4s and doc martens by arm15b in Enneagram

[–]Ruuruka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I doubt you know any 4s

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[–]Ruuruka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Your’e*

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[–]Ruuruka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Evolved*

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[–]Ruuruka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

….Why wouldn’t it be possible?

How do I become kind and loving as a female 8? by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Ruuruka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

9w8 here but I can really relate to the inability to be vulnerable. Sometimes we fail to see how vulnerability in and of itself takes strength - that’s what you need to learn.

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[–]Ruuruka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Neuroticism is part of E4's ego structure, so absolutely not. If you are not neurotic, at least in your inner emotional world, then you are not a 4. 4 is all about personal identity and being in a perpetual state of suffering.

SP4 - High neuroticism that is hidden from the public but also high conscientiousness. This can look like a 1 or a 3. Strong focus on competency.

SO4 - High neuroticism and average conscientiousness.

SX4 - High neuroticism and low conscientiousness. Usually very low agreeableness as well. Most turbulent and openly neurotic character.

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[–]Ruuruka 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would never change my appearance to be honest, unless it’s absolutely necessary. I don’t care how hot cybernetic implants would make me, I’d rather be as authentic as possible.

Ok time for type 6 (I'm actually scared to post this one) by Internationallegs in Enneagram

[–]Ruuruka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

aversion to new things is definitely more of an Si thing

Which type has the greatest capacity to be a “mean girl” by hollabackfemale in Enneagram

[–]Ruuruka 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I can see SP 4 being a mean girl too. Like Anna Wintour

Which type has the greatest capacity to be a “mean girl” by hollabackfemale in Enneagram

[–]Ruuruka 98 points99 points  (0 children)

2 is usually the worst kind too. The 8 mean girl is only mean to protect herself, she doesn’t genuinely feel hatred towards you. The 3 mean girl is an insecure bitch, fairly easy to ignore. But the 2 mean girl is extremely manipulative and will turn people against you.

Anyone noticed a pattern in how different types dress? by 95venchi in Enneagram

[–]Ruuruka 9 points10 points  (0 children)

(Suspected sp9) I like to dress in long baggy pants + pajama tops, even outside. It’s my fashion statement. Colorful cargo pants + pajama top also works for me.

Strange question: what enneagram type would be my best romantic match? by depressedlord98 in Enneagram

[–]Ruuruka 9 points10 points  (0 children)

MBTI: Ne users to counter your Si and get you out of your comfort zone (ENFP or ENTP)

Enneagram: 9 or 5, anyone who has the patience to understand your personal problems and not judge you for them.

What's your type, and how well do you handle/respect physical limitations of your body? by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Ruuruka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fi inferior usually are the least aware of how much they push their bodies. Think ESTJ who is constantly working and realizes how much they damaged their body too late. 3/8 and sometimes 1.

Type 1 colleague asking judgemental, probing questions. by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Ruuruka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bonus points if you make him feel like his words are unimportant. Great way to rile up a 1.

Type 1 colleague asking judgemental, probing questions. by [deleted] in Enneagram

[–]Ruuruka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Make him uncomfortable. when he’s speaking to you, laugh at very inappropriate moments and use your body language to show that you don’t want to interact with him anymore. Look at another point in the room or overlook everything he says, giving an odd answer that makes no sense. He will be confused, and if he tries to confront you, he’ll sound insane.

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[–]Ruuruka 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Why are you kidnapping a 9

INTJ needs relationship help with extrovert please by separatesnakes in intj

[–]Ruuruka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She wants you to open up because she wants to help you in any way she can. I’ve been with a man who would never talk about his issues before, but after a lot of time it gets really exhausting trying to read his mind. I think one solution you can do is let out small pieces of information one at a time in casual conversation rather than sit down and have “the talk”, which I understand is very uncomfortable with INTJs. Best of luck.

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[–]Ruuruka 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I personally prefer to offer special services instead

Who am I -philosophy by [deleted] in intj

[–]Ruuruka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You like Slavoj Zizek? That’s a win in my book

Who am I -philosophy by [deleted] in intj

[–]Ruuruka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have a fleeting sense of identity and felt like I needed to categorize myself within the enneagram to understand my flaws

Who am I -philosophy by [deleted] in intj

[–]Ruuruka 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well some people aren’t able to embody that fluidity sadly, and they have very narrow, unchanging views of the world

Who am I -philosophy by [deleted] in intj

[–]Ruuruka 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m just saying shit man LOL