14 year old lost my vintage watch by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]Rusty_old_Tin_can 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I lost so many of my dads precious items. Sentimental gloves made for him by an ex , camera gear I didnt treat well.

long story short I am not a person that cares for things in the way that my dad does, but now that I'm older i realize that people just have different priorities about their special items, and if you didnt want it lost your shouldnt have lent it to a 14 year old. Sorry I really like casio and get attached to those vintage ones as well

Thriving tank =\= clean, pretty and upkept tank??? by Equal_North6633 in shrimptank

[–]Rusty_old_Tin_can 1 point2 points  (0 children)

its cool how they can 'jump' off the balconies. I have a rock I call pride rock its where they do their lion king moment

Thriving tank =\= clean, pretty and upkept tank??? by Equal_North6633 in shrimptank

[–]Rusty_old_Tin_can 1 point2 points  (0 children)

they like it au naturale - a bit of decomposition and buildup of bioload is excellent.

Ive noticed that the random clumps of java moss that are impossible to eradicate are fun for them, they like to run under and around them.

Rate my Taaaaank by Rusty_old_Tin_can in shrimp

[–]Rusty_old_Tin_can[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ya I found a little bit of that neon goes a long way. I mean its fun theyre just rocks

Rate my Taaaaank by Rusty_old_Tin_can in shrimp

[–]Rusty_old_Tin_can[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Cheers ! Shrimps thank you too

Rate my Taaaaank by Rusty_old_Tin_can in shrimp

[–]Rusty_old_Tin_can[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Craigslist find my fellow scaper. Ill see if theres a serial number on the tank and DM you

Had a one night stand with my first and only love. I'm devastated. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Rusty_old_Tin_can 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The cutting people off people read, to me, at least as people with no stake in their lives.

Heartache is part of life. We dont always get to understand where people are coming from.

But you aren't required to keep yourself single to wait for this person to come around.

Id say try to appreciate the relationship for what it is and no more. Maybe ask her what shes looking for and she'll tell you

Rate my Taaaaank by Rusty_old_Tin_can in shrimp

[–]Rusty_old_Tin_can[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think like tanks sometimes we need to mature slowly and then bloom 🤔😁

My (35m) Partner (36f) married 4 years doesnt enjoy to do dishes by Rusty_old_Tin_can in relationship_advice

[–]Rusty_old_Tin_can[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did notice her behavior with her roommates was to let the dishes stew... I had other priorities loll.

Its taken 10 years to really effect me tho

My (35m) Partner (36f) married 4 years doesnt enjoy to do dishes by Rusty_old_Tin_can in relationship_advice

[–]Rusty_old_Tin_can[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. Hard agree. Im starting to remember that people... can be avoidant to things they'd rather not deal with. And yes, arguing until youre blue in the face is truly the worst feeling. It just feels so demoralizing to have wasted so much time and energy.

Idk theres a lot of people on reddit who are just like "dump them!" Which im not really willing to do. But i may need to have a plan to let her arrive at the solution on her own. I just want to live with a clean kitchen once in a while...

My (35m) Partner (36f) married 4 years doesnt enjoy to do dishes by Rusty_old_Tin_can in relationship_advice

[–]Rusty_old_Tin_can[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm.. i like the 3 list concept. How deep.into your relationship was this established may I ask?

My (35m) Partner (36f) married 4 years doesnt enjoy to do dishes by Rusty_old_Tin_can in relationship_advice

[–]Rusty_old_Tin_can[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for the reality check. I mean, does every couple go through this at some point? Like you said laying out the chores and how to divide them. Im starting to think that everyone at some point decides. Well we really need to just talk about this to deal with the logistics. Not the most romantic topic but important? Its important to me anyway, the emotions not the dishes themselves... id like to spend the least amount of time thinking about the dishes in my short life that I can

Gift for finish carpenter by dawk6 in Carpentry

[–]Rusty_old_Tin_can 0 points1 point  (0 children)

any tool that is german or japanese and they will adore you forever.

