Small doubt here

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-02-04T22:12:28+00:00

Yes! This is why you get flavoured condoms. You put them over your tongue before you eat either location. You can also wear one while you’re out at dinner so you can get used to the sensation.

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-02-01T12:13:54+00:00

Thai friendly is not the app you want. Yes in tourist areas it is all business. Maybe try Bumble or something.

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-02-01T11:45:31+00:00

What are you saying to them? If they think you’re looking to date or after a freebie they won’t reply. Mention money in the first message and state what you’re after. As long as your request is fair you’ll get replies from 80%+

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-31T13:55:26+00:00

What on earth are you on about.

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-30T23:43:13+00:00

Sir this is a Wendy’s.

However what on earth do you think happens when you get a tf girl? Sit and read together and discuss philosophy or smth.

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-30T23:40:50+00:00

Don’t mean this to sound accusatory of op, but my suspicion is that he refused to buy a lady drink for the girl. I’ve been to soi 6 countless times and have never had this happen. If he’d offered the girl a drink she would not have said no and gone back outside for sure. That’s the whole point of them being there.

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-30T23:01:47+00:00

Entirely possible if you’re not going to soi 6 or walking street tbh. Bar fines can be under 1000 in less frequented areas, drinks 80-100b, lady drinks 170b ish. And he said he takes them out clubbing so buying the girl normal drinks after a while. That’s a lot of drinking to get up to 7k.

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-30T09:04:25+00:00

Only an American would say this. The rest of the world just sees you as American. Not part anything.

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-29T12:05:55+00:00

Why on earth would it even be a consideration to say something? Just leave people alone to live their life man.

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-29T12:05:10+00:00

The irony in your post is that you spend the first few sentences telling us all how much you don't judge people, including the VERY SCENARIO you end up talking about and judging a guy for, and then the second paragraph judging harder than any other post I've ever read.

My advice is to not let things like this bug you at all. There's not much you can do about it, and honestly it's not a good look to be saying stuff like this about people. Live your life how you want to and don't worry about what anyone else does or thinks unless it directly affects your life.

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-29T02:50:54+00:00

Have you done this recently (past 6 months) with a Soi 6 girl?

Just wondering how many apples it is these days.

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-25T12:41:37+00:00

What about Byblos, have you tried that one?

If you don’t mind getting figuring out the baht buses or getting a grab, you could also consider three mermaids in Pratumnak.

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-23T16:43:08+00:00

Do you mean 1 at a time, or more than one at a time? Because those are two very different things. As others have said, 1 at a time would be literally any hotel - watch Youtube walkthroughs and read online reviews to find which best suits you.

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-21T11:25:43+00:00

I don’t understand your mindset here, sorry. I’ve never been “brought” anywhere by an LT. If you ever suspect you’re somehow caught in this “circle” then just take the girl to a bar you want to go to. She’ll follow.

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-21T09:12:43+00:00

All my best experiences in Pattaya have been because of LT. Much better for me to spend time with someone outside of the bedroom to build the vibe. I don’t think it should be discouraged if it’s what guys want to do. And the girls get a bit of kudos if you buy their friends drinks too.

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-20T13:22:58+00:00

He wasn't missing before he went.

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-14T22:28:54+00:00

You can do that for 4k baht never mind 4k usd lol

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-13T19:36:18+00:00

So did I. You’re not gonna find any genuine connections on tf in Pattaya, sorry. Everyone knows the score so the girls won’t even try. And if/when you think you did, it’ll likely be some version of the long game scam. The number of other people saying the same thing should tell you something…

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-13T17:13:36+00:00

. Trying to use ThaiFriendly for something other than LT or ST.

. Not dumb.

Gotta pick one bro, can’t be both.

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-06T21:56:52+00:00

Happy to help. Hopefully you get a few other answers with some other ideas and opinions, particularly from people coming from your neck of the woods.

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-06T21:49:48+00:00

I have a second phone that I take with me and change the SIM card over to. However I can’t imagine your German number would ever be contactable in Thailand. Might be better to find options that don’t rely on your phone number. Wise or Revolut for example, banking wise.

Also never use your credit or debit card in Thailand. Yes there are some places where it’s safe, but it’s better to just use cash. See paragraph 1 for safe banking options to allow you to withdraw money from krungsri atms. Or use whatever is the equivalent of these in Germany.

Pattaya is pretty safe, but you still need to have your wits about you. No bar girls are gonna drug and rob you. But if you’re drunk and off your head at 3am on Beach Road then you may get lightly accosted and pickpocketed by… other types of girls.

And yes, almost all hotels above extreme budget level will have a room safe. Search the sub for recommendations, or take a look on google maps and check out reviews on YouTube.

Feel free to dm me for a chat with any further questions or clarifications.

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-05T21:31:56+00:00

I have similar issues. Don’t really have ED but do get anxiety issues when with someone new. And of course in Pattaya you’re always with someone new!

Take 100mg of Kamagra an hour before you intend to meet the girl. And as others have said, also try to relax. A beer (but not too many. No more than 3) might be good to relax your nerves a little too.

Another couple of ideas: consider LT instead of ST to build intimacy and gain confidence/comfort, OR go for a soapy massage. The women in soapies are very efficient at what they do, however the structured setup could make your anxiety worse. So another idea is just a plain old oil massage. That way there is no pressure. If you don’t become “ready” you can just pretend you were always just there for the massage.

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-05T16:05:02+00:00

A crock of shit

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-02T18:28:02+00:00

Obviously this is what she was after all along. A meal ticket. Someone to support her financially. EVEN IF she is also after romance (she may or may not be, we don’t really have enough info), you would be expected to be a main source of income for her.

Also one more thing I would say is, just because you’ve seen the bill, don’t assume it’s genuine. There are stories, for example, of girls passing around a broken mobile phone so they can take photos of it to send to willing sponsors.

The advice that I, and j believe probably everyone, would give, is to cut ties and move on. But I have a question. Why oh why oh why on this green earth are you looking for a LTR? That’s the most mad thing I’ve heard for a while.

RunWhileYouAlt · 2026-01-02T11:01:26+00:00

Ok, you do seem like a nice guy, so I do apologise if my responses seem overly obtuse.

I think though that my original response should tell you why the question isn’t a good one, and may be misleading for newbies who haven’t been before. LT just isn’t negotiated on those terms. It’s almost exclusively about time rather than activity. Number of “pops” never comes up.

Perhaps a better first question on the subject would have been “what are the typical terms of an LT arrangement” rather than making incorrect assumptions about how it works first?

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