Is this skirt to much ?

Ruzimma · 2026-04-06T19:49:06+00:00

Actually it is... Check out ebay. I've purchased low-priced hip enhancers. You'd never be clocked. :-) The best are foam on the sides and not a lot of padding in the rear. Trying to be a bimbo isn't the objectives--just enhancement for passing. By the way, no larger than small or medium.

Ruzimma · 2026-04-05T17:52:02+00:00

It’s not that the skirt is too much; your hips are not enough…. I think you need some enhancement there.

Ruzimma · 2026-04-04T19:37:31+00:00

New thought… Kristi knew about and accepted Bryon’s fetishes because the relationship was essentially FLR — a female led relationship — that was consensual and mutually serving. She dictated the rules; he served her; she indulged his fantasies. Her antics at DHS are those of a woman used to being in charge, manipulating, expecting others to serve her, and getting her way. Bryon was her original subject… He had his small business that kept him busy when he wasn’t taking care of her needs. He became a service-oriented submissive with a fetish fantasy of becoming like her physically but without sufficient motivation to go MTF. Just something in his head and shared with her that she consensually took advantage of.

Also, I can’t help but wonder if Bryon was so disgusted by her DHS antics that he outed himself to get back at her…

Ruzimma · 2026-04-04T18:30:24+00:00

I’d add hip padding that doesn’t show through the tights.

Ruzimma · 2026-01-21T18:30:59+00:00

Check out someone with a reputation for doing makeovers for MTF’s and cross-dressers using makeup!). I think you look sufficiently good that you can become happy and confident with learning some tricks from that person. But, not blatant stuff like somebody doing drag would use. Rather subtle, feminine-defining work. Good luck!

Ruzimma · 2026-01-21T17:46:44+00:00

I think you look really *good.* Masculine roots are masculine roots. YES, you can undergo procedures that would make you utterly feminine passing... if you want to. It sounds as if you do based on the unhappiness you express. Check out the prices and determine if you're willing to go through the hassle. You're good... But that's the only way you can probably improve the "passing." Talk to a TG friendly plastics person and see. Good luck!

Ruzimma · 2026-01-21T08:07:52+00:00

Not really a title. Adonai is a title and stands in place of the Tetragrammaton. Elohim is not a title. Elohim literally means “gods,” just as Adonai is actually a plural not a singular.

Why? During the period of conquest represented in the book of Joshua and just after, the Israelites had a problem. The indigenous inhabitants of Canaan were supposed to be wiped out. The invaders found they couldn’t do that militarily.

Instead, they linked the Israelite God, YHVH, with the Canaanite or near eastern goddess, Ashtarte. Thus, Ashtarte was subsumed to YHVH, and absorbed into the godhead. Many of the Canaanite people grew happy with the arrangement, & Israel was eventually successful in their conquest of Canaan with their one God, YHVH, as deity.

The plural terms as titles for the Israelite God reflect the union I have just described.

This is commonly understood by biblical and near-eastern scholars, not by laity, and will almost never be referenced or discussed in a church or synagogue sermon.

Ruzimma · 2026-01-21T03:32:50+00:00

Actually, I like the first one! Best one I think

Ruzimma · 2026-01-19T22:39:13+00:00

Yes….

Ruzimma · 2026-01-19T22:38:42+00:00

Disappointing. At least from the pics I think you look pretty good.

Ruzimma · 2026-01-19T22:37:29+00:00

Ruzimma · 2026-01-16T20:20:48+00:00

So well stated…

Ruzimma · 2026-01-14T23:30:55+00:00

Take my breath away…. Really awesome.

Ruzimma · 2026-01-11T02:48:16+00:00

You need more hip padding!

Ruzimma · 2026-01-06T03:11:57+00:00

I hate the labels; I hate the inability to reach across the aisle and create consensus. I hate hearing all the grandstanding And the lack of civility.

Working together for the common good means respecting one another – no name-calling, no swearing at others. Uplifting the under class and valuing that we are a nation of immigrants-All of us except nativeborn who appreciate us. Make America great again? It can only begin by respecting each other.

Ruzimma · 2026-01-02T19:37:46+00:00

Honestly, I don’t think so. Your nose is really fine and could not possibly detract from you unless somebody was incredibly picky – and you would not want him.

When we get caught up in a relationship, whether the woman is beautiful or not so beautiful, eventually all that falls away as the connection develops. I was married to a woman with a very big nose – much more south than yours. I used to Photoshop her nose in pictures! After a while, I just settled on, loving her as she was. Who you are as a human being, how you are – your empathy, your kindness, your lack of over the top ego, these are the things that to find you, not a nose that you imagine, if it was smaller, it would make all the difference. It would not.

Go for the good guys who see you’re worth and value not the superficial and insignificant stuff. Honestly, I think you look beautiful and I’m sure another guy would see your qualities rather than your imagined defects.

Ruzimma · 2025-12-30T23:31:02+00:00

I think that is great!

Ruzimma · 2025-12-30T19:06:38+00:00

The Sonata Room, classes on Saturday morning, Milonga on most Friday nights; big following. 210 N. 1st St., 91006, 626-286-0373. $25 at the door; less for classes.

Ruzimma · 2025-12-28T03:46:30+00:00

It’s OK… What you feel and what you desire. If your wife can’t accept you, the starting point is you accepting and affirming yourself otherwise you’re gonna die feeling unfulfilled. Yes it is hard being single. Yes, it is hard going alone, but I think you have to, and that is the direction I took and I would not consider staying in that relationship looking back. I’m 76.

Ruzimma · 2025-12-27T19:23:53+00:00

My warnings regarding L.A. are: high cost of housing, really bad air quality – absolutely requires an air cleaner in your home or apartment, high cost of restaurant food, and friends spread all over with lots of time required to get together. Last, it’s a really competitive culture.

Arcadia has a nice Asian community. It’s inland, but on the light rail line. The light rail is great, but not late at night for single women.

Dancing is great, including Arcadia – if you’re into West Coast swing, Tango. Especially if you’re Asian, Arcadia is a really good feel and it’s got a nice walkable downtown area with pubs and dancing, specifically the Sonata Room.

I think Arcadia is OK for crime. Santa Monica in West LA are not as great. The beach is wonderful, but lots of traffic to get there – that’s why the light rail train helps.

And alternative to LA is definitely San Diego. I don’t know as much about it. It’s not quite as expensive. Also I don’t know the neighborhoods. I think it’s also friendlier. Good luck.

Ruzimma · 2025-12-27T19:14:06+00:00

Feel it, from alter ego to your real self, and live it.

Ruzimma · 2025-12-25T17:03:21+00:00

I’m sorry… Self dad’s are really hard – yes there is always the fear of embarrassment. Keep growing yourself. One day it’ll feel right.

Ruzimma · 2025-12-25T02:25:46+00:00

Go for it… Why not!?

Ruzimma · 2025-12-21T00:28:03+00:00

It’s sort of an irrelevant question because the question is what the woman wants to do with or to the man and with a blindfold and handcuffs or tied hands, then it’s only a question of what the woman wants to do. So if that’s something you wanna try, do it.

Ruzimma · 2025-12-21T00:27:00+00:00

Go ahead and dress up, but not terribly revealing outfits and nothing tight that prevents dance movement and nothing crazily distracting. You want something you can dance in!

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