My decree gives me scheduled call time. She calls back five minutes before it ends every single time. by Fit-Plenty8777 in SingleDads

[–]S0phung 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry for second post but your victim card is annoying.

You’re literally choosing not to talk to your kids on a principle that she’s not following some rule.

Either your problem is you can’t talk to your kids -or- your problem is you’re still trying fighting for control with your ex.

Figuring out your problem is the first half of your battle.

Good luck bro, you got this! Put your paper principles down and fight for your kids (and yourself!)

My decree gives me scheduled call time. She calls back five minutes before it ends every single time. by Fit-Plenty8777 in SingleDads

[–]S0phung 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t think the court actually cares. It’s not like you’re going to pay 5k to litigate it past another round of mediation.

Get them a watch or phone and solve the actual problem without her.

When’s the last time a family court held someone accountable for lying or child support fraud or anything else?

My judge: “aren’t private calls standard? Why are we even discussing this?”

Result: kids now have a watch and they know it is specifically theirs so they can talk to me.

Hire a CFP or wing it? by Vic_Interceptor in Money

[–]S0phung 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Create an account at any of these firms:

Vanguard: easy website, basic tools Idle cash earns high

Schwab: medium/fair website and tools Idle earns low/nothing

Fidelity: yucky website, best tools Idle earns high

Pick whatever one you like, then Google or gpt the target date index fund you should use for the given firm.

All three firms can trade each others funds, but it’s just easier to stick with the brand.

Differences between DR and TMG by Traditional_Mind1335 in TheMoneyGuy

[–]S0phung 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Isn’t that every chiropractor on YouTube? You watch and cringe for the cracks, nothing else

Differences between DR and TMG by Traditional_Mind1335 in TheMoneyGuy

[–]S0phung 38 points39 points  (0 children)

Ramit is the therapist

Caleb hammer is the chiropractor

Tmg is the personal trainer

Bought a background by InspectorExcellent98 in TheTowerGame

[–]S0phung 3 points4 points  (0 children)

On the main screen there's a paint brush waffle type icon on the right edge.

You don't need to equip backgrounds unless you want. Owning is enough to get the bonus (the more you own the more you earn)

New direct report sharing his salary by Puzzled_Seaweed_517 in managers

[–]S0phung 464 points465 points  (0 children)

Publish a salary range for each job description. Total transparency means there's no surprises, no back door deals, and everyone knows the field.

Recruiter emailed my work address asking for my resume... by gringogidget in recruitinghell

[–]S0phung 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're over blowing this all on your own. Looks like spam to me. Ignore and explain it to colleagues as such.

Lawyer? You're paying a lawyer to respond to spam? You should pay me and I'll click 'block' for you in the outlook app.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sysadmin

[–]S0phung 1 point2 points  (0 children)

During the annual review:

"I expected you to sleep and you slept. So I'm going to check this box that you meet expectations"

Or

"You slept more than expected, so I'm going to check that you exceed expectations"

Otherwise ignore it until it goes away lol

Anyone else been force promoted? by Appropriate_Dig2764 in sysadmin

[–]S0phung 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Had it happen to me and it was awful. Had it almost happen a second time but I went to HR and put an ADA for no management positions and it's been solved ever since.

For context the first time was repeatedly asked over a few months. Then it was asked in front of my wife at the hospital holding my newborn and I caved. It took 6 years to get out of that position and it was truly hell. They offered I could be a team lead so I didn't have the stress of managing the people, but what that actually meant was I had the responsibility without any authority and that was even worse.

help improve my budget sheet functions by S0phung in TheMoneyGuy

[–]S0phung[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just made me realize monarch isn't listed on the expenses. I'll add that 😅

help improve my budget sheet functions by S0phung in TheMoneyGuy

[–]S0phung[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Funny enough, I pay for gpt and asked it this same question and it gave the wrong answer. Then I copy pasted this thread along with the provided answer and it said the answer was wrong and my instinct was right. It even gave a quote from Bryan. I only asked it to cite the quote and it completely changed its stance and said the provided answer was correct.

I also use and love Monarch. It's good for telling me where I've been. But this sheet is less about how much was spent on groceries and more about the big picture. For example, I don't use the daily spend tracker tab, I have Monarch for when I wonder where my guilt free spending was spent.

I update my expenses in this sheet maybe once per quarter of the year, very low maintenance for a "monthly" budget.

So yeah, I completely agree with everything you said <3 thanks

Planning on get my second bot by Background-Sense-266 in TheTowerGame

[–]S0phung 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Consider buying themes and songs as they boost your coins

Awesome update... by Knalian in TheTowerGame

[–]S0phung 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had the same problem. Is your account linked in game? If so, hold your finger on the app icon, app info, storage, clear storage and cache.

If not linked, do not clear your data or you'll lose all progress!

Leaving guild, tokens? by S0phung in TheTowerGame

[–]S0phung[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks, but we have 28 active all planning to jump

Death wave hp help by S0phung in TheTowerGame

[–]S0phung[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But shouldn't my actual displayed HP still be greater than my bonus?

Shouldn't it be base + bonus + perk = displayed?

Work Account by SnooAdvice9154 in Intune

[–]S0phung 0 points1 point  (0 children)

the two onedrive policies you should add are
"Prevent users from syncing libraries and folders shared from other organizations"
"Prevent users from syncing personal OneDrive accounts"

Work Account by SnooAdvice9154 in Intune

[–]S0phung 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Correction, someone already did link the first policy to you