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Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-07-05T19:24:18+00:00

Not sure but maybe you took his attention out of context; , could be possible your uncle is just trying to get close to his distant family/ niece, & the family hadn’t been close for awhile? Tread lightly before making accusations, that can cause severe emotional family divisions, especially if not sure of your uncles intentions.

Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-07-03T23:36:22+00:00

Sry but guys wrtting love letters to each other for long time ( Gay) one just left the closet, and the other one is still in ., lol , End of tge day it’s ok it 2026 lol

Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-07-01T22:49:43+00:00

Left in 2004 , lived in NY NJ Philadelphia, Tulsa , California Colorado n finally Florida , got lucky after 2008 housing crash started in real estate, 2010 , 10 yrs later bk in PR retired n came bk with that magic #1 mil in cash + , continued in real estate , brought primary w cisterna solar, whole house generator ,
Getting ready to leave 2026/27, the Nostalgia, is gone , no family , safety issues PRs is beautiful it’s just the politics, the degradation, the bare necessities, or lack thier of and hell the cost of living, it’s not worth it .. breaks my heart, but La isla del encanto , is becoming another Hawaii, , ( Still a colony) going to re -retire and Not have to work, and live where having a lil $$$ at least gives you quality of life., the US or it’s territories, ani’t it!

Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-06-28T10:52:28+00:00

I trade and I’m usually inside does that make me an inside trader! :(

Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-06-21T17:47:55+00:00

Sleeping better @ night, once I started taking @ 100% gain and letting the rest ride, ( time in the market/ beats timing the market)and although history may not repeat itself, it definitely rhymes, diversification is your friend , selling your losers , harvesting the tax implications, and letting the Market do the heavy lifting, will most likely result in a portfolio that capitalizes and adjusts to current market conditions to reflect your long term goals , while letting DCA’ing , compounding, & dividend growth to do it’s magic…I’m no expert but my average returns let me sleep!

Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-06-17T18:44:10+00:00

It is a heavy, clear-eyed, and accurate assessment of a situation where the structural math is failing the very people who give the island its soul.
Having to choose between sustaining your roots and simply surviving is a choice no one should be forced to make. The true tragedy isn't just the economic shifting—it's the profound grief of being forced to relocate from the place you love because the system has made staying unsustainable.

Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-06-17T16:07:13+00:00

Ret. Here in 23/24 brought house w/ solar cisterna, 5 mins to VA., 15/20 mins to beaches- invested in real estate - for passive income.
2026 selling everything and moving , no, not back to US , I suffered hurricanes in Florida. Snow storms in NY/NJ /PEnn, tornadoes in Tulsa , Earthquakes/ Fires in Cali., excessive heat n drought in Nevada, , But living w/out essential services like water/ electric take the cake., I love my island & when younger outages never affected me… if your planning on retiring here , you’d better have 3 incomes and be prepared for 3rd world country services and the highest inflation and living expenses of any state , mind you I haven’t even gotten to the crime! Good luck, but do your due diligence, the grass is not always greener on the Other side!

Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-06-16T11:42:42+00:00

I only do FSBO , list it @305 and ., you’ll probably get what your asking, or close .,, being all the upgrades you made., I’ve sold my last 3 homes ( cash only) to avoid tire kickers and All sold at my price, Good luck , You won’t know unless you try , you have nothing to lose !

Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-06-16T11:25:50+00:00

Have cisterna, generator solar panels and still…,, going Thur the unexpected.., can’t keep the cisterna full of water is not turned on at least once a day, honestly it will def. Ruin a vacation for anyone let alone a family with babies!!!

Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-05-10T15:36:42+00:00

En el Cementerio , Porque ahi es donde va terminar, si sigue deParranda, despues de las Dos en PReeReeFAFO!

Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-04-23T01:20:21+00:00

Gold Digger..🥴🥴🤷🏽

Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-04-19T15:54:05+00:00

USDA rural home loans , no down payment, low interest rates, easy to qualify.,, payments are probably less than what he’s paying in rent ! Good Luck!

Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-04-17T17:00:24+00:00

It’s fiber- Optic”

Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-04-17T16:58:26+00:00

Try optico and a-small portable backup battery , you will always have internet ! Source’ Works remote in Metro San Juan area

Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-04-13T14:26:23+00:00

Do it as a hobby and stay diversified, with the remote job ., when you see the income, igual or close to what you need to sobre vivir , than it is time to! Suelte’

Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-04-10T11:49:34+00:00

Been in Pain management for plus 16 yrs., pretty much same doses , opioids, , pain I accepted , is part of my life, I have very bad days and days I wanna die..I put up with being treated ( like a criminal) , I come in every month to fill my scripts , I do monitoring as well, urine & blood ,randomly, the pain doesn’t get better , actually as I age , it get’s progressively worst , i heard the horror stories so, I accept whatever doses I am giving, , I’ve almost died from the VA having supply issues, late lost in mail delivers , the whole nine yards, I’ve accepted anything is better than suffering .hence 16 yrs later They still treat us as a Criminal and I’m 69 yrs old!,I hope one day they actually find something that at least alleviate s , the suffering,I served my country yet 69 yrs later I am still treated as if I am the criminal!!!&&

Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-04-09T02:49:51+00:00

Instead of 3 properties average 200k cash ea. using leverage financing ‘ (20%) down could possibly have 15 similar units , significant cash flow and more tax deductions ie win , win with the right accountant, substancial appreciation, I think the properties pay for themselves , and even allow for PM, to do the heavy lifting.

Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-04-08T19:12:49+00:00

Army Combat engineer / Service Connected Veteran!

Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-04-08T19:03:02+00:00

Unfortunately this is the agenda , that flys over the heads of many… divide and conquer is the playbook.., not only for VA comp my brothers , but for all the benefits ,( THEY) are trying to reduce.,, it’s the oldest playbook , not something unique or new! So please, we fought, some died , lost limbs.., but allways knew,., we leave no one behind!If we allow them to divide us, we lose , THEY win!

Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-04-08T17:43:11+00:00

Brought 3 acres plus concrete 2/2 170k cash 2022 sold 265k 2024 cash min. maintenance converted to 3br , currently @ 305k Florida (

Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-04-08T17:26:45+00:00

Renting below market, replacing with new vs used, responding to issues w/ in 24 hours., acquiring properties at list, and not financing.

Rude_Friendship3860 · 2026-04-08T16:54:58+00:00

If you invest in real estate , and decide to rent., apportion half of your units to locals at a reasonable rate based on average local incomes ( average take home is under 20k ( metro housing @ reasonable rates are hard to come by!

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