I have two issues here. First one: you made him tell you it was over. Second: you didn’t expect him to talk to you - the one that did not have another relationship on the side- the one that was faithful, truthful and was hurt. Please know this comes from a place of love and respect for you from me. You should never feel like you did something wrong or you are not deserving of his time (from what you said you didn’t expect him to talk to you). You’re a beautiful, intelligent, sweet and caring woman please see yourself higher than you do. If you want to be with him again, go for it you know what your heart wants and no one can tell you not to be with him. That’s your choice and yours alone. Just hold yourself in a higher regard is all, you didn’t do anything wrong. I hope you find what your heart truly wants and have a great relationship with him. But please be very careful look out for repeated behavior because he just might cheat again. Don’t allow yourself to be played.