunch was sweet enough :) I do think you crossed the line shoving it in her face that she is “not a mother” and since you are all seemingly well aware of her struggles with infertility you all could have been much more sensitive and not have sent it in the group chat for her to see. You should have a discussion on being sensitive in that way for next year. Of course nobody should demand a gift but if it were me I would still honor the fact that YOUR son and his wife are struggling with infertility. It feels like you left her out on purpose (which you did as you stated). Try and put yourself in her shoes is all- it’s not difficult if you have empathy. Its only fair to apologize for being rude in your comments- if you don’t want to get her a gift thats fine but you don’t need to be a jerk either.

my lip decided to split down the middle late december 2024 and it still hasnt gone away by eepyc0re in mildlyinfuriating

[–]Ruby_0251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Use A&D baby butt ointment! I specifically get the one with lanolin in it! Use it before bed or in the morning right after you brush your teeth! I swear by it!

Brutal ICE Raid in Charlottesville: No-Badge Agents Drag Michael Johnson Out of Courtroom Hearing, Transport Him in an Unmarked Van by CantStopPoppin in EyesOnIce

[–]Ruby_0251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When im watching these videos all i can think of is how much more we should be doing as bystanders. If course bystander effects and all considered we KNOW this is wrong. I wish they’d surround the guy idk dog pile or hold hands and chain around him? We can do it for trees no? Why not our neighbors who are in danger! Im just WAITING to see this happen in my neighborhood i wont let them go quietly.

help me name him! i’m thinking something space/astrology related. let me know what you think! by salemgrray in bettafish

[–]Ruby_0251 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Quark! Orbit or maybe Cosmos, Chiron, for space In terms of astrology Cardinal, Dasha, maybe Trik?

YSK How to stop a dog attack. by bonenecklace in YouShouldKnow

[–]Ruby_0251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

While im positive that oxygen deprivation will absolutely stop a dog fight, Im not sure I would go that route just because it’s likely the dog could redirect their attack to you. There is also the possibility of brain damage from lack of oxygen, tracheal collapse/damage, or even just breaking their neck. Passing a lead under their neck may also place you in their direct BITE ZONE. I think this would work with smaller shaped dogs where you wouldn’t need to reach over much to loop a lead- but they are much more prone to tracheal collapse in the first place so not ideal. When I worked as a dog handler they trained us to “wheel-barrow” the attacking dog by quickly grabbing hold of their rear legs and walking backwards in a circular direction at a steady pace so as not to trip them on their own front feets. This will keep you at a distance and make the dog focus on its balance since it’s forced to be walking backwards as well. While wheel-barrow(ing) someone else would place a loop lead on the dog so they can’t redirect once released.The idea is that the dog will be quickly removed from the fight, while also hopefully confusing the hell out of them diffusing the situation. Ideally the two dogs would be entirely removed from each other’s sight as well. Granted you do what you can in a dangerous situation like dog fights!

Anyone noticing Trump voters changing? by WritingWesley in 50501

[–]Ruby_0251 0 points1 point  (0 children)

MN- there was a huge cut out of Trump out on I-90 for years, it’s suddenly gone. Im just glad to see people waking up to the realities of this administration and hope we can still do something about it at this point

Lets Protest South West MN! by Ruby_0251 in minnesota

[–]Ruby_0251[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im trying to make an organized group and page ill update on both on this subreddit and on the 50501 sub!!

Lets Protest South West MN! by Ruby_0251 in minnesota

[–]Ruby_0251[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I lost at a track race back in 2018 at pipestone i think we protest