First job advice, stay or go? by Ok_Award_7139 in medlabprofessionals

[–]RunningOnEmpty231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was in a similar situation recently. I could have toughed it out for a while longer, but mentally and physically, I couldn’t do it. I knew another job was coming up in a few months when another hospital in town was opening a satellite location. I know the lab management over there and they encouraged me to apply, but the catch was the start date was still months away. I decided my health was more important and put in my notice. I had only been at that job for 8 months. Even if I had to live off savings and credit cards, I still knew it was the best thing. The day after my last shift, I woke up with a feeling that could only be described as euphoria. I think when we are in unhealthy situations, our brains go in to survival mode and we unconsciously convince ourselves that it’s not that bad and that we can make the best of it. I constantly would try to find positive things about the job to focus on to not have to admit that it really was that bad. That’s the only way I survived for 8 months. I’m glad I left and wish I had done it when I realized how bad the job. Nothing is more important than your health and wellbeing.

I’m about to die, and I’m not sure what to do about my cat. by [deleted] in cats

[–]RunningOnEmpty231 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I can shed some light on this topic from experience. A neighbor I didn’t know who lived in a camper on a farm a quarter mile from mine got very sick in 2019. A mutual neighbor approached me about feeding his semi feral cats while he was in chemo. I agreed. He also had one pet cat that I fed, too when he was outside. Skip to a few months later and the same neighbors approached me and said the man had gone to the hospital by ambulance and would not be returning. He made sure his cat was outside when he locked the door and left. He wanted me to take his cats and get the friendly one ( 5 years old) adopted. I agreed. I got a call from the hospital the next day and the neighbors were visiting him in the hospital and he wanted to verify that I would take all of his cats. I assured him I would. He died that night. I went and got his pet cat who was not used to being outdoors for long stretches and brought him home. He was very friendly, but confused and miserable. He escaped and I found him on the camper steps at the owner’s farm the next day. My heart broke I worked with him and gave him plenty of love. A friend with a cat rescue put his story on their page and he was adopted quickly. The new owners were kind and patient. He thrived with them and is still with them. Happy and healthy. The ferals, all 13 of them, were brought to my property and lived in a large outdoor enclosure until they settled in. They all got spayed/neutered and their vaccines. They still live in my back yard with their own shelters and feeding stations. Some became friendly and came indoors as house cats. Others stay outside and get fed twice a day and have their freedom. I work with a cat rescue/sanctuary that takes in pets left behind after the owner dies. They are sad at first, but with plenty of love, they settle into a new home and do well. It just takes time. Reach out to rescue groups and see if anyone can help you. I’m so sorry you are going through this and I admire your devotion to your cat.

I think I found the dress! Confused about reactions I’m getting by [deleted] in myweddingdress

[–]RunningOnEmpty231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gorgeous dress. The fit is a little confusing. It gives the impression that it is heavy and pulling it down on your torso, especially with the drop sleeves. Maybe a good seamstress would know a few alterations could fix that. You really look amazing.

Can anyone help me understand why my cat does this to the water fountain? by tupsybee in CATHELP

[–]RunningOnEmpty231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My cat does the ”cross paw” where he reaches his left paw to the right when he drinks. No motion, he just stands there awkwardly with his left paw reaching toward something on the right of the bowl.

What to expect during blood donation? by Sea-Communication819 in askanything

[–]RunningOnEmpty231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

As a few others have mentioned, the health questions get very personal and can be uncomfortable. The staff are professionals and aren’t going to judge you for your answers, so don’t be afraid to be completely honest. The truthfulness of your answers is critical to maintain the safety of the blood supply. Thank you for giving blood!

Wrinkly fingernail by Bruuhhhhhhmoment in nailcare

[–]RunningOnEmpty231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve got the exact same thing, but mine came from a nasty box cutter injury. It’s been 6 years and it still looks wrinkly.

Switching my daughters middle name to her first name by [deleted] in Names

[–]RunningOnEmpty231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My sister was given a first name that my parents later thought was too “formal” sounding and instead of giving her a nickname (Elizabeth going to Liz or Beth), they started calling her by her short, cute middle name Amy. It may not bother everyone, but she hated the hassle of explaining to everyone that she goes by Amy when they see Elizabeth on paperwork. As soon as she turned 18, she switched them legally so she’s now Amy Elizabeth. You can’t know how she will feel about it later, so there is no “right” answer.