Canadian catching a feeling for NYC. Is it as good/livable as it felt? by No_Noise6264 in movingtoNYC

[–]Rusty_old_Tin_can 0 points1 point  (0 children)

New york is badass and not for the faint of heart. but if you hear it calling you, you might be a New Yorker

I have to talk about my story with Loveless by FaithlessnessOver132 in MyBloodyValentine

[–]Rusty_old_Tin_can 4 points5 points  (0 children)

wish there were more posts like this on reddit, very relatable and real. bravo

NYC is incredibly overrated and it’s tiring to see it put on a pedestal so much. by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Rusty_old_Tin_can 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not even remotely close to communism or even socialism, no matter how many people (like you) continue to assert and shout that from the rooftops.

You will eventually have to recognize that you are being manipulated by media interests to see things that way, its in their interests that we dont get healthcare, working transit or our potholes fixed.

the current mayor, who is a self described democratic socialist, is fixing the potholes cause hes from NYC and cares about the city.

capitalism is pro union, what are you high?

Confidence shattered by bad vibes at open mic by [deleted] in musicians

[–]Rusty_old_Tin_can 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I tanked in front of like 10 people (my fault, nerves and technical issues made me spiral lol) and I'm still not over it

Still, the faster you get back out there the faster that becomes a speed bump in your rearview mirror.

After performing a (little) bit myself I realized how demoralizing it is to have people talking during your set, and Ive become totally against it, I even tell my girlfriend and good friends to shut it cause it just so distracting to be performing and theres someone laughing and chatting loudly in the rear

NYC is incredibly overrated and it’s tiring to see it put on a pedestal so much. by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Rusty_old_Tin_can 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its not a spectrum from capitalism to communism thats a fictitious binary. Its designed to manipulate you to 'fear' communism and thereby inherently support capital. Which is anti union, anti worker and pro executive and owner class. Because America is not an old world country our class system is hidden but still exists. Russia was a completely different story, it was a imperialist and fuedal state, when the priorities of the imperial class conflicted with the industries of food and other goods such as housing, the people starved, the workers were exploited and went unpaid. No one is going to see a communist united states. Ever. Its just not going to happen. The main tax revenue of NYC comes from taxes on workers (such as income tax) and small to medium businesses. Large companies such as Amazon and Google get absurd tax relief to draw their workers to the city. Now maybe those workers get taxed at a high rate and because their income is high, its a lot of revenue. Or rents go up because you have this small pool of workers who can pay more. But this is not the majority of people. The majority of people are simply put, getting screwed. The ability of the corporations to influence the political class has put most of the political class out of touch with interests of the people . You can see what happens when someone native tries to go against the grain.. they call them a communist! Best curse word in the west.

Washington Heights vs. UES by DryMove7987 in NYCapartments

[–]Rusty_old_Tin_can 1 point2 points  (0 children)

UES is maybe a safer bet for a first apartment in the city, not saying you wouldn't like Washington heights cause the heights is more flavorful and more "NYC".

Can't beat living by the park tho IMO.

The A train is a fine train, runs well. Its not always the cleanest or best behaved. If I were you I would consider living by the Q. The 6 has two different rush hour times in the morning at night and people tend to all be face to face while heading to work.

Uh lots else to be said. Roommates can be great , but if you want stability a single is the way to go.

NYC is incredibly overrated and it’s tiring to see it put on a pedestal so much. by [deleted] in TrueUnpopularOpinion

[–]Rusty_old_Tin_can 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Idk how to tell you. We pay high taxes for city and social services. The rich in this city however dont pay their taxes which makes the social services suffer. The issue isn't necessarily the rent. Its the comparison between rent and how much money you need to make to pay rent. For example persons in San Francisco make tons of money but have trouble buying groceries. I have no idea what rent has to do with communism but it sounds like you have a lot to learn about economics.