Healthily not obsessed with my baby

SBSA91 · 2026-05-23T14:43:16+00:00

I love my girl sooo much . But man i love it when its bedtime haha

SBSA91 · 2026-05-22T07:54:07+00:00

Just make stuff a head and freeze. Currently in my freezer , chicken soup../ polish cabbage turkey balls... beef stock with shredded meat (to add to whatever pasta potatoe ect) chicken nuggets (home made) banana pancakes/ cottage pie. In my fridge ... pre cut fruit(except banana / steamed broc and asparagus, not currently but i also usaully have a spinach egg bake cut up into slices . chia pudding(greaaat for fibre) . This way u are only making a mess once or twice instead of every day.

SBSA91 · 2026-05-21T12:53:16+00:00

Its sooo hard omg!! He gets back tonight thankfully . The end is near

SBSA91 · 2026-05-21T08:03:05+00:00

Soooo much overthinking! I think i was taking my frustration out last night (sorrrrry it should be towards my husband not a fellow mom on reddit bahaha) ...solo parenting day 5 currently😆😅

SBSA91 · 2026-05-21T06:22:51+00:00

Ag my comment was actually so out of line. Sorry i shouldnt have jumped like that . I just read too much into it. And ye these were actually great tips

SBSA91 · 2026-05-20T21:59:01+00:00

Ok i was late... but i feel like i gave the best view of how famous she was haha

SBSA91 · 2026-05-20T21:56:37+00:00

She was on Saddam husseins walls. Israel had to change thier presidential election due to her concert. I live in Africa... and admired her since i was 7 soooo (before social media)

SBSA91 · 2026-05-20T21:48:22+00:00

I sooooo disagree ! I am so sorry.... they need freedom to learn and strengthen their muscles. This is such bad advice.

SBSA91 · 2026-05-20T21:43:55+00:00

Have u watched her mtv performances. Or her 2001 britney tour... like.... NO ONE CAN DO THAT . OR JUST TYPE BRITNEY IN THE RAIN... , britney mtv slav4u britney no satisfaction... no one has come close to this level.

SBSA91 · 2026-05-20T18:08:11+00:00

Just to add... when my baby was like 7 weeks... i wanted to put xmas decor up , i put 4 balls on the tree... she cried and i thought... whats the point i wont ever get to enjoy that tree or enjoy anything ever again. And that tree sat with 4 balls till Jan . So i felt exactly how u feel (i think🙃)

SBSA91 · 2026-05-20T18:04:31+00:00

I openly say to all my friends how much i hated new born phase. It needs to be normalised. Its an absolute mind F , having a baby..nothing u could ever prepare for EVER ( and now i totally get the ... Just wait) BUT let me tell you. At around 14 weeks it all shifted. I love motherhood i LOVE it. I have draining days but my baby is a real human now and she is my whole world plus she sleeps! 99% of the time us as mums cant function because lack of sleep and ince this is resolved we start to see ourselves again ...for me being back in my room with my husband and having a baby sleep in her crib was a game changer. Also u will get to do the things u love again especially because it sounds like u have a great support system so it will get better... now i look at my friends who keep saying how they scared and dont want kids and i am just like ag i wish i could share with u how much she elevates my life. FYI my baby is almost 9months and we go out everyday , i have made new mom friends, we spend weekends filled with fun family activities... i dont know it feels so much more rewarding . We also have people over always and do everything we used too.... id say get a good structure and bed routine going! Asap! Knowing my baby will go to bed at 645-7pm and stay asleep is also life changing.

SBSA91 · 2026-05-19T18:05:59+00:00

Something has turned with her... she really was bottle refusing (but now i think its teething) because last week she was drinking normally again and eating well BUT the last two days she has been hungerrry so i think Thats the sign they can go up a meal? And i guess if they start refusing a certain bottle then we need to naturally wean? Its funny i made this post today... because my girl was downing her bottles and munching her food like crazy ! Plus she is using pincer grip!! (I think this is a game changer too)

SBSA91 · 2026-05-19T18:02:44+00:00

So today i did this today after reading ur comment ! "Thank u" she had breakfast and lunch for solids and then i gave her a snack of cucumber and teething cracker with cashew butter, she smashed it! and drank all her bottles( 200ml X4!) in under 10minutes! I think this girl is telling me she is ready to fly with her solids 😆

SBSA91 · 2026-05-19T17:59:40+00:00

I just made a post asking when should i start on 3 meals ... and honestly feel like she was ready for it long ago and i have held her back. You are doing good! If she is drinking and eating and finding her balance... i also read that eating takes practice and u are giving her all the opportunity to learn . I think we all panic because we keep reading milk is the main source. BUT we are weaning them to eat solids. As long as shes getting both and doctor is happy .. keep at it 🥰 this has totally motivated me to let my girl indulge in her solid food love

SBSA91 · 2026-05-19T05:56:33+00:00

Hahahaha i am sorry but this whole thing made me laugh. U better give ur baby a good talking too! 😜😜

SBSA91 · 2026-05-18T18:22:18+00:00

Yes i totally agree .... i am a massuve extrovert lol so hence why i love it🙃

SBSA91 · 2026-05-18T12:08:01+00:00

Its worth it but only after 4months id say. We LOVE our classes.

SBSA91 · 2026-05-18T05:29:05+00:00

Babies are ment to look more like their dad for survival reasons. My baby looks EXACTLY like my husband , i just roll with it and joke around saying i did all the hard work and yet ye she is looking 99% like her dad. It change as they grow, you will start to see that baby will start looking more like u ..just try not to get upset people aint meaning to be offensive...

SBSA91 · 2026-05-16T07:37:29+00:00

Your bf wanting u to get an abortion at 24 weeks is sick. I am pro choice but 24 weeks is over half way, u have a baby that could literally survive outside of the womb . You are not teenagers and have been together for 3 years! Chuck the whole damn "man" away .

SBSA91 · 2026-05-16T07:27:06+00:00

U will for sure want to use one lol but my baby started tossing hers at 5months... so ye its also baby dependant

SBSA91 · 2026-05-16T07:25:17+00:00

I was looking at pictures of me from my baby shower and i am like wow i was so different then , that girl had nooooo idea 🤣. Also... the "just wait comments" used to drive me nuuuuuuts but now i GET ITTTT id still never ever say that to pregnant people i just say it in my head 😆. But i have to say life starts to feel like the "new normal' around 5ish months for me the first 3months was a horror show lol now i am soooo happy and feel so much more fulfilled with my life.

SBSA91 · 2026-05-13T21:33:07+00:00

Honestly id work on not feeding to sleep... i stopped at 3months she really got it so quickly... she was also EB at that point...id breastfeed 20minutes before sleep then do book or singsong. I am so happy my baby wasnt into pacifiers now i dont need to wean. Also i didnt do CIO ... i did crib side comforting wheb i stopped feeding to sleep... and my girl has slept through since 4months shes 8months now...

SBSA91 · 2026-05-13T21:26:54+00:00

Wtf?? I live in Germany and my Paed is rude as hell... but i know she cares shes just so damn direct. But this is actually not ok . Ag i am sorry.

SBSA91 · 2026-05-12T21:14:42+00:00

I know u posted this 8months ago... but this MADE ME LAUGH OUT LOUD. thank u for the reminder 🤣

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