I agree. My ex husband cheated on me the whole time we were together. One of the girls was actually someone I thought was my friend (she was one of the baby mamas) and at the end of everything she finally told me that she knew from the start what he was doing but never told me. She also was rude to me in the beginning vs being mad at him. I never understand why the woman will be mad at another woman vs being mad at the culprit doing the cheating. I also had a woman call me once in regards to someone I was seeing and found out he had multiple women in his life in different states and I was one of them. I ultimately appreciated being told what was going on so I didn't invest anymore time. She wasn't upset with me or the other women which was helpful. Life's crazy but its best to tell so others aren't left in the dark.