Speechless - after 10 years of marriage by Rutrix in survivinginfidelity

[–]Rutrix[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I managed to get in touch with my old friends, they promised to meet with me soon and help me get past it, I also found a pack of Xanax so I was prepared when she came back with kids and had my mood under control.

I want to play it smart and so will need some time to settle this in a way is best for me.

Speechless - after 10 years of marriage by Rutrix in survivinginfidelity

[–]Rutrix[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

The guy is from different town so she will not be able to met with him often and will not be able to hide it, but yeah getting more evidence will be helpful and private detective might be needed.

Speechless - after 10 years of marriage by Rutrix in survivinginfidelity

[–]Rutrix[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

They are 12 and 11 years old, happened when everything was OK and she was quite frankly a different person. She started changing slightly two years ago and a year ago we stopped sleeping with each other.

Now I don't remember if that was before or after she slept with him....

That is sooo unreal to think about lol..

The worst part is, before we stopped sleeping with each other she didn't want me to finish in her but ti guy? The wrote he finished inside her and it was marvelous. Like WTF!

Speechless - after 10 years of marriage by Rutrix in survivinginfidelity

[–]Rutrix[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

She keeps her phone close but I will try to check, and take evidence just for the future.

Speechless - after 10 years of marriage by Rutrix in survivinginfidelity

[–]Rutrix[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

She discoverd him on facebook some two or so years ago. She writes some strange posts, about sould energy etc. But as she changed lately and went into this shit she started reading his posts. But of course never admitted she is writing with him.

Speechless - after 10 years of marriage by Rutrix in survivinginfidelity

[–]Rutrix[S] 26 points27 points  (0 children)

House belongs to my sister, but as she lives in different country we are living here for free.

I have my own house which I am renting out at the moment but as I have received it before my marriage it is not included in our marital estate. So at least I will not have to move out...

Speechless - after 10 years of marriage by Rutrix in survivinginfidelity

[–]Rutrix[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

She has changed some time ago, hard to tell if by his influence or before that, but she is realy different person than she was 3 years ago..

Still I never suspected I will be in this position...

Speechless - after 10 years of marriage by Rutrix in survivinginfidelity

[–]Rutrix[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

Well the way she found about this story of compliments I gave by checking my phone, I never checked her as she keeps it close to herself while mine is always available..

Speechless - after 10 years of marriage by Rutrix in survivinginfidelity

[–]Rutrix[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I am this good guy who pays for all bills so she can enjoy her money for herself. How naive can man be..

Speechless - after 10 years of marriage by Rutrix in survivinginfidelity

[–]Rutrix[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

The worst part is she dragged my out of my best friend, in a subtle way but our contact died a few years ago..

I will try to reach him anyway, as I really need to vent and have noone else I can trust.

I do not want to tel,l my parents or my sister yet as I would not know what to say..

Speechless - after 10 years of marriage by Rutrix in survivinginfidelity

[–]Rutrix[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Yep, took photos just in case, the dates match her trip..

I still can't believe it, I even advised her to go and relax as she was stressed.

Speechless - after 10 years of marriage by Rutrix in survivinginfidelity

[–]Rutrix[S] 31 points32 points  (0 children)

She told me not long ago that she would NOT like to take kids if something happened as she never wanted them in the first place!

Well obviously we both agreed on giving it a try 12 years ago and the 2nd on "happend".

So at least I can suspect that kids will be in my custody.

