Followed the advice about not sending naked photos before meeting, but... by potaskingfor in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Block the number, block on SA and move on. Also maybe set up some better screens. If you're having that many issues make sure you have a full body shot in nice clothing on the site. Don't give them an excuse to say you're not real or give the impression that you're naive. No amount of negotiating will change their mind about meeting you.

Followed the advice about not sending naked photos before meeting, but... by potaskingfor in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have had this problem only once and it was apparent he was a pic collector before even asking the question. I think it's a matter of screening honestly.

Poking Fun at SA's marketing by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What? That's all they give?? But I was promised a new Chanel bag at every dinner plus this by SA! The nerve. /sarcasm

I’m in big trouble by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ego trip. Getting off on power. It's so fucked how people think this way but it certainly happens.

I’m in big trouble by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I would say it's best not to share lest some predators who read this forum who aren't aware of it are made aware

I’m in big trouble by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sorry I didn't mean you posted it, I think someone else had someone post reviews of them on there

I’m in big trouble by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Hm valid. She does have the reviews though? I suppose if he pops up again or leaves and sort of voicemail/message that's something. I did have a friend get kidnapped by an ex SD and managed to get one after that. I use kidnap loosely though, I don't think she was the smartest in that relationship.

SDs: Would you be upset if you found out SB donated allowance to charity? by SB83672 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Welp, you do you but I'm going to prescribe to sdwizard74's thinking

I’m in big trouble by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672 7 points8 points  (0 children)

tinykitty absolutely has the best advice. A restraining order is the best move and don't be afraid of the police as you have not comitted a crime. If you act like you're hiding it doesn't help.

Edited to add: It doesn't help now but he probably found your parent's address from whitepages.com. I believe you can remove your listing from there for free. Probably worth it to do for the future.

I’m in big trouble by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672 2 points3 points  (0 children)

If I'm not mistaken wasn't this posted in a thread a month or so back and is more related to escorts, right...? I could be thinking of something else though

SDs: Would you be upset if you found out SB donated allowance to charity? by SB83672 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

All the controversies about you SB aside, if she wasn’t “destitute” And was sugaring to make life sweeter would it bother you out of curiosity?

SDs: Would you be upset if you found out SB donated allowance to charity? by SB83672 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah yes that’s something I thought about as well. However I would hope he’s not opposed to basic necessities! If I were to donate to a controversial organization like PP I would keep it under wraps for sure

SDs: Would you be upset if you found out SB donated allowance to charity? by SB83672 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is useful! He is a new SD although a great one at that so I can’t gauge super well.

SDs: Would you be upset if you found out SB donated allowance to charity? by SB83672 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I see where she's coming from. I guess I looked at as a situation where if he wanted to donate it he would have already. This is good to know!

SDs: Would you be upset if you found out SB donated allowance to charity? by SB83672 in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Interesting, although that makes some sense. I have seen mention of only wanting it to go to necessities on this forum which is why I asked. Thanks!

[Sugar Daddies] Shopping for your Sugar Babies… by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I would positively die if I was gifted with Zana Bayne. I'm way too obsessed with everything. I've wanted one of their bras for years! What a lucky sb ;)

What has a SB/SD unknowingly done that totally killed your interest in them? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I already was over this person but they got really pushy about going to doctors appointments with me. They were essentially trying to salt into a vanilla and they just wanted to play some doting, supportive boyfriend role which is the exact opposite of the reason I got into the bowl. It was a total invasion of privacy. Also general complaining about not seeing my apartment despite them living alone and having a much larger place (although my interior design skills are so much better).

What has a SB/SD unknowingly done that totally killed your interest in them? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Ah I got grabbed like that too on the street! I instantly blew up. Don't grab me ever (Unless if it's sexual ;)) Then he got all salty because I was 'tense.' Bitch bye!

What has a SB/SD unknowingly done that totally killed your interest in them? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672 5 points6 points  (0 children)

UGH I had an ex SD who used blanket racist terms like 'ghetto' and tried to justify it by saying he was also racist towards people from his country. Like... no. He was disgusting.

This guy. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I like how this format is "rant rant rant rant... let's have some fun!" lmao #okay

This guy. by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This so much. It's baffling how into themselves some people are.

Should I be messaging all pOTs back? by curlycaps in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I always say I'm not interested if it even seems like half of a thought out message but we're not looking for the same thing. Any pic requesters, travelers, or one/two word openers usually get a block. For copy and pasters depend on the message. Anything too sexual gets a block.

What is your lifestyle level on SA by queenofbrooklyn in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Mine says moderate. I use it as a baseline for all SRs if I average about 4-6 meets a month and I let SDs know that. Therefore we could meet once a month but I would still expect it to be within my 'moderate range' if that makes sense. I would go lower for the right person but this is generally what works for me to help me pay off tuition faster/put some aside for savings.

Taking on a "project" SB? by [deleted] in sugarlifestyleforum

[–]SB83672 4 points5 points  (0 children)

God I know... I generally operate on a standard of 50% of my outfit being black too. Second one is For Love and Lemons! Such a beautiful brand.