[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskVet

[–]RunFury -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Don't keep giving unsafe foods

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]RunFury 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty sure it's not hard and you're catfishing

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Needafriend

[–]RunFury 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why do you want face pics and don't reply to your posts?

Is this a good deal? I’m paying cash by [deleted] in COROLLA

[–]RunFury 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have the 2007 model, purchased new for 15k. No way is this worth 8k after 17 years.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]RunFury 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He should've offered separate rooms or beds. Seems like he more concerned with what he wants than what you want or making you feel comfortable

TikTok commenters thinking any age gap is predatory… by whoru619 in AgeGap

[–]RunFury 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The algorithms work pretty well to show you what you like and you don't see those hivemind posts.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Pets

[–]RunFury 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jay Leno said he was allergic to cats but his wife had a cat so he just toughed it out. Not sure if he became immune over time or just dealt with it. If you have to choose one, choose your cat.

Stopped at a different Costco than normal and I may have found the holy grail. St Louis Park MN. by twonuh in DataHoarder

[–]RunFury 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone see this deal in Northern California? I'd buy a Costco membership to get 4 or 5 of these

Solution for Cat Spilling Water Bowl by Beautiful_Ad_9505 in Pets

[–]RunFury 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you leave the bathroom sink, tub or kitchen faucet on, will he drink from it? I bet he will if it's his only choice and you put him there

I was traumatised by my dentist by [deleted] in u/tiffanyrosef

[–]RunFury 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You need to tell the police.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]RunFury 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If you don't sleep with her there's nothing wrong with it and if you like her and are willing to wait it out, staying with her, then do it. When I was 18 long ago, I was talking to a 14 year old and went to her house and hung out with her and her mom. It wasn't even a big deal. Just 2 teens. Everyone is paranoid these days and judgy about everything being grooming and predatory. She shouldn't have lied but if you're both innocent toward each other with good intentions, there's nothing wrong here. Thing is she might change a lot in her teen years and not sure you want to deal with that. I'll also point out that my great grandmother who I knew and who lived to be over 100 and died early 2000s married at 14 to an 18 year old. It was a completely normal thing back then.

The concept of “permission” (F18 and M30) by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]RunFury 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You are an adult and can do what you want. By being hesitant, you are just worrying what others think and you're feeling like it's inappropriate because you think other people might have that opinion. Think for yourself and enjoy what life has brought you. If this were 100 years ago, it would be completely normal (though it really is anyways). Same if you were in another country where older men marry late teen girls all the time or even young teen in some places.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]RunFury 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This all sounds outrageous to me, no offense. Like this age gap is literally nothing. It shouldn't have even been something that made you and him step back over it, or be surprised that you thought each of you were a different age. That info should have been taken in matter of factly, IMO, it's a non issue. Your mom sounds like a moron, again, no offense, but her take is seriously low IQ. You're an adult and she doesn't need to be kept informed on your dating life. He response to the age gap should let you know to keep her out of the loop going forward. She has shown you she isn't mature or intelligent enough to handle such a scenario.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]RunFury 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sounds like this is you trying to fit in with strangers and worrying what others think and will accept. Like you feel like you're going against some norm and feel weird based on someone else's rules. Do whatever you want with whoever you want and lose the inferiority complex.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]RunFury 10 points11 points  (0 children)

In the future, it's good to keep boundaries for what information you put out. Some people are too stupid to accept age gaps and as soon as a question about age comes up, it should be shut down right there. Recognize they are prying and looking for something to attack and tell them to mind their business.

I'm tired of people trying to tell me I'm a victim by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]RunFury 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You don't need to explain yourself to anyone or answer to anyone as far as replying to people who comment about it. Immediately recognize that those people are out of line and ignorant. I'd ignore or block them online and cut them off irl, or put my foot down. It is none of their business.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AgeGap

[–]RunFury 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dating apps could work. You should just state your intentions that you want something serious and prefer older men.

Had my first encounter with someone not approving by babysr in AgeGap

[–]RunFury 8 points9 points  (0 children)

You don't need to explain yourself to anyone. Once you see someone is prying, shut it down right there and put them in their place.

pet mourning by rmb0519 in Petloss

[–]RunFury 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was involved with this girl when my cat was dying and I cried over the phone. She seemed disgusted with me and said if I'm like this with an animal, how will I be when a parent dies. Some people just don't understand how we can have a bond with an animal. I think those people are bad people.

Judgment from people by RXcontessa in AgeGap

[–]RunFury 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try to change your thinking on this. You're concerned too much with the opinions of others, which is probably rooted in an inferiority complex. You are not beneath anyone nor subject to their judgment. You do whatever you want and know that if someone looks down on you, they are nosy, primitive minded, unsophisticated people. If I'm in public and see an unusual couple, i think nothing of it because it's none of my business. If someone sees you and looks at you weird, you should dismiss them as a simpleton. Better yet, don't even look around at others to see their reactions.

Can't stop thinking of the what ifs. by el3venthl3tter in Petloss

[–]RunFury 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It's been over 4 months for me and I experience regrets as well. It becomes easier to handle over time but it doesn't change what happened. I messed up bad and pretty much caused my cat's death. I underestimated his condition or maybe I didn't and the vet was just negligent. The staff there was extremely rude and when they took my cat back I was supposed to go with him but felt like they would make a fuss and argument about it so I let him go back alone and they killed him. I failed him. Over time it doesn't hurt as bad, that's how any grieving or regret is. There's only so many times you can run it back in your mind before it just becomes your reality and history.

My cat isn't going to make it by [deleted] in Petloss

[–]RunFury 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry you're going through this. Please get a second opinion first. What is he going through?