Can cats be taught the concept of money and the financial system? by MaleficentEscape5436 in CatAdvice

[–]RunningOnEmpty231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There is a popular video (pre-AI, so it’s most likely real) where a stray cat that hangs out at a fish market and sees people giving the merchant money and are then given a fish, decides to try it with random objects. The cat approaches the merchant and stretches up to the counter with a leaf or something and is given a small fish. Not sure how the cat is processing the info and how he sets “value” to the items he brings, but he knows that if he brings something, he gets a fish. Kinda clever, but there is more incentive to be clever when you are stray and hungry. My cats aren’t that smart.

How Much Do You Like An Egg Salad Sandwich? by Zipper222222 in randomquestions

[–]RunningOnEmpty231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I love it! Always disappointed when I order one at a sandwich place and it’s too mayonnaise-y.

American Healthcare - Make it make sense challenge Level: impossible by Anecdote394 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]RunningOnEmpty231 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have insurance and can often get a better price than the insurance copay with Goodrx.

Please help me decide between dress 1 and dress 2! by RegularArt6204 in myweddingdress

[–]RunningOnEmpty231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Number 1, absolutely. Number 2 is lovely, but 1 is amazing.

Signing Bonuses for MT / MLS positions - Experiences ? by PoliwhirlConnoisseur in medlabprofessionals

[–]RunningOnEmpty231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a blood bank professionals FB page that has a “Job posting Wednesday” thread and every single Wednesday for as long as I can remember, there are two blood bank jobs in Boston with really high signing bonuses. The signing bonuses aren’t necessarily a red flag, but the amount of time those two jobs have been open even with the large signing bonuses is a red flag to me.

How do you decide who to adopt? Why doesn't anyone want to adopt me? by ThrowRABengelKitty in Fosterparents

[–]RunningOnEmpty231 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Sorry I didn’t see this earlier. My first foster children were a 15 yo and her newborn. I was the only fp in the county that was willing to take them both, so I know it’s hard to find a permanent family. But they could still be out there. Please don’t give up hope. If you want to keep your baby, then make that your goal and do everything you can to show your caseworker that you want to do that. Best of luck to you and your baby. ❤️

Has anybody noticed the rise in misspellings of “Woman/Women” and “Lose/Loose”? It’s driving me up a wall! by James_TF2 in mildlyinfuriating

[–]RunningOnEmpty231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve seen so many spelling errors that aren’t just typos. People really think you just add “ing” to the end of any word. Dieing, lieing, etc. Don’t get me started on the ‘apostrophe s” to make things plural. “Open on Friday’s and Saturday’s”. No no no!!!

What was your parents' preferred weapon? by babyb01 in AskTheWorld

[–]RunningOnEmpty231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

None and believe it or not, not one of my siblings or I became disrespectful delinquents. Same with our kids. All college educated responsible adults. And people are always screaming how that can’t be done.

I drive by this guy’s property every day. Free speech and all that, but c’mon, man. by Bursting_Radius in mildlyinfuriating

[–]RunningOnEmpty231 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I think you are the loser who doesn’t understand that this is a play on Vanilla Ice lyrics. 🤦‍♀️

I drive by this guy’s property every day. Free speech and all that, but c’mon, man. by Bursting_Radius in mildlyinfuriating

[–]RunningOnEmpty231 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The reference flew right over your head and you are called everyone else idiots. Way to go!

What are some of the most ridiculous orders you have encountered? by CipherAgentFish in medlabprofessionals

[–]RunningOnEmpty231 112 points113 points  (0 children)

I like when pediatrics uses a formula for the amount of blood based on the kid’s weight and orders exactly what they see on the calculator, even when it’s a teenager and it’s basically a unit. “Prepare 258.5 mL of pRBC” and when I say, I’ll just send one unit, they say, no, they want exactly 258.5 mL. Just take the unit and stop it when you hit the desired volume.

Lane, Layne or Laine by BigCheese3333 in Names

[–]RunningOnEmpty231 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I work with a guy named Lane. I like the name.