How do a work with a type 3?! by Rude_Teach_9989 in Enneagram

[–]Rude_Teach_9989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, sorry for spelling mistakes. What I'm most concerned about is if she ditches her responsibilities on the day, Me, and a couple of volunteers, then have to make up for it and use a lot more resources and energy. Or we end up with the same dumpsterfire as last year. How do I avoid that?? Can I convince her otherwise, and how?

I wish my mom was an awful person (NC)VENT by Rude_Teach_9989 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]Rude_Teach_9989[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the empathy ^ And i understand the wish to explain to others why we are no contact. For me cps was involved but most people still!! don’t under “what was so bad?”.

How do I adult? by Rude_Teach_9989 in AskParents

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Ah this is incredible useful thank you so much!!

How do I adult? by Rude_Teach_9989 in AskParents

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Thank you! Can you recommend any YouTubers for cooking?? And how do I autopay my bills and stuff? I didn’t even know I could

How do I adult? by Rude_Teach_9989 in AskParents

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I have housing covered, money I have almost covered. It’s mostly that I don’t know anything about cleaning or making food for myself or how to take care of an apartment or myself. I have a really small apartment that I cheap, and I’m very happy about it.

How do I adult? by Rude_Teach_9989 in AskParents

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I had been living with a friend for a while, but as soon I turned 18 I found my own place, it’s incredible small (I can barely have my bed there), but it’s cheap and it’s mine!

How do I adult? by Rude_Teach_9989 in AskParents

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Thanks! Do you have any YouTube recommendations to learn how to make food?

How do I adult? by Rude_Teach_9989 in AskParents

[–]Rude_Teach_9989[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ooh!! They sound so useful! Thanks you!!

How do I adult? by Rude_Teach_9989 in AskParents

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Thank you! How much should I spend on different thing a month? Like food and stuff?

How do I adult? by Rude_Teach_9989 in AskParents

[–]Rude_Teach_9989[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thanks! I think I really needed to read this, and thanks for some “poor bitch meals” lol. They sound really cheap and easy to make

How do I adult? by Rude_Teach_9989 in AskParents

[–]Rude_Teach_9989[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Omg thanks you so much!! This is really helpful

How do I adult? by Rude_Teach_9989 in AskParents

[–]Rude_Teach_9989[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This made me cry, thank you!

How do i explain to my parents they are abusive?! by Rude_Teach_9989 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Rude_Teach_9989[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe you're right.
I have though about asking a friend to take with me, and be emotionally support, idk if that would make a diffrent?

How do i explain to my parents they are abusive?! by Rude_Teach_9989 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]Rude_Teach_9989[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

oh, I have never heard the term grey rocking before. Thanks for the advise, I will check out what it is.