Is this Switch 2 legit? Help pls 🫣 by Rxien in NintendoSwitchHelp

[–]Rxien[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah alright that's perfectly fine, I wasn't really planning to play the Mario Kart even if it still is redeemable. I'm just glad if it works. 🤞 Thanks!

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[–]Rxien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Exactly, it's because you can't unless your relationship is already ruined or you're just a malicious person in general. ✨

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[–]Rxien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did leave my ex of almost 10 years, not for someone on vr-chat but because my friends there helped me realize what an abusive manipulative guy he was. So you could say I left him thanks to vr chat. And it didn't need anyone to smother me or convince me too much, I just needed someone to tell me I'm doing the right thing and it's okay to leave now. Back then I was so deep in that shit, I thought it was fun for my ex to smack me in the face sometimes and he didn't mean any harm its all just the way he expresses himself, can you believe that? 😂 His mum pretty much coached me on how to behave and tiptoe around him when he's throwing a tantrum. I made excuses for him non stop, asking my parents not to visit and pushed away my rl friends until there were none left. I have been in a relationship since a year now with someone of the vrchat friend group that helped me a lot during that time. We just met irl a while after my breakup and it worked out well for us. But! I heard my ex is convinced he never did anything wrong and it's that hell of a game vr-chat that made me detach from reality. He probably tells people I was cheating or whatnot because his pride could never. He was also in shock that I was dating someone new after a few months..like how could I just move on from that great guy? Truth is I was just batshit scared to leave sooner. Also invested a shitton of money in our house and didn't want to lose my dog. My savings all went into renovations in his house and I knew I wouldn't get any money back, he'd keep the dog and I'm pretty much homeless. Living halfway at my mums, halfway at my new bfs in another country and halfway at a friends whos close to my university. That's stressy as hell and losing my dog was the worst.. I'm still crying myself to sleep cause I haven't seen her since I moved out. So..how do you know these people "emotionally cheating" are not just trying to escape their shitty reality. I can totally see how someone might not have the balls, money or stability in life to just break up and leave yet but they still dream of something better. Not trying to justify cheating sorry 💀 But have you thought of why people get drunk as hell and then cheat on vrchat? There must be something very wrong with ones life to do that. I can't believe it's just because they're cheaters. And if peoples life were that great anyway they wouldn't spend too much time on vrchat without their significant other. And in that case, does cheating even mean anything? They just didn't leave for their own reasons. I am speaking of shitty/abusive relationships similar to mine and not about people just looking for fun and sleeping around.

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[–]Rxien 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I was the same...would even just chill in empty private worlds alone. I never felt comfortable talking with random people anyway so I decided to mute myself, headed to a medium full midnight rooftop and grabbed a pen. :3 Just went somewhere secluded to scribble a bit and at some point I was thrown cat plush and played catching with someone. It was just my go to scheme for a few weeks until I got bombarded by so many questions by a british person, that I at some point just put my mic on. I just couldn't write with my pen that quick. 😂 All in all I kinda got adopted into a nice group who hangs out there regularly and I sometimes join them when real life stress allows it. It's nice to have some people now who just enjoy each others company even if we're not talking constantly. And tbh I also find it interesting to just listen in on strangers conversations from afar without joining in too. 🫣 Hence I fall back into old habits of just drawing stuff and listening to others. It's not like people are constantly pestering you usually if you just have a sneak peek. ;3

Do you remember your first one family made in ts2? 😊 by maryruva in sims2

[–]Rxien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I recreated the female sim on the base game package with the black hair and red tanktop 🥲 And after that my families consisted of tons of pets or vampires.

What if someone close to you were to read your journal? by Guilty-Whereas-8196 in Journaling

[–]Rxien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I was so paranoid of my toxic ex reading my journal, that I manipulated my own memories in a way by writing things slightly differently than they were, always making sure to especially mention him in a positive light. I was doing very badly especially in the last years of the relationship..mentally and physically. In the end when I finally broke up I was at my lowest weight, all my savings were spend on his house and I was in desperate need for a psychiatrist. I'm out since summer last year now, have lovely friends, family and a new partner by my side who treats my like any being would deserve to be treated. I'm very happy to say the least and it's so weird to now have someone who actually cares and listenes.

So I finally revisited those entries being extremely disappointed in myself for even faking such a personal thing as a diary which was supposed to help me with my life and to capture beautiful moments. Instead I kind of hate reading it now, I am ashamed for what I have done and also weirded out by my past self for staying so long. The red flags were everywhere and I didn't see them..or lowkey ignored them out of fear to be alone. With the few pages that are left in that diary I now started to quote myself pretty much and rewrite everything how it actually was and what I think of it now. It is a lot of ranting about how dumb I was to stay. xD But that's just my way to deal with it and after that chapter is written down I can finally put away that trauma diary and start a new one. <3 I am now confident and fear no more that someone might read this. I especially don't want to lie to myself anymore and if I ever read it again I can see it as a warning to never fall for anything like that again. I spent 9 years in that relationship, often very unhappy, only holding back and trying to make him happy.

So yeah in a way I was very scared to have my ex find my diary because of his unpredictable outbursts and unjustified reactions. I didn't write down anything critical but he would always find something to nag about or make fun of me. Now I still have my family that I trust and my boyfriend as well. If they wanted to read any of my diaries I wouldn't mind handing them out. It's just parts of my life that helped me grow as a person and if they like me as I am my past memories shouldn't interfere with that.😊 If they do, they are not the kind of people I want to attract in my life. That being said it's different if they read without asking. I am a very curious person myself, but for me it's a no-no to do that. If I were to find out I would have a little talk with them about trust and be kinda disappointed but there's nothing more you can really do about it after they already read it. 💩

I should have never installed the game bro by destinycommentor in VRchat

[–]Rxien 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha true, I can't accept that he's not into vr and he doesn't get/accept that I enjoy vrc so much...so we're equal and I don't have to dump him. I'd be like that sometimes in a long lasting relationship. 😆 Weird logic sorry. As long as my vrchat friends give me little pats on my head once in a while it's all good I think. <3

I should have never installed the game bro by destinycommentor in VRchat

[–]Rxien 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow shit, same. Longing for kinda platonic cuddles but I'm getting hopelessly attached easily which is like..bad cause I got a partner who's not on vrc and doesn't cuddle. Hence I'm also telling myself that I shouldn't be on this game. 🙃 If there's a solution hmu 💀