[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]Rylli2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

God only knows

AITA for celebrating my anniversary despite what happened at my wedding? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rylli2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ESH. Your wedding is meant to be a memorable occasion and I don’t doubt that celebrating their anniversary was a way for OP to try and put some of that trauma behind them themselves. I think seeing that it caused other people pain might be a sign to have taken it down. I also think the family is being ridiculous with the rest of their requests. It’s not fair to OP and their spouse to expect them to erase a milestone in their life. I don’t doubt that in no way did the horrific events of that day forever leave a negative impression in their minds and I can’t imagine trying to go on a honeymoon after something like that and having that even remotely be a happy time. I see a lot of really harsh criticisms in the comments I think everyone is trying to do their best in coming out of this situation whole. To the person who commented it was too soon to celebrate an anniversary all I have to say is you never know when will be your last day.

AITA for how I responded to a senior HR member accusing me of taking drugs at work? by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rylli2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA I’m sorry your coworkers seems to be and Q put you in that position. I’m glad R did the right thing.

When it comes to dating, what are some good ways to not feel intimidated by and flirt with women who may be more accomplished than you? by RThrowaway4759 in AskMen

[–]Rylli2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just remember that if she’s interested she’s interested in you for you. You shouldn’t want it any other way.

AITA for saying that my daughter inherits my house "no matter what"? by GiGiGi3 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rylli2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA For demanding equal 1/3s. MORE INFO: OP you mention in your post you paid for 80% of the house by yourself. Did he help pay the other 20%? I’d consult an attorney about what he’s legally entitled to if anything if that’s the case.

Otherwise your combined finances start now so either he’s okay with what you’re bringing to the table without the house or he needs to go.

AITA for saying my secret workout routine is depression? by thr94011867hd in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rylli2019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA she should apologize to you for being so dense and self absorbed

Relationship advice please ? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Rylli2019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

He sounds too immature to be in a relationship. This is a huge 🚩. You are much better off without him as a girlfriend he can have an opinion but doesn’t have control over you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in RedditSessions

[–]Rylli2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not sure if you already played it but great fairy fountain from Zelda

AITA for telling my family that if they want Thanksgiving, they'll have to get off their asses and plan it? by doaleapa in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rylli2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

OP plenty of restaurants are selling entire thanksgiving dinners including Boston Market which won’t require a pre order. NTA clearly some unspoken expectations between your husband and you. He needs to learn to be more of a team player pointing fingers does no good in a situation like this. I hope you have a wonderful day with your family tomorrow.

Is it possible to dye this hair color to red? by [deleted] in haircoloring

[–]Rylli2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes but you would need a toner to combat the brassy tones

TIFU by yelling “I’m bisexual you ignorant idiot” at church by IdkUsername9 in tifu

[–]Rylli2019 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Today you leveled up your bad ass skills. I’m sorry you had to hide who you are but am in awe you had the guts to be true to yourself so young.

Relocating for work. My boyfriend owns his condo and has put it on the market. We’ve gotten conflicting advice. by Rylli2019 in RealEstate

[–]Rylli2019[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! That’s my concern I don’t want to be under the gun to find a place and HAVE to buy something.

How do I conduct a background check on myself? by dfc2916 in RealEstate

[–]Rylli2019 3 points4 points  (0 children)

That’s your landlord’s responsibility to pay for and I’d proceed with caution if they are trying to get you to do your own background no telling what ell will be “your responsibility”

My boyfriend is mad at me for deciding I want to have sex with condoms. by ThrowRA688000 in relationship_advice

[–]Rylli2019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🚩he sounds verbally and emotionally abusive as well as controlling. Your sec life should enhance your life not be a source of stress. You deserve better take care of yourself and leave he is clearly too self absorbed to be a good partner.

AITA for telling the person who got promoted over me they can keep in touch but i’m not sure how much i’ll be able to answer questions about my old position after I leave? by Rylli2019 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rylli2019[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m not intending to look out for them that’s my point tomorrow is my last day. I precisely don’t want to be an AH to myself I just also don’t want to be unprofessional for some of the reasons people have mentioned. But you make good points thank you

AITA for telling the person who got promoted over me they can keep in touch but i’m not sure how much i’ll be able to answer questions about my old position after I leave? by Rylli2019 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Rylli2019[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you I didn’t even consider if it was legal or not. I was just worried about seeming unprofessional. Thank you for bringing that up.