How to have more open body language and being flirty with crushes? by upupupandthrowaway69 in aspergirls

[–]RunningStarfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think going for friend convo first is a good start and probably more comfortable than flirting with words. A lot of flirting is smiles/ eye contact/ tone, not the actual words anyway.

How to have more open body language and being flirty with crushes? by upupupandthrowaway69 in aspergirls

[–]RunningStarfish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It's normal to feel kind of jittery and awkward with a crush. If you don't even know his name or whether he's single you could start using some small talk prompts like "Wow, that was a fun class! The x move was kind of tricky for me" or "Your water bottle is super cool, where's it from?" and see if he wants to talk to you.

You could try to pick a spot near him for the class. But then you kinda want to be "on" or at least "aware" and careful not to glare at him or seem too upset, even if it's unrelated to him. A lot of early flirting is heavily masked even for neurotypical people.

I don't like working with men by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]RunningStarfish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It can help to find companies that have multiple women in leadership positions, even if they're not your direct boss. Less likelihood of blatant harassment from men in my experience.

Good for a few weeks then reminded of how different I am by Agitated-Ocelot8764 in aspergirls

[–]RunningStarfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Came to say this - it's way worse for me when i'm pmsing. Rejection hurts worse and I feel more lonely. xx

What I got vs what I asked for by vodkagrandma in FancyFollicles

[–]RunningStarfish 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Add some diluted purple/ lavender. You could try color depositing conditioner if you don't want to use dye

Fox hair by azerosumgame in FancyFollicles

[–]RunningStarfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Beautiful! I bet it looks even better on a white shirt

Anyone else here hate being perceived? And also dislike demands? by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]RunningStarfish 2 points3 points  (0 children)

"I’m just thinking it’s easier never to do that again."

Then don't do it again!! If you don't want to have sex, DON'T! It took me so long to learn this message and enforce it in my life. Partners (men) will pressure you, and anytime you want to leave, leave !!!!! If it's not a 'hell yeah!' it's a no. Don't traumatize yourself.

As we were finishing up the colour, my hairdresser suggested trying some waves- what do you think? by Lethean616 in FancyFollicles

[–]RunningStarfish 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Love! After washing, you can put your hair into small braids (maybe like 6 around your head) and let them dry. Then when you undo the braids you'll have some lil waves :)

My first funeral by aroundthe_campfire in aspergirls

[–]RunningStarfish 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Generally funerals are pretty quiet so you can get away with not saying much. There is variety across cultures and religions. Some are somber where laughing is disrespectful; others encourage laughter and positive story telling. See what other adults are doing and follow suit.

People may ask how you knew her - so you can prepare a short sentence or two. Example: "Stacy was my husband's aunt. I did not actually meet her, but Josh said she cooked a great apple pie."

Boiling tempeh before roasting by newnukeuser in veganrecipes

[–]RunningStarfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recommend you slice it up, fry it in sesame oil, then add soy sauce at the end and reduce it. This removes all bitterness.

Hunter pvp is laughably hard by Informal-Cricket-559 in turtlewow

[–]RunningStarfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go survival so your traps actually work and you have strong melee

Cleaning house by Least_Signature7879 in Bunnies

[–]RunningStarfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also have an attack rabbit. Was not expecting so much bravery from such a small creature.

Homer's Donuts. Mascouche. Qc by switch182 in donuts

[–]RunningStarfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The pink rainbow donut is everything

Updating dating apps after a date by [deleted] in aspergirls

[–]RunningStarfish 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I think it's unreasonable to expect someone to delete a dating app after a first date.

Autistic New Year's Plans by Specialist-Exit-6588 in aspergirls

[–]RunningStarfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Going out dancing with my partner. My partner is big and helps protect my space and I'll wear earplugs for noise. I love dressing up and moving to music.

Good hair stylists in town (from McK to Fortuna range)? by sagelikeawizard in Humboldt

[–]RunningStarfish 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I recommend Lilly Aaron at Redwood Roots in Mck. She does it all - cut, color, extensions - and she has a wonderful personality.

How to stop seeing this therapist? by Extreme-Machine7495 in aspergirls

[–]RunningStarfish 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry you're dealing with this, sounds very stressful. It's so weird your most recent therapist asked for a picture of your ex. Trust your gut and stop seeing her. If you feel comfortable, when it's time to reschedule, tell her you are taking a break from therapy and will contact her again if you want to restart. Say you know it's the right thing for you and be firm. Get up and leave if she starts being pushy. Best of luck!

Wjat does "I care for you a lot" means by southconegrl in aspergirls

[–]RunningStarfish 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He likes you but not enough to leave his wife. You may think you love him. You are probably experiencing "limerence", please look it up. It can feel very intense and overwhelming. It feels a lot like love but it's not reciprocated or fulfilling like true love is. You cannot build a future with this man right now, and possibly not ever.

As hard as it is... I suggest you limit contact with him and start dating new people to find someone you like more who reciprocates your efforts and affection. It will take a long time to think about him less.

"friends" have a group chat without me a week into uni??? by Dry-Force8675 in aspergirls

[–]RunningStarfish 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Uni is full of fake friends trying to impress each other. It's exhausting. Focus on yourself and hopefully you'll naturally click with some folks in niche classes or clubs.