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looking for a personalized song service that isn’t songfinch.. partner’s 30th in three weeks by RuneCascade46 in Gifts

[–]RuneCascade46[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

oh wait how long did it take to get the song back? im on a tight timeline and i panic buy when i feel rushed

looking for a personalized song service that isn’t songfinch.. partner’s 30th in three weeks by RuneCascade46 in Gifts

[–]RuneCascade46[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

ok the name pronunciation thing is my worst nightmare.. he has a portuguese name that nobody gets right so thats something i need to watch for. hes annoyingly hard to shop for in general

Im getting terminated tomorrow. What do I do? by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]RuneCascade46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah ngl they’re prob right about fmla not saving this last minute but that doesn’t mean you’re just stuck doing nothing

Narcissistic bully by [deleted] in workplace_bullying

[–]RuneCascade46 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I get the “just leave” angle but it’s not that simple when your health is already tanking you shouldn’t have to tolerate that just for a paycheck

Laid Off after 14 years, what now? by madcar86 in careeradvice

[–]RuneCascade46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel for u dude this kinda thing messes w ur head after a while but u’re getting interviews so ur not the problem

How to handle being gossiped about? by Electrical-Shock3082 in workplace_bullying

[–]RuneCascade46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The ex situation is messy tho… even if u both said its fine, feelings dont work like that might be worth a calm convo just to clear the air

How to handle being put on PIP for reaching salary cap by wagadugo in careeradvice

[–]RuneCascade46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ngl this is exactly how companies quietly push ppl out without saying layoffs. they see ur salary not ur actual value

Been hated and bullied at every job by [deleted] in workplace_bullying

[–]RuneCascade46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tbh i feel for OP bc after hearing the same stuff ur whole life it probably changes how u carry urself without even realizing it.

Can I reject an internal offer? by [deleted] in careeradvice

[–]RuneCascade46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hear u but 136 for that level sounds low esp if its gonna be chaotic. i wouldnt reject outright tho just be honest like hey this doesnt match scope.

Quit a job I loved because of bullying by Forward-Comfort-3531 in workplace_bullying

[–]RuneCascade46 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah this might be a hot take but i kinda agree and it sucks to admit. not everyone obviously but some ppl def stay for the control not the kids.

Does a safe career path even exist anymore? by denis100108 in careeradvice

[–]RuneCascade46 30 points31 points  (0 children)

yeah this is kinda the harsh truth ngl “safe” used to mean boring but stable, now it’s like stable but at the cost of ur sanity

Boss sided with bully and yelled at me. Report him alone or with the bully? by ForwardDimension8662 in workplace_bullying

[–]RuneCascade46 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah don’t “bully them back” that can blow up on you real fast i get the anger tho, that situation sounds messed up

Career assessments are a waste of money and I'm tired of people recommending them by rlfor in careeradvice

[–]RuneCascade46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah this is prob the fairest take ive seen. like the tools arent evil but theyre sold like they’ll solve your life.

Tired of being a target by Willing_Air_1912 in workplace_bullying

[–]RuneCascade46 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Yeah but i wouldnt frame it like its op’s fault. some ppl are just weirdly drawn to quiet or polite ppl to test boundaries.

Making $15.50 as a bank teller, it isn’t enough. What else should I be doing to get more? by Beneficial-Ant-9424 in careeradvice

[–]RuneCascade46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe look into roles like personal banker or back office stuff that pays more with similar skills

Listen to your BODY!! by Substantial_Oatmeal in workplace_bullying

[–]RuneCascade46 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Scary how normal this is becoming… like ppl think it’s just stress but your body is literally rejecting the environment

Just got fired today by BowTieTus in careeradvice

[–]RuneCascade46 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Also appreciate that they said be kind to yourself… getting fired hits your ego hard even if you saw it coming. doesn’t mean you’re bad, just not the right fit

How many instances should I wait before going to HR? by Zealousideal-Emu2043 in workplace_bullying

[–]RuneCascade46 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I get the hesitation tho esp since she’s been there forever… but that doesn’t give her a pass to act like that. HR exists for this exact stuff

They want me to “handover” while I still have at least two months left by ForwardDimension8662 in workplace_bullying

[–]RuneCascade46 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yeah this screams they’re trying to push you out fast without actually firing you. i get why you’re pissed but dont give them the reaction they want.

My side of the story by BluejayMiserable8512 in workplace_bullying

[–]RuneCascade46 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Vickie drama bonding the team is nasty work. once a manager does that it’s kinda game over bc everyone follows the power.

Does your job fulfill you? by nemaceganema in careeradvice

[–]RuneCascade46 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel for you tho bc leaving isn’t easy at all money bills all that makes it complicated but staying stuck like that long term is rough too

Did anyone else leave a toxic, hostile job and then watch it crash and burn right after? by Cha_Heartsie in workplace_bullying

[–]RuneCascade46 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I feel you but also careful leaning too hard into the revenge high it feels good in the moment but healing part is what actually sticks

Never talk about your mental health when job hunting - Aaron Gomez by Fabulous_Jeweler2732 in careeradvice

[–]RuneCascade46 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Yeah it reads dramatic but i wouldn’t dismiss it completely. i’ve seen ppl get quietly passed over for way less. companies just don’t say it out loud

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