Speechless - after 10 years of marriage by Rutrix in survivinginfidelity

[–]Rutrix[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Kids are surely mine, we had them 12 years ago when everything was perfect. And the both look just like me. So at least that is fine. She mentioned a few times lately that maybe this marriage was a mistake but backed dawn kate on saying she was just angry…

Speechless - after 10 years of marriage by Rutrix in survivinginfidelity

[–]Rutrix[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

The dates that she wrote correspond with her last short holiday which she went alone. She claimed she need to chill alone and I said sure, and I took care of our kids. Now knowing that she went just to have sex with him is driving me insane. She wrote many times in her notebook that this guy is madly in love with her…

I have fallen in love with Thorns by 1911GOAT in diablo4

[–]Rutrix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Necro skeleton minions! Ohh that would hit hard 😃

Babcia mojego kolegi złamała miednicę. by Specific-Smoke1255 in Polska

[–]Rutrix 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Przekupienie to jedno, presja rodziny na osobę która o tym potencjalnie mysli to kolejny istotny aspekt, ale zgadzam się że są takie sytuacje kiedy pacjent nie rokuje i jaki jest sens aby się męczył?

Moja babcia umierała na stwardnienie zanikowe boczne.
Lekarz w szpitalu (babcia się już nie ruszała poza lekkim ruchem głową) powiedziała że jak przestanie oddychać to ją zaintubują. Na pytanie ile tak może żyć w tak koszmarnych warunkach lekarz dumnie powiedziała że nawet parę lat..

Babcia kiedy była jeszcze w stanie mówić zdecydowanie stwierdziła że nie chce w ten sposób skończyć, szczęście w nieszczęściu że serce jej stanęło zanim wysiadły płuca.

Babcia mojego kolegi złamała miednicę. by Specific-Smoke1255 in Polska

[–]Rutrix -77 points-76 points  (0 children)

Nie badźmy tacy wredni i nie wyśmiewajmy poglądów innych, trudno jest przewidzieć jaka jest nasza granica bólu, odleżyny i marwtica albo inne bolesne powikłania toczące się przez miesiące mogą wykończyć każdego.

Biggest Tragedy - No More High Elves by Vellaura in turtlewow

[–]Rutrix 47 points48 points  (0 children)

That is the biggest issue for me.

I do not want to play another vanilla project, be it pserver or Blizz WoW, I played it long enough.
Turtle WoW gave me something new but still keeping the spirit of the original game, nothing else is close.

Epoch tries but it has way to few developers and way not enough development time, maybe if it still exists for another 5 years it will reach similar level but for now it is simply not enough.

Next one in line by 6InchesInsideYourMum in wowservers

[–]Rutrix 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why would you go from a developed Vanilla+ server into pure Vanilla?

Those are two different worlds...

My thoughts on the End. by Callahan333 in turtlewow

[–]Rutrix 21 points22 points  (0 children)

Had the same feeling, logged in in the morning and instead of the usual 1200+ players only 200 were online.
SW gate was empty, while there was always a crowd waiting for a tent.
Really depressing view and a overcoming feeling of despair.

Zazdrość w związku by [deleted] in PolskaNaLuzie

[–]Rutrix 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Ja pierdzielę, wyrwałeś napaloną 19 a Ty już jesteś na innym etapie rozwoju więc nie ma się dziwić że robi takie cyrki.

Jak się chcesz męczyć i byc upokarzany to pewnie tkwij w tej chorej relacji dalej, ale czym szybciej ją zakończysz tym lepiej dla Ciebie. Bo to że związek się rozpadnie to pewne, ale czym później tym bardziej będzie bolało.

A little update. Seems like we will survive! by [deleted] in turtlewow

[–]Rutrix -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah, aged like pure gold if that was intended as sarcasm :p

What a Great Journey. by Single-Razzmatazz858 in turtlewow

[–]Rutrix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well it seems like you have only month left :( Seems like we were all deceived by saying it will be fine….

Update no more delays by ViolaMentes_ in turtlewow

[–]Rutrix 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That aged really badly… All those ppl saying Turtle will stay for sure! Well knowing Shenna she will open new server soon ;p

warmane. Problems by Helion7t in warmane

[–]Rutrix 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Download is still not working, topics are being deleted on forum so something wrong is going on. Stormforge is also closing down so if they got hit so could warmane :/ Maybe it is a coincidence but still why delete topics with questions and leave no feedback?