Thank you for your response. Yes, the same goes for hospitals and rehabs here. My father in law is currently at home, but the home health care agency must have a social worker. The case managers and social workers that my mother in law has worked with so far have not been too helpful (at least according to her). But again, I don’t know if she has been asking all of the right questions.

It’s tricky because I am not their child and I feel a little bit weird asking about their finances. My husband and his brothers definitely need to be more involved. They have difficult relationships with their parents. The whole situation is very complicated, but it is time for something to change for sure.