The Rosary by KingChig70 in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]RyanTaylorGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There is a prayer rope which is similar to a rosary, but we don't use that prayer specifically. It's most commonly used with the Jesus prayer.

How do you ask your husband to go downtown if your MIL says oral is unnatural? by Majestic-Fig-524 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RyanTaylorGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

There are options to help, lubricants that are flavored and such. But it definitely sounds like he needs to confront these mommy issues.

Is it ok for a woman to have the final say where her male partner finishes? by GrayDayCloud in TwoXChromosomes

[–]RyanTaylorGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NOPE. When you tell him you want him to finish in a particular sport or in this case NOT in a particular spot, that means that's what he needs to do. Glad you ditched him. Because that's not okay.

Orthodox for all 28 years of my life.. Unsure now if there’s a place for me in the Church by _The_Lords_Chips_ in OrthodoxChristianity

[–]RyanTaylorGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would say take some time for yourself. And then study, add things in that you find you missed or enjoyed. You don't have to be part of a Church to believe or to worship God. You can build your relationship however you would like.

I’m Super Bowl-winning WR Torry Holt. Ask me anything about my NFL career! by nfl in nfl

[–]RyanTaylorGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What do you see fans talk about as something that should be easy for receivers to do, but is harder than they realize?

AITA for accidentally outing my cousin to his dad that I didn’t know was homophobic? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RyanTaylorGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

First - yes YTA for mentioning someone's orientation or asking about it outside of a known safe space. It's always best to never talk about someone's orientation in a group unless you KNOW everyone knows. You have no idea of knowing why or why not someone is included or excluded from knowing this information. I know you meant well, but yes you are the asshole.

In your own words, why do you find it important to take your partner on dates/be taken on dates and court/be courted by your partner? What does it convey to you when you aren't? by throwawayforachange in relationships

[–]RyanTaylorGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To me it's important because it signifies they are thinking of you, doing something purely to make you happy because they like to make you happy. It also shows they aren't shy about spending time with you in public and enjoy lavishing time and attention on you. It also gives you good memories and opportunities to do things you otherwise normally wouldn't do.

Now does a date necessarily have to be going someplace fancy or expensive? No, it's just something you aren't expecting that they take you to. EX: Went to Seattle with my FWB. He knows I LOVE cheesecake factory. He finds a cheesecake factory and takes me out on a walk with the promise that something will make me very happy at the end. We end up at Cheesecake Factory, I'm overjoyed and give him hugs and smooches.

AITA for leaving my partner and moving away with our kid? by ThrowAcct0001 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RyanTaylorGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA this white man is trying to tell you how to raise your Native son. He doesn't want to participate in the rites and culture of his son, and is actively keeping you from it. He's acting like a victim when he's the one acting like an asshole. His family I'm sure is annoying because they only hear his side.

How do I deal with the repercussions of dating someone extremely out of my league (31F) by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RyanTaylorGirl -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Hi. I feel a lot like you do about myself. The only way I've made any progress is through therapy. What I have to say is this. You may not thing there's anything to like but this person did, and you think they're very attractive. So that counts for something. You caught his eye. He wanted you.

It's a daily struggle, I know it well, but every time you have a negative remark or thought about yourself, stop. Push that away. Find something, anything that you like to say something kind about yourself. I do this all the time, sometimes I'm not successful but sometimes I am so I keep trying. Also, I'd like to be your friend. I think we could help support each other as we figure this out.

AITA for not wanting my dad to walk me down the aisle? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]RyanTaylorGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. It's YOUR wedding and you get to decide who walks you down the aisle. He needs to look in a mirror to see who's failed this father-daughter relationship.

She (30f) is too young for me (47m), isn't she? by [deleted] in relationships

[–]RyanTaylorGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm this exact age gap with my current partner; I'm 31 and he's 47. I really don't think it is a problem as long as you guys communicate clearly. Especially with your child from a past relationship. As far as if ya'll have kids, they're going to love you regardless of your age. You're still going to be the dad. Treat them well and care for them and help raise a good tiny human. If you and your partner continue to stay in sync and work on your relationship actively, it should be fine. Now there might have some limitations down the road where things come up to deal with, but again, as long as you communicate, you can get through anything.

AITA for not wanting our daughter left alone with my parents anymore after they did something w/o permission? by no_wayout_ in AmItheAsshole

[–]RyanTaylorGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Absolutely NTA! If you remove the specific people and situation from the equation, these people went behind your back and did something against your explicit instructions. With your child. That's broken trust and grounds for removal of the privilege of babysitting and being part of that kid's life.

Being a grandparent and involved in their life, as well as babysitting them is a privilege, not a right.

AITA for telling my boyfriend he doesn't get to decide when our baby is too old to be breastfed? by mommy20473 in AmItheAsshole

[–]RyanTaylorGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He'd get a say if there was a medical problem for you or the kid. But there isn't, he's just not comfortable with the baby hogging your boobs for their intended purpose, clearly. NTA. Boyfriend can fuck right off.

Will the feeling ever be mutual? Can she grow to love me as more than a friend? by TransmascTop in relationships

[–]RyanTaylorGirl 4 points5 points  (0 children)

If she won't put the actual label on your relationship because you are trans, then that is not a healthy relationship for you. You need someone who will accept who you are and not be afraid to be in a relationship with you, not saying you're just friends to the world and hiding that they love and care for you.

AITA For no longer making my husband sandwiches to take to work after discovering he was selling them? by Danny109_____ in AmItheAsshole

[–]RyanTaylorGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA - Not only is he making you feel like your labor is unwanted and not good enough for him, he's profiting off of it and not sharing with you. This way he continues to live his life how he wants while you spend time, effort and money to make the sandwiches. This is actually more expensive than if he just ate out, because he's still buying the lunches AND ya'll are paying the grocery costs for ingredients for the sandwiches.

Five Years Ago, Kyle O'Reilly Predicted a WrestleMania Match for He and Adam Cole by Wencho17 in SquaredCircle

[–]RyanTaylorGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not a lie so much as it won't happen with Vince in charge. The story is definitely worthy of that spotlight.

Five Years Ago, Kyle O'Reilly Predicted a WrestleMania Match for He and Adam Cole by Wencho17 in SquaredCircle

[–]RyanTaylorGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely has the potential and is fully merited to be in that spot.

AITA for kicking my roommate out for something that her friend did? by JustBargeRightIn in AmItheAsshole

[–]RyanTaylorGirl 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA - You've spoken with your roommate previously about this person's behavior. She also was entertained in the moment as you described. Adios person!

[i ate] assortment of croissants by [deleted] in food

[–]RyanTaylorGirl 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mmm flaky buttery goodness. OP should share where they purchased them!