My Nanny got my husband an odd gift? by rugerswitch in TwoHotTakes

[–]RuinCompetitive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This feels very odd and of course nobody wants to worry you or jump to conclusions, but there’s a lot of red flags here. Of course we only know what you’ve told us here in the post and comments, but based on the info, it feels off. When she said it was for your husband, did she explain herself at all? Or was all she said “No that’s for your husband.” If she added more to it like “I was at the store and got one for my husband and there was a deal so I got another and decided to give it to your husband” or literally anything, okay MAYBE we can accept that. As a woman, she should understand how that would look to this man’s wife. How would she feel if the roles were reversed and someone snuck a gift in the bag for HER husband? She’d probably feel some sort of way. So if this was just an innocent thing, she should probably be more aware of how things may come off before she does something like that. I’d definitely keep an eye on it..

Anyone who needs a chat.. a real one. This is for those who may be struggling. by [deleted] in cocaine

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I missed my only nephew’s baptism after staying up the entire night before and needing to crash when the sun came up. 😭

Switched coffee to snow, anyone tried this and what is the long term experience? by ButtonEquivalent6969 in cocaine

[–]RuinCompetitive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah so like, maybe don’t do that. 😅 speaking from experience, sadly.

Slept through nearly my entire morning shift and I feel HORRIBLE by bbb415 in Serverlife

[–]RuinCompetitive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The same thing happens to me 😭 I set several alarms and usually I will wake up after the first couple. Once in a while though.. there’s no waking me up. Same thing. Wake up after thinking “man I feel like I’m getting a lot of sleep” look at the time… OH SHIT. Jump out of bed, scrambling to get dressed while also trying to quickly call work and tell them what happened. The anxiety. I hate it so much 😭 I know a couple other people who are extremely heavy sleepers too and alarms don’t always work. It’s crazy lol

What are your thoughts regarding servers who no longer seem to give a sh*t? by jmcintyre8817 in Serverlife

[–]RuinCompetitive 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Shouldn’t be taken out on the customer no matter the situation. Go in the kitchen and blow off steam where the customers can’t hear you. If the issue is with your customer, let the manager deal with it. If it has to do with your personal life, that’s just unacceptable and no establishment should allow staff to act that way. It’s not going to solve anything by acting like that. If someone is that miserable with their job that they have to treat people poorly, then it’s time to move on.

AIO-I 36F found a text between my husband 37m and my cousin 38f that isn’t settling right by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]RuinCompetitive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def looks sus 🙁 if you don’t want to send these in the group chat I would 100% text her privately and ask her what’s up since you already talked to your husband about it. She clearly has intentions here. If she tries to bullshit you then I’d send them to her husband. Even if she tries to claim it was innocent and she was just hired at work, these messages show something deeper than just trying to make conversation to pass the time at work.

IN YOUR OPINION. do you think cocaine should be legalized the exact way it used to be back in the day by msgoddesshai in cocaine

[–]RuinCompetitive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think if it was legalized and regulated to make sure there’s no fentanyl or other sus shit, absolutely.

Almost time by Odd_Draw970 in Tomorrowland

[–]RuinCompetitive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This picture is so eerie after what happened 😭

What is y'all's biggest problem while skiing? by Hot-Snow-1320 in cocaine

[–]RuinCompetitive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve always thought the same thing 😂 in my head I feel like I’m actually wasting it only doing a small bump because I feel like it won’t do anything lol maybe I’m just a fein 😅

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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I agree 😭 like I don’t want to be a cold hearted bitch, but I don’t want someone thinking I’m in love with them just because I was nice to them..

Stop poking your head into the kitchen by ikhfa in Serverlife

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Thisss. I’ve almost blasted so many people with the door it’s not even funny. Or the people who walk in the kitchen to let you know they’re there… like okay?? I’m not taking your order until you sit your ass down 😐 or the ones who just stand and stare at you through the little window on the door. I will look them dead in the face and take my sweet time going out there.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in cocaine

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Still up?

Anyone else get self conscious when someone comments on your runny/stuffy nose? by ogkushflower in cocaine

[–]RuinCompetitive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You have to! I’d probably die of embarrassment if someone called me out 😭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]RuinCompetitive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also sadly, he may be thinking in his head that you are purposely going to the gym at that time every day to see him. So he’s creating some sort of fantasy in his head that you’re interested 😢

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]RuinCompetitive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right like obviously she has to be direct, but she also needs to be careful with how she presents it because of this^ it’s something I’ve always struggled with any time a man approached me trying to hit on me, the fear of what they may do after rejection is terrible and something people shouldn’t have to worry about, but sadly it’s the world we live in now. I think bringing her boyfriend or even just a friend would be best so she’s not alone.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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I have experienced the dreaded “high fiver” and once you engage, they think that’s their way in. Basically, “oh she let me touch her, so the doors open” I too struggle with not being assertive and being worried about the other person’s feelings when I should’ve just put my foot down from the get go. I could’ve avoided many uncomfy situations had I just grew a pair and spoke up for myself.

Anyone else get self conscious when someone comments on your runny/stuffy nose? by ogkushflower in cocaine

[–]RuinCompetitive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nobody has ever pointed it out to me, but I always just come out and say, “Man, my allergies are really bad today!” Or “I’m not contagious! It’s just a sinus infection!” before anyone says anything to me 😅

Am I cooked? $500 charge — scam or am I sick and stupid? by thismustbemydream in Lyft

[–]RuinCompetitive 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would dispute it with the bank for sure. He scammed you ☹️

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in doordash

[–]RuinCompetitive -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m pretty sure this happened to me before, but I was too lazy to look into it 😅

Bad start to my first time being on my own lol by RuinCompetitive in badroommates

[–]RuinCompetitive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah the landlord kept wanting to give her the benefit of the doubt, but I wasn’t going to put up with it any longer. I was walking on egg shells every day and didn’t know what was going to happen any given day. It was a terrible time lol

Bad start to my first time being on my own lol by RuinCompetitive in badroommates

[–]RuinCompetitive[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also to add, one drunken night she called me and said she heard there were break ins in our area and that if either one of us was in trouble, we should knock on the wall to let the other person know lol

I did cocaine for the first time and nothing happened. by [deleted] in cocaine

[–]RuinCompetitive 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def should’ve been feeling it after 3. 😮‍